How to get along with others is actually a very profound topic, because in fact, most of the people who live in this world are dealing with other people, so the ability to deal with interpersonal relationships is very important.
Why do some people like some people, and why do some people dislike them?
This actually comes down to emotional intelligence.
Different people will have different results when dealing with the same thing. In many cases, the result is just a matter of thought.
As the saying goes, one thought is heaven and one thought is hell. In fact, we experience this process every day.
Some people don't know much. They take it for granted and are self-righteous all day long but they like to talk unabashedly. They make themselves hated by gods and ghosts and blame others.
Some people use too much force and are full of sweet words, which makes people feel a little frivolous.
Some people know how to speak less, know how to speak, know how to speak just right, and then handle interpersonal relationships well.
He Yiping used to think that emotional intelligence was just about how you speak, but now he understood that emotional intelligence was not just about speaking.
There are also your expressions, your body movements, your emotions, etc. These are the experiences you bring to others and the things you express.
There is also the rhythm of the topic. Some things are fun when you mention them at the beginning, but people get annoyed if you mention them too much. This level must be mastered very well.
Anyway...
He Yiping felt that he had realized something. This little trick allowed him to learn from Liang Xin what the real way to get along with others was.
Look at the meat skewers in your hands, look at the laughing girls across from you, if it’s like I was so reckless in the beginning and just rushed in and laughed at them, then...
It's too scary, I don't even dare to think about it. Anyway, it will definitely not be in such a happy state now.
Sure enough, sometimes suffering a loss is a blessing.
Besides, I didn’t suffer any loss. I just fell on the ground wearing a raincoat. I was prepared in advance, so it didn’t hurt at all and my pants didn’t get wet.
While eating, he lamented that life is like a drama, and he always has tricks to win people's hearts.
The team building lasted until around two o'clock in the middle of the night. Although it is common for these people to go to bed at two o'clock, classmate Fang Xuening was already yawning one after another.
She didn't eat too much, she just tasted a little bit and didn't eat much. She mainly stayed here to chat with everyone.
After all, it’s time to go to bed and you won’t be able to fall asleep if you eat too much. Although Fang Xuening loves food, his diet is relatively regular, and eating late night snacks can easily lead to weight gain.
As an artist, she still has to pay attention to her body shape.
Anyway, she strongly suspected that the employees of Li Shuyao Studio would be overweight within a few months if they ate the way they did.
Then Li Shuyao and Fang Xuening went to bed, and Lu Yao took care of the rest.
Lu Yao said...
got used to.
"Everyone played and ate today. This video needs to be edited well." Lu Yao rubbed his belly and smiled: "I feel that you have experienced it yourself, so you can definitely edit it better." .”
"Don't worry, Sister Lu, I'll take care of this."
"I'll definitely give you a nice haircut."
"I feel like we can put together a short variety show. It's a pity that Brother Liang and the others didn't take pictures when they came, otherwise it would have been more complete."
Liang Xin and He Yiping smiled and nodded.
Just kidding, how can it be recorded? If the video doesn't miss everything, it must not be recorded. It would be best if there is no video.
"It's okay. There should be videos in the park. I heard that because of the burglary at Yaoyao's house two years ago, the entire park upgraded the outdoor surveillance. I went to their place before and saw that the outdoor surveillance was clear. You can hear everything you say." Lu Yao said.
He Yiping: "???"
And this one? This was something he hadn't thought of before. He subconsciously looked at Liang Xin.
Liang Xin gave him a reassuring look and said with a smile: "The surveillance cameras may not be used by us."
He Yiping instantly felt at ease. Yes, it seems that except for the police, it is not so easy for others to adjust the monitoring. After all, many things here involve privacy.
Privacy must be very important in this park. The park must have very strict rules and it must not be used!
"It's okay. 26 and a half of the 30 people in the security team are Yaoyao's fans. The captain and deputy captain of the security team are still in our housing management group. If they don't involve other people and are just our studio's own people, they should be able to be transferred out. Yes." Lu Yao said with a smile.
He Yiping: "!
! "
These big men in the security team have ulterior motives! It is simply disgusting to think that the residents have such evil thoughts! There are also the captain and deputy captain of the security team. If they don’t protect the owners’ safety all day long, why are they chasing stars here?
He looked at Liang Xin again, and then Liang Xin gave him a reassuring look.
"The weather outside is so bad, the surveillance camera shouldn't be able to see anything." Liang Xin said with a smile.
Yes, He Yiping suddenly realized it.
Although everyone knows about outdoor surveillance, basically it means that you can’t see faces or hear voices...
If you want to use this thing to break the case when you encounter a relatively deceptive surveillance, you have to ask a master to come, the kind of master with a super high IQ who can find different masters in hundreds of glasses of the same water...
It was windy and rainy outside, and both of them had to yell to talk. It was a blessing that the surveillance camera was not blown away by the wind. The fact that two people were walking past was considered a good surveillance, so there should be no problem.
"This... is indeed a problem." Lu Yao nodded: "Let me call and ask."
"Ah? Isn't that bad? It's so late and disturbing others' rest." Liang Xin said quickly.
"It's okay. I don't make personal calls. I call their duty room number. They work shifts and are on duty 24 hours a day. One time I called at 3 o'clock in the middle of the night and someone answered."
He Yiping, Liang Xin: "..."
So why on earth did you call me at 3 o'clock in the middle of the night? How rude!
"Hey... Hey, captain, you are on duty tonight, haha... Yes, there is something. I want to ask. Can you see the surveillance camera at Yaoyao's door clearly? Can you hear the sound?"
Lu Yao asked with a smile:
"Ah, yes, I specially changed the high-definition camera before, haha. Of course, I am assured that you will not be able to see inside the room. I believe in your professional ethics, haha."
He Yiping, Liang Xin: "..."
You have a professional ethics. Your professional ethics is to send these surveillance videos to others! You are practicing favoritism and cheating, you are using power for personal gain, you... you... you are despicable!
Both of them felt like they were being stabbed in the back at the same time. This security captain was simply not a human being!
"Ah? The sound is a bit inaudible. Oh, this is a bit of a pity. The sound of wind and rain outside is too loud. It's a pity." Lu Yao continued: "...Well, please send the video of our door during this period. Just give it to me, yes, they are from our studio. I will edit it when the time comes and make sure there will be no one else. Okay, yes, I don’t want the takeaway boy’s part, but the following part. Okay, thank you. "
He Yiping and Liang Xin breathed a sigh of relief when they heard there was no sound. It was okay, it was okay if there was no sound. Think about the state of the two of them at that time.
Well, as long as there is no sound, it’s acceptable!
