But life has to go on, especially in this environment of ancient wives and concubines. The one who suffers from being too serious is himself.
Ning Jiayin thought for a while and said to her: "Although women in the back house rely on their husbands and husbands in life, they must guard their hearts. No matter how hard they encounter, they have the ability to make themselves happy. Marriage has the ability to make yourself happy." Sometimes it really depends on luck. What can make you live a good life is the ability to adjust your emotions. There is no need to make yourself depressed and don't place your hopes on others. But if Mr. Zhang is willing to spend his life with the young lady hand in hand in the future, I think Young Madam, it’s better not to dwell on the past. People’s eyes look forward, and letting others go is also letting ourselves go. We must learn to reconcile with ourselves.” Even people who couldn’t get rid of the sand in their previous lives also lived very hard, but they They are all independent women with unique insights and lifestyles. In fact, it is difficult for women in any dynasty.
Young Madam Liu nodded thoughtfully. What she said was so good. How could she say it so thoroughly? It all went to people's hearts. I didn't expect that Miss Ning would see the world like this at such a young age before she got married. thorough.
"Miss Ning, what you said is so good. After listening to what you said today, I really felt enlightened. I felt that I was too naive before." He said that after being together for a lifetime, he trusted him and married him, but he was disheartened when he had a concubine. She was cold and unwilling to pay attention to him. Now that he had sent away his concubine, she only felt that it had nothing to do with her. She just felt that her heart had died. She wanted to just live in peace and contentment in the future. She never thought that she had to live a good life even for herself.
"Young lady, just think about it. After all, you are in a good mood, and it's okay for the child to be with you."
Yes, there are children. With children, there is hope.
"Young Madam, get ready, I will give you another compression.
Ning Jiayin gave Ms. Liu a meal of chicken soup and checked her body, "Is she still flatulent?"
Mrs. Liu nodded shyly, and Ning Jiayin said to the maid next to her: "Wait a while and rub your young lady's belly every hour for as long as a stick of incense." She said while rubbing her belly. : "Knead it slowly and clockwise like me."
The maid was quite clever, watching and doing it with her hands in the air. After Ning Jiayin finished speaking, she happily said, "My maid can do it."
Ning Jiayin added: "I can change your young lady into clean and fresh underwear tonight. This outfit must be uncomfortable because it was soaked with sweat yesterday."
The maids promised again and again on the side and were already thinking about changing her, but the young lady was in too much pain and kept moaning so they didn't dare to touch her, for fear that she would be in more pain.
Ning Jiayin explained again: "Tomorrow, help your young lady up and walk slowly for a few steps." Then she looked at Mrs. Liu: "Walk as many steps as you can, don't walk too fast, walk slowly. This will help your body recover."
Seeing Ms. Liu nodding, she asked again: "By the way, have Mrs. Gong and the Young Madam talked about the problem of the baby?"
Mrs. Liu nodded again. No one from a wealthy family could breastfeed their own children, but Miss Ning said it was good for her health and she was willing to give it a try.
Ning Jiayin was quite surprised, "Young madam, you can nurse the baby at the same time as the wet nurse. Giving your first milk to the baby will make him stronger."
"First milk?" Ms. Liu didn't understand.
"It's the milk the young lady just gave birth to. It's very nutritious and good for the baby." Ning Jiayin explained briefly.
Mrs. Liu blushed. She didn't understand how Miss Ning could understand everything at such a young age, and her face didn't change even when she talked about it.
Ning Jiayin knew her embarrassment: "If the young lady feels embarrassed, she should breastfeed for at least two months. This will not only increase the relationship between you and the child, but also allow your body to recover faster."
Ms. Liu looked puzzled after hearing this, and Ning Jiayin didn't explain much, so she said to Ms. Liu, "Young madam, I'm going to do the compressions for you now."
After hearing this, Mrs. Liu remembered the feeling of being pressed yesterday, and felt her whole body trembling. She gritted her teeth and prepared herself for the pain in advance. The mother-in-law and maid next to her quickly held Mrs. Liu's hands, one on the left and the other on the right. Ning Jiayin remembered that Mr. Zhang held Mr. Liu's hand during the compression yesterday and asked, "Where is your eldest son?"
A maid in green clothes next to her replied: "The eldest son stayed here all night, and the young lady asked him to go back and rest."
Ning Jiayin looked at Mr. Liu and said, "The eldest son is also sincere to the young lady. The young lady now has a child. From now on, she can put her worries aside and live a good life."
Mrs. Liu closed her eyes and nodded softly. This sentence was heard by Ms. Gong who came over. She was especially grateful to Ning Jiayin for freeing her daughter-in-law. Since her son took a concubine, her daughter-in-law's temperament has completely changed. Seeing the two As she became more and more distant, she tried to persuade her several times, but every time her daughter-in-law made excuses and left before she even opened her mouth, and she had no choice.
After living in this back house for many years, I know that the only one who suffers from being too strong is herself. It would be great if Ning Jiayin could persuade her daughter-in-law to leave.
Ning Jiayin pressed Liu's abdomen again, but it was still so painful. Liu gritted her teeth and still screamed.
Gong felt his ears hurt when he heard the sound.
After completing her mission in Zhang's Mansion, Ning Jiayin set off for the Duke's Mansion. The doctor had already arrived with her mother-in-law. She was extremely excited to see Ning Jiayin, and her beard was raised high. She was so happy to see Ning Jiayin that she Saying hello, Ning Jiayin gave him an earpiece and told him its use. Sure enough, he couldn't put it down just like Dr. Pan. He quickly took his mother-in-law to the side room agreed to yesterday to conduct experiments on his mother-in-law. , causing the old lady and Mrs. Du to laugh again, saying that the old man had made more gaffes in the past two days than in the previous years combined.
The old lady asked again about the situation in the Zhang family. Ning Jiayin answered truthfully. The old lady wanted to lament that the concubine was a trouble, but she stopped when she thought that Ning Jiayin was born to her aunt. She just nodded and said nothing. After entering the house, she was helped by the maid. Lying down on the beauty's bed, Ning Jiayin took off her cotton-padded jacket just like yesterday. The maid had already brought a big blanket and put it on the old lady. Said: "This time I will treat you more thoroughly and make you feel more comfortable for a while."
The old lady responded repeatedly, and Ning Jiayin pushed herself to the point of sweating profusely. The maid next to the old lady saw that she was working so hard, so she asked her: "Miss Ning, can slaves learn from you? If the old lady suffers from an old illness in the future, If she makes a mistake, I can also push her."
When Ning Jiayin heard this, she thought, yes, this massage is just a crash course. Wouldn't it save effort to teach others by yourself? She nodded happily: "Okay, Sister Ling, I can teach you now."
