"I am Fang Ying's mother-in-law and Xiao Dudu's grandma. It is natural and my responsibility to take care of Fang Ying's confinement and Xiao Dudu."
Hearing what Jiang Li said, Jiang Boya looked annoyed: "Of course it should be? As an elder, it is right for you, a mother-in-law, to take care of your daughter-in-law and grandchildren, but this does not mean that they are your responsibility, and it does not mean that they should be taken care of as a matter of course. Being looked after by you.
What's more, you are not in good health. We can obviously solve things with money, so why do you need to do it yourself? Or do you only have love for your children and grandchildren, but have forgotten the filial piety you owe to me, your grandfather, and your parents? "
Hearing this, Jiang Li was stunned.
Jiang Boya emphasized: "Li Li, if something happens to you, you will be unfilial to us as elders. We don't want our white-haired people to give away black-haired people. Please take it easy in the future. You really have to take your own body seriously."
Besides, the children are old, whether they are married or have a wife. As adults, they know how to take care of themselves and know what their responsibilities and obligations are. You don’t have to think about them in everything. "
"Dad, look what you said,"
Jiang Li came back to her senses and felt quite helpless: "Parents worry about their children the same way, just like you are worried about my health. Over the years, you have told me to go to the hospital for regular check-ups and cared about me. This cares about me, and I am just standing in your perspective and paying some attention to my child!
Besides, my daughter-in-law is not in a special situation. I am her mother-in-law, so I can take care of her during the confinement period. This is actually nothing. "
"I didn't say I wouldn't let you take care of me. What I meant was that you have to take care of your own body."
Jiang Boya sighed softly: "Why do you think we make money? Isn't it just to let the family have a good life and live a relaxed and happy life every day? Since Zan has money and there are service organizations like the confinement center, we Wouldn’t it be good to spend some money to invite a few more people to help at home?”
"I have invited a confinement nanny and a nanny." Before Jiang Boya could say anything, Jiang Li added, "Everyday I just wash a few diapers for little Dudu, and I don't do any heavy work."
Xiao Dudu uses diapers at night and only uses diapers during the day. She really doesn't feel tired when taking care of the little guy and her daughter-in-law Fang Ying.
Looking at Jiang Li steadily, Jiang Boya was silent for a while and then said: "...Okay, you are right, I can't argue with you."
"Dad! Don't be angry. I know you care about me. This illness is just an accident. As for my reduced immunity, it may be related to the lack of daily exercise I do. I promise to be diligent after I am discharged from the hospital. , keep running every day and keep your body in great shape!”
The ward was very quiet. Luo Yanqing and others stood aside as a backdrop. Seeing Jiang Li smiling favorably at Jiang Boya, they felt quite complicated.
They naturally knew that Jiang Boya said those words out of concern and distress for Jiang Li. This was true, but it made them feel deeply ashamed!
At about nine o'clock in the evening, only Jiang Li and Luo Yanqing were left in the ward.
"Xiao Li, I'm sorry!"
Luo Yanqing's chin was smooth and clean. It was obvious that he had some stubble after taking a shower. At this moment, he was lying on the hospital bed with Jiang Li in his arms. He whispered: "Don't take too much responsibility for yourself. Dad is right." , Luo Mingrui and the others are old. They can take care of themselves and know what their responsibilities are. You don’t need to think about them in everything like before. Just let them go and let them support themselves. Lift up the sky."
"oh."
Jiang Li responded, and then asked: "Then what are you sorry for?"
"The responsibilities and burdens on your shoulders are mine. If my work was not so busy and if I could always be at home, you wouldn't have to worry too much and you wouldn't be tired."
Luo Yanqing's mood was a little depressed. Of course, this depression came from the fact that he felt sorry for Jiang Li and felt that he was not a competent husband and father, so that he put all the burden of the family and the responsibility for his children on Jiang Li's weak shoulders. .
Self-blame and annoyance engulfed his heart. He tightened his arms and said "I'm sorry" again!
"You...how do you want me to say good things to you?"
Jiang Li gently pinched the man's handsome face: "After so many years of marriage, every time something happens to me, you always say sorry to me. Mr. Luo, have you never treated me like an outsider?"
"Absolutely not."
Luo Yanqing answered quickly.
"Really? If not, why do you have to say sorry to me?"
Jiang Li snorted and said, "We are husband and wife. You are busy with work and have no time to take care of your family. I am your wife. Shouldn't I be more concerned about it? Besides, the nature of your work is there, and it's not like I can't figure it out clearly. , I have to make trouble with you to express how wronged I am."
"But I'm really incompetent."
Luo Yanqing said: "From the moment you and I became husband and wife, you were destined to have a hard time, and this is what I have imposed on you."
"Wrong. Let's not talk about whether it was hard or not after marrying you. I chose to be with you willingly and asked for it myself. Therefore, please Mr. Luo not to take responsibility for himself."
After a slight pause, Jiang Li continued: "In addition, don't take what Mr. Jiang said to me to heart. He just feels sorry for me as a father, but I really don't think it is hard to take care of my daughter-in-law during the confinement period. Besides, there are The confinement sister-in-law and the childcare sister-in-law are the main force, and Sister-in-law Xu is here, think about it for yourself, how hard can I go?"
"I feel sorry for you too."
Luo Yanqing's voice was a little muffled: "It's been hard enough for you to take care of Luo Mingrui and the others when they grow up. Is it possible that their children also need you to take care of them all the time?"
"Do you think that's possible?"
Jiang Li asked with a smile.
Luo Yanqing: "When Luo Mingrui's wife flies abroad, you are not allowed to help them take care of their children?"
"...Do you still remember how Tuanzi and the others grew up? If you don't remember, then think about how Doubao grew up to what it is today."
To be honest, the three children in the family who were truly raised by Jiang Li were undoubtedly Mingrui, Minghan, and Mingwei. The three dumplings and the little bean buns were all taken care of by specialized nannies. Before they were three years old, Jiang Li, their mother, only played with them every day, told them stories before going to bed at night, and watched them during the day.
Taking a step back, from Mingrui to Xiao Mingxiu, all seven children in the family are quite sensible. Even if Minghan and Mingchen were more naughty when they were young, they still have nothing to do with naughty children.
They are all smart, and Jiang Li has never had to worry about his studies.
Of course, Jiang Li also didn't work hard in life.
Because after Mingrui was eight years old, he learned how to wash and cook in a short period of time, and gained the ability to live independently.
It can be said that the seven brothers and sisters are all good in the hall and in the kitchen, and they are not the kind of high-scoring imbeciles.
"I am Fang Ying's mother-in-law and Xiao Dudu's grandma. It is natural and my responsibility to take care of Fang Ying's confinement and Xiao Dudu."
Hearing what Jiang Li said, Jiang Boya looked annoyed: "Of course it should be? As an elder, it is right for you, a mother-in-law, to take care of your daughter-in-law and grandchildren, but this does not mean that they are your responsibility, and it does not mean that they should be taken care of as a matter of course. Being looked after by you.
What's more, you are not in good health. We can obviously solve things with money, so why do you need to do it yourself? Or do you only have love for your children and grandchildren, but have forgotten the filial piety you owe to me, your grandfather, and your parents? "
Hearing this, Jiang Li was stunned.
Jiang Boya emphasized: "Li Li, if something happens to you, you will be unfilial to us as elders. We don't want our white-haired people to give away black-haired people. Please take it easy in the future. You really have to take your own body seriously."
Besides, the children are old, whether they are married or have a wife. As adults, they know how to take care of themselves and know what their responsibilities and obligations are. You don’t have to think about them in everything. "
"Dad, look what you said,"
Jiang Li came back to her senses and felt quite helpless: "Parents worry about their children the same way, just like you are worried about my health. Over the years, you have told me to go to the hospital for regular check-ups and cared about me. This cares about me, and I am just standing in your perspective and paying some attention to my child!
Besides, my daughter-in-law is not in a special situation. I am her mother-in-law, so I can take care of her during the confinement period. This is actually nothing. "
"I didn't say I wouldn't let you take care of me. What I meant was that you have to take care of your own body."
Jiang Boya sighed softly: "Why do you think we make money? Isn't it just to let the family have a good life and live a relaxed and happy life every day? Since Zan has money and there are service organizations like the confinement center, we Wouldn’t it be good to spend some money to invite a few more people to help at home?”
"I have invited a confinement nanny and a nanny." Before Jiang Boya could say anything, Jiang Li added, "Everyday I just wash a few diapers for little Dudu, and I don't do any heavy work."
Xiao Dudu uses diapers at night and only uses diapers during the day. She really doesn't feel tired when taking care of the little guy and her daughter-in-law Fang Ying.
Looking at Jiang Li steadily, Jiang Boya was silent for a while and then said: "...Okay, you are right, I can't argue with you."
"Dad! Don't be angry. I know you care about me. This illness is just an accident. As for my reduced immunity, it may be related to the lack of daily exercise I do. I promise to be diligent after I am discharged from the hospital. , keep running every day and keep your body in great shape!”
The ward was very quiet. Luo Yanqing and others stood aside as a backdrop. Seeing Jiang Li smiling favorably at Jiang Boya, they felt quite complicated.
They naturally knew that Jiang Boya said those words out of concern and distress for Jiang Li. This was true, but it made them feel deeply ashamed!
At about nine o'clock in the evening, only Jiang Li and Luo Yanqing were left in the ward.
"Xiao Li, I'm sorry!"
Luo Yanqing's chin was smooth and clean. It was obvious that he had some stubble after taking a shower. At this moment, he was lying on the hospital bed with Jiang Li in his arms. He whispered: "Don't take too much responsibility for yourself. Dad is right." , Luo Mingrui and the others are old. They can take care of themselves and know what their responsibilities are. You don’t need to think about them in everything like before. Just let them go and let them support themselves. Lift up the sky."
"oh."
Jiang Li responded, and then asked: "Then what are you sorry for?"
"The responsibilities and burdens on your shoulders are mine. If my work was not so busy and if I could always be at home, you wouldn't have to worry too much and you wouldn't be tired."
Luo Yanqing's mood was a little depressed. Of course, this depression came from the fact that he felt sorry for Jiang Li and felt that he was not a competent husband and father, so that he put all the burden of the family and the responsibility for his children on Jiang Li's weak shoulders. .
Self-blame and annoyance engulfed his heart. He tightened his arms and said "I'm sorry" again!
"You...how do you want me to say good things to you?"
Jiang Li gently pinched the man's handsome face: "After so many years of marriage, every time something happens to me, you always say sorry to me. Mr. Luo, have you never treated me like an outsider?"
"Absolutely not."
Luo Yanqing answered quickly.
"Really? If not, why do you have to say sorry to me?"
Jiang Li snorted and said, "We are husband and wife. You are busy with work and have no time to take care of your family. I am your wife. Shouldn't I be more concerned about it? Besides, the nature of your work is there, and it's not like I can't figure it out clearly. , I have to make trouble with you to express how wronged I am."
"But I'm really incompetent."
Luo Yanqing said: "From the moment you and I became husband and wife, you were destined to have a hard time, and this is what I have imposed on you."
"Wrong. Let's not talk about whether it was hard or not after marrying you. I chose to be with you willingly and asked for it myself. Therefore, please Mr. Luo not to take responsibility for himself."
After a slight pause, Jiang Li continued: "In addition, don't take what Mr. Jiang said to me to heart. He just feels sorry for me as a father, but I really don't think it is hard to take care of my daughter-in-law during the confinement period. Besides, there are The confinement sister-in-law and the childcare sister-in-law are the main force, and Sister-in-law Xu is here, think about it for yourself, how hard can I go?"
"I feel sorry for you too."
Luo Yanqing's voice was a little muffled: "It's been hard enough for you to take care of Luo Mingrui and the others when they grow up. Is it possible that their children also need you to take care of them all the time?"
"Do you think that's possible?"
Jiang Li asked with a smile.
Luo Yanqing: "When Luo Mingrui's wife flies abroad, you are not allowed to help them take care of their children?"
"...Do you still remember how Tuanzi and the others grew up? If you don't remember, then think about how Doubao grew up to what it is today."
To be honest, the three children in the family who were truly raised by Jiang Li were undoubtedly Mingrui, Minghan, and Mingwei. The three dumplings and the little bean buns were all taken care of by specialized nannies. Before they were three years old, Jiang Li, their mother, only played with them every day, told them stories before going to bed at night, and watched them during the day.
Taking a step back, from Mingrui to Xiao Mingxiu, all seven children in the family are quite sensible. Even if Minghan and Mingchen were naughty when they were young, they still have nothing to do with naughty children.
They are all smart, and Jiang Li has never had to worry about his studies.
Of course, Jiang Li also didn't work hard in life.
Because after Mingrui was eight years old, he learned how to wash and cook in a short period of time, and gained the ability to live independently.
It can be said that the seven brothers and sisters are all good in the hall and in the kitchen, and they are not the kind of high-scoring imbeciles.
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