I don’t know the sense of boundaries.
Because the old lady is the mother-in-law.
She thought that if she came from a son's house, she could come whenever she wanted, so who would she need to notify?
Not to mention the notice, she thought that she could even come to her second son's house to eat whatever she wanted and take whatever she wanted while she was still young and had worked hard to support the children.
Not to mention everything in this family, which is the property and fields she allocated.
Just because Gu Sufen is the sister-in-law, there is no need to have a sense of boundaries.
Gu Sufen believes: Before we were separated, we all ate from the same rice pot for many years. When I opened the door of your house in those years, I didn’t see that you smelled too much, but now I am still walking on the same level.
What's more, we are real relatives who are as close as we can get. The door is locked outside and there is no place to wait for people to come in and sit inside to worry about anything. They just jumped over the wall and didn't take anything conveniently, just out of concern.
Aren't we a family? A family that loves each other.
So Gu Sufen didn't take Xu Youyin's anger seriously.
She walked over from the bustling cellar first, and when she saw Mrs. Xu, she slapped her thigh and said:
"Brother and sister, you are back. You don't know that my mother is very angry. How can you borrow so much food on credit? You are too courageous. What are you going to do?"
Mrs. Xu looked at the cheap lady in front of her.
This was the first time I met Gu Sufen in real life.
At this time, Mrs. Xu's anger surged upward.
It can be said that as long as Mrs. Xu is afraid that the salt in her house will be uncovered, she will be angry.
I was almost discovered, thanks to the salt I had at home sewn into the pillow.
Not to mention, after listening to those words, you knew that she had already gone through everything that should be read and shouldn't be read, while she was not at home, so you don't want to look old.
Mrs. Xu pulled Gu Sufen aside with all her might, and she had to step aside first to let her children enter the hospital to unload the cart. Otherwise, the three of her family would be exhausted and covered in sacks.
Then he grabbed Gu Sufen with one hand and greeted the three sons who had finished unloading the car with the other hand:
"Come on, follow me to your aunt's house to see how much food she has stored. She has come to see our family, so we should also go and see her house. It just so happens that our family doesn't have enough for everything. Go to your house. I’ll check it out carefully and know what I know. We’re all real relatives, so borrowing anything in the future will be cheap, right? There’s no need to write an IOU, just pay it back if you have it, and throw it away if you don’t have it.”
Old Mrs. Xu thought to herself that there is no sense in making sense with such a shameless person who has no sense of boundaries.
The old man asked why he jumped over the wall after the family had separated too early, but Gu Sufen looked unconcerned.
If we don’t understand the sense of boundaries, then we don’t understand them at all.
The biggest psychological shackles in the world is that you want face, but she doesn't.
She wants to break free from these unnecessary shackles. She doesn't like to be restrained by shame.
Gu Sufen was dragged out by Mrs. Xu. She panicked a little and shouted in the direction of the wing: "Mom, come out quickly and take care of the second wife."
The old lady had been pulling a jar in the side room just now, and now she ran out with her little feet tight.
Thinking of the pile of famine in the courtyard, and seeing the second daughter-in-law enter the courtyard, she started fighting with the eldest daughter-in-law. The anger boiled out, she pinched her waist and opened her mouth and cursed loudly:
"You are a loser, a shameless little whore, and you still have the nerve to argue with your sister-in-law. Isn't she doing it for your own good?
You owe it to famine, but you still eat hard. Are you suffering from gluttony? With so much food brought back on credit, were you a starving ghost in your previous life?
Our old Xu family has been unlucky enough to marry you for eight lifetimes, yet we shamelessly spread the news to the villages outside saying that you are in charge of things, and you will show off when you are older. The hair on your face is all white and you are so stinky.
Bah, I think Famine is quite capable of stirring up trouble, so I can't help but have an affair with someone! "
Xu Tianxin: "You?!"
She has needles.
Xu Tianxin felt like he was going to be pissed to death.
In all her life, she has never heard such unpleasant words.
What kind of grandma is this? She wants to sew up her pacifier with a needle.
Mrs. Xu grabbed her granddaughter and Yu Qiniang who were about to come forward to argue. The granddaughter and daughter-in-law were so angry that they cried with anger and their whole bodies were visibly shaking.
There is no need for the children to come forward, these are all small scenes.
After Mrs. Xu stopped Tian Xin, she also pinched her waist. She pinched the waist of the old woman who was meeting for the first time, and scolded the children not to interrupt.
People here care about a bullshit reputation, otherwise it would be unfilial.
Then she will no longer have this reputation today. Anyway, she will not find a partner or take the imperial examination in the future, and will not be delayed. She can sue wherever she likes.
Mrs. Xu looked at the old woman in front of her, pinched her waist and raised her neck and cursed:
"Old lady, did I put your second son in a sack and jump across the river together with the sack, or did I fail to raise a few children of the Xu family and sold them for money, and you called me a loser?
Me whore? Have you ever caught me cuckolding your second son? Or is it because you found out that your son is not good enough? You keep calling him a prostitute. These children are not named Xu?
If you dare to scold me again, I will tell you clearly. If you dare to have a bad mouth in the future, I will do whatever you scold me. Then I will really go out and find someone with a leg, and I will give you back. These children change their surnames, do you think I dare? "
The old lady and Gu Sufen both expressed disbelief and were extremely shocked.
I have never dared to scold my mother-in-law like this here, so I almost thought there was something wrong with my ears.
And the old lady didn't even think that she was scolding her harshly, because mothers-in-law in every household often scolded their daughters-in-law like this.
This was the first time that my daughter-in-law scolded me, and I was stunned for a while.
Mrs. Xu looked at their confused expressions and thought:
If you didn't slap me, you were already holding back for the sake of your three sons.
If her biological mother dared to scold her for her dirty work because she had a child, she would dare to do it to her, let alone the dead old woman in front of her.
And don't even think about using your little bit of property and land to lord it over her. She can bear it, but she has no way out here. She must be strangled to death in a ditch by that old godly woman.
Besides, she didn't understand. What could she endure? Was the family property and land given to her? If the Xu family didn't have those things, I wouldn't have married your old Xu family back then.
And as Mrs. Xu was not used to being a mother-in-law, these words immediately made the old woman fall down in anger. She ran to the gate and sat down slapping her thighs and crying. Gu Sufen also yelled for everyone to come and see it. If anything went against the grain, everyone would be judged. Many people from the village rushed over. What's going on?
Then the villagers saw them gathering people to do two things.
They found it so enjoyable that they couldn't even interrupt or help.
If the convener scolds you, the following are:
"I'm unfilial? No one in my family dares to jump into the yard and rummage through things. If I hadn't been filial, I would have swung the wall for you to feed the flies. This morning, the official lost a hundred taels of silver, so why did you let you go so far? Come back next time, You see if I apply for an official position, the one with the surname Gu will get it!"
"I'm shameless? I think you are the ones who starve to death when mosquitoes bite you. You can't bite them in. You are too shameless. You always say that relatives are good for my family. You can take care of yourselves. I will not harm my family. I don’t know this about human affairs. I really want to do my family’s good and lend money and food, so why don’t I pay attention to real relatives when I do this?”
"Old lady, please stop trying to sell me favors. If you don't come, I will ask you, what kind of work do your eldest son and grandson do? What kind of work do these boys in my family do? Before I go out, , what did you say, this is what you call a bowl of water that is flat? Before leaving, our boys carried the wood without shaking their legs or shaking their bodies. But when they came back, they were so thin that all they had was skin and tendons. They were as thin as that It’s like hanging clothes…”
"What does it have to do with you, old lady, how much money I have in my family to waste my family? Children, please tell me how much money your uncle and aunt's family has. I will also go and look it up. If you have food and milk, how much private money do you have and become a villager?" Let's talk about it in front of you, you don't want everyone to judge..."
"Shut up, Gu, you are the worst person. The old lady still has some room to speak, who do you think she is?
Firstly, you have no kindness to give birth, and secondly, you have no feeling of help. Go back and tell the man in your family that from now on, our two families will not move around, otherwise you dare to jump into my yard, rummage through my things, chew my tongue, or do anything out of the ordinary. If you dare to do it in the first grade of junior high school, I will do it in the fifteenth grade. Then we will ride on the donkey and look at the ledger and wait and see. Don’t blame anyone. "
The more Mrs. Xu scolded, the angrier she became. As she spoke, she stretched out her hand to scratch.
He reached out and grabbed her sister-in-law's hair, wanting to vent her anger on her behalf.
Mrs. Xu cursed while pulling Gu Sufen's hair:
"You're quite big, with a basket on your crotch, and you look like you're not even tall enough.
I don’t know if Mom has eaten more salt than I have, but I know that you eat a lot of salt, which makes you so idle all day long that you are so busy that you chew your tongue, stir things up, catch the wind, and poke things inside and out.
Don't just eat carrots all day long and worry about my housework. Our second room eats your food, and the dog poop is still in your pot. Take care of your own rice bowl. The bottom of your pot is still full of ashes. Don't make yourself sick. Still thinking about prescribing medicine for others. "
The villagers shouted: Good guy!
No one can get used to this.
The old lady slapped her thighs and howled: "Mr. Hao, you are such a heartless person, your heart is iron-clad. Second son, you will never die in peace. Old man, you all open your eyes and see, this is the unlucky person who got married." Wife, one person has cheated three generations. It’s a good thing I didn’t take my second wife with me when we separated, otherwise I would have died a long time ago, and she would have crushed all my bones and dregs."
The old lady wiped her tears with her sleeves, then suddenly stamped her arms and said, "Give me the money! I won't care about it from now on. Mr. Hao, please pay me back the money!"
When Xu Tianxin heard Tai Nai mention this, he immediately turned around.
When he turned around, he almost bumped into his uncles. It was obvious that thinking of going together, he had to go into the house to get money and return the two taels of silver.
At the same time, Gu Sufen, who was pulled away from the fight, was also trying to reassure Mrs. Xu and Sanyou:
"If you can't pay for the famine, don't come looking for us. Everyone, bear witness to us. If you dare to lick your face and come to your door, you are shameless. We don't have one in our family, so we will break off the relationship!"
The three brothers of the Xu family said: "Don't worry, our family won't ask for food at the door of the uncle's house."
Auntie made such a fuss and instigated grandma to fight, wasn't it just to break away from the relationship?
When a person is poor, relatives go around.
