"this……"
Jiang Li didn't say anything for a long time.
"You don't agree with your brother's divorce?"
Cai Xiufang looked at Jiang Li: "Do you think it's not good for the child?"
Hearing this, Jiang Li shook his head: "I don't disagree, but what I just said was a bit unexpected."
"What's the surprise?"
Cai Xiufang sighed: "Although the saying goes, 'It would be better to demolish ten temples than ruin one marriage,' but your father and I are not old feudal people. We know that your little brother is not living a good life. As parents, how can we Can you let your little brother keep humiliating himself just because of his face?"
"Mom, you and my dad are very open-minded!"
Jiang Li said with a smile: "I thought you wouldn't be able to accept it. After all, not only in our rural areas, but also in this city, once a couple divorces, not only will they be talked about, but they will also be talked about in their own homes. Being talked about behind your back won’t make your reputation any better anyway.”
Now we are approaching the 1990s. Well, when we turn over the New Year, time will enter the 90s, but divorce is still not something to be publicized, especially in rural areas. Once the children of a family are divorced, they will definitely be punished. The villagers pointed.
No wonder Jiang Li was a little surprised after hearing what Cai Xiufang said a moment ago.
Well, in fact, Jiang Li quickly figured out that whether it was Captain Jiang or Cai Xiufang, both of them were once village cadres. As a result, their ideological consciousness was not comparable to that of ordinary villagers.
"What's the point of being said something to someone?! You live your life alone, and others don't know how it is. What's more, your brother is outside. Even if the people in the village know that he is divorced, it is inevitable to say a few words at first. As time goes by, , I’ll just feel boring if I mention it again!”
Her son works in Beicheng. He is good-looking and capable. Even if he is divorced and never remarries, his life will only be better.
What do other people have to laugh at?
"Yes, you will definitely be talked about at first. As time goes by, as long as the divorced person continues to live his life and is no worse than before, outsiders will have nothing to talk about."
Jiang Li smiled and said in a light and indifferent tone: "However, after the fifth sister-in-law's illness is cured, if my brother feels that the two of us can still live together, let's not say anything. If my brother doesn't want to persevere, Then we will support his decision."
In fact, the moment Wang Pan broke into the ward more than two months ago and spoke rudely, Jiang Li thought that such a person was really not worthy of Jiang Guoan. When Jiang Guoan filed for divorce, her true thoughts were to support him.
But due to the situation at the time, thinking of her nephew, and her own identity, Jiang Li could only persuade her to make peace.
Otherwise, Wang Pan will definitely cause more trouble.
It will also bring her the reputation of breaking up the marriage of her brother and sister-in-law.
Of course, she doesn't care about reputation, because for her, as long as what she says and does is true to her heart, she doesn't care about anything else.
But if it causes any irreparable consequences, the matter will become a big mess. Not to mention what will happen to her, Jiang Guoan will definitely be condemned by many people.
reason?
According to her observations, Wang Pan has obviously become a bit crazy in recent years. If Jiang Guoan insisted on getting a divorce that day, the other party might not directly think about it.
In this case, regardless of whether he died or not, Jiang Guoan would not be in trouble.
It may even be resented by children.
Based on this, Jiang Li's attitude is that even if Jiang Guoan really wants a divorce, it's best to reconcile and break up.
To avoid unpredictable consequences!
…
Time flies so fast and it’s December in a blink of an eye.
It was the weekend, and Jiang Guoan drove his son to Jiang Li's house.
"Brother, are you sure you didn't lie to us?"
In the living room, Jiang Li's eyes were full of surprise, and he didn't quite believe what Jiang Guoan said.
separated? !
Three days ago, Jiang Guoan not only divorced Wang Pan, but the Wang family took the decision and took the divorce procedures between Wang Pan and Jiang Guoan. Wang Pan was calm and did not make any fuss at all.
It's a little too unreal.
Captain Jiang and Cai Xiufang, as well as Luo Yanqing, who had just returned home from vacation recently, were also surprised by Jiang Guoan's words.
"You think I'm joking?"
Jiang Guoan looked at Jiang Li, and then turned his attention to Captain Jiang and Cai Xiufang: "Wang Pan's illness was basically cured half a month ago, but she said that she felt a lot of pressure if she continued to live with me, and when she saw It’s hard for me not to think of Li Bao’s excellence..."
Captain Jiang frowned: "Why does the matter between you and your wife involve Li Bao?"
"Dad, it's not that I want to involve Li Bao in the matter between me and Wang Pan. It's Wang Pan that even though she has recovered from her illness, she said that if she still lives with me, she will inevitably see Li Bao, and Li Bao is too good, and even though she doesn't want to be jealous, she can't control herself from being jealous, so she feels it's too much pressure to continue living with me, so she chooses to divorce and stay away from me, which means staying away from Li Bao."
As soon as Jiang Guoan said these words, before Captain Jiang could say anything, Luo Yan's clear and deep voice sounded first: "What are these words? Is there anything wrong with Xiao Li's excellence? She is narrow-minded and jealous of others. It’s simply unreasonable to blame Xiao Li for the divorce!”
"...I know it has nothing to do with Li Bao, it's Wang Pan's own problem."
Jiang Guoan explained.
Luo Yanqing: "I don't want to hear that your divorce, brother-in-law, has anything to do with Xiao Li. She has never been sorry to you and your wife, and as far as I know, your ex-wife has caused a lot of trouble for Xiao Li."
"I wasn't led by you to do some kind of psychological treatment. Is this the result of the treatment?"
Cai Xiufang also expressed her dissatisfaction: "Since the illness has recovered, why did she bring Li Bao out to make excuses when she divorced you? Let me tell you, it is indeed her own narrow-mindedness that does not allow others to be better than her."
"Is Xiaochao okay?"
Jiang Li was not angry. She asked her nephew Jiang Chao whether he had been affected by his parents' divorce.
"fine."
Jiang Guoan said: "I cried a lot when I learned that his mother divorced me. After I explained the reasons, I felt better."
At the same time, in the dumpling house.
Tangyuan and Guoguo sat next to their little cousin Jiang Chao.
Tuanzi sat across from the three of them.
"Xiaochao, although my aunt and uncle are divorced, you have not lost your mother. If you think about it in the future, let your uncle take you to see your aunt. In addition, you still have many of our relatives who love you. Don't be sad. !”
She heard from her cousin Jiang Chao that her uncle and aunt were getting divorced. The room was quiet for a while. At this moment, Guoguo broke the dull atmosphere around her and comforted the little boy who was about eight or nine years old sitting next to her.
"I am not sad."
The little boy, Jiang Chao, the son of Jiang Guoan and Wang Pan, had tears in his eyes, but he held back the tears. He shook his head and said in his childish voice: "I am divorced. To my father." Mom is fine, I’m not sad at all!”
My father is very tired from work, but my mother is inconsiderate and does nothing at home. She often quarrels with my father and speaks ill of my sister-in-law. Now that my parents are divorced, the house has become very quiet, although it makes him feel uncomfortable and lost. , but compared to always hearing noisy noises, there is nothing wrong with this.
Then catch the bugs. . .
(End of chapter)
