Mrs. Xu "heard" the original person say: "If the children can choose who will be their parents before they are born, they probably won't be willing to give a son to an incompetent mother like me."
Mrs. Xu wanted to shake her head at her original body in her dream.
Not everyone’s parents are the richest people.
Rich people only account for a few tenths of a thousand or even ten thousandths.
As a parent, who doesn’t want to be a guardian for their children, and will do their best no matter what the conditions are.
Then you have to have good conditions to be called a good parent? It's enough to go all out.
She wanted to persuade the original person not to belittle herself.
Mrs. Xu inherited the memory of the original person and understood that the original person wanted to remarry the old man in the later period. In fact, she also wanted to find a safe family for Tian Xin to marry before she left. She did not want to burden her three sons.
If she were lucky enough to find a blind, rich old man, she was thinking that she could secretly get some subsidies from her wife to provide for her children, and she wanted the old man to help her.
To understand an ancient old lady, all she can see is that she can change her conditions by getting married.
Even in modern times, as generations of women enter the workplace and make money on their own, they realize that it is unreliable to change their destiny by marrying again and again. They rely on everyone to run away, and they have to rely on themselves to get married. Find a good one, otherwise you won’t be able to meet one even if you want to.
Not to mention the restrictions on women in ancient times, there are no jobs for women to make money here.
Even if you want to be independent and strong, you have no chance.
Wherever you go in this world, there are roadblocks. If you want to see the world, you can't just see it. It was not until this year that the "Three You" had the opportunity to go to the county that they stayed for a long time.
If you want to start a small business, you must have a way to go out, and you must also consider the cost. And the less capital people have, the more they dare not easily make up their minds to do business.
Because it is called a bad deal that will shake the foundation, unlike those rich people who lose money and are not afraid that they will not be able to turn around. She has also had such a mentality and experience. The less she has, the less she dares to bother.
So how could the original person not want to help his children, and could only think that he was the "capital", so he clamored to get remarried, but the old woman yelled at him as an old prostitute in front of the whole village.
What a feeling, I feel wronged, it's not like I can't stay a widow at all. But his character was looked down upon by his uncle and his sister-in-law, and he was laughed at by the women in the village who had husbands.
At this time, Mrs. Xu dreamed that the original person said to her:
"Old sister, if you still use the old way of making noodles, you want your sons to remember me. I know you are a kind-hearted person.
But don't have any worries in the future. You can live a good life with your sons in a down-to-earth manner. I will never come again.
All I want from this trip is that you will not feel uncomfortable with them in the future, treat them as if they are your own children, and let them remember the taste of your cooking in the future.
Because you cook better than me.
What mother doesn’t hope that the taste left in the memory of her children will be good and fragrant? I hope they will say that my mother’s cooking is the best..."
The more the original person thanked Mrs. Xu for being a capable mother who would definitely be good to the children and that she could completely relax and leave this time, the more Mrs. Xu shouted in her dream not to leave.
Mrs. Xu sat up in a hurry, touching her heart to swallow the words that came to her lips.
Thought:
He didn't stop after all, as he was afraid that she wouldn't take over. He even left quickly for the sake of the children, because he was afraid that the long talk would make her unhappy and it would be bad for the children.
In fact, there was only one thing that Mrs. Xu almost shouted, and that was:
There was too much grass seed porridge and elm bark noodles in my belly. My life was too unfair. I hoped that my original body would be reborn in an era where I could have enough to eat.
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After Mrs. Xu woke up from her dream, she calmed down for a long time before moving to the window, opening the bamboo curtains and looking outside.
Since Sanyou arrived home, it has stopped raining outside.
Do you think this is a good sign?
Mrs. Xu got down from the kang to stretch her body. I don’t know if it was an illusion, but she felt much lighter today.
And if you think about it superstitiously, this thing is called "the original body has been reincarnated." She will no longer be affected by the original body's emotions, so she will feel very light.
By the way, even though this body looks like she is only in her forties but not yet fifty, it is really not as good as her modern physical condition.
In modern times, she pays special attention to health care. She must maintain her longevity so that she can stay with her granddaughter for a few more years.
A non-superstitious way of saying it is that you take the initiative to overcome psychological obstacles.
Mrs. Xu viewed this dream this way:
The reason why she had this dream could only mean that she was thinking about something every day and dreaming about it at night.
I was picking up my son halfway, but it seemed that I felt a little uncomfortable and lacked confidence.
After you finish this dream, you can completely let go of your psychological burden, and then your whole body will naturally relax. This is just a problem with my own psychology.
It can be seen that Mrs. Xu only becomes distracted and superstitious when it comes to her granddaughter.
Why would those officials, educated people, and big bosses believe anything and even be deceived? You see, those who have bigger careers are more willing to go to temples to worship gods. Can you say that those people have IQ problems? It can only mean that there is a demon in your heart.
As for her, the only demonic obstacle in her heart that cannot be overcome is her granddaughter.
As for "San You" and other people, she can resolve them in a dream and rationally analyze them as her own psychological problems.
The original person has never been here at all, right? If we don’t talk too much, we won’t be afraid.
After Mrs. Xu folded the quilt, she went outside to look for her "devil barrier".
"Tian Xin, Tian Xin'er, Dabao'er?"
There was no one in the hut, and there was no one in the back garden.
Not only was her granddaughter missing, but her family members and their daughter-in-law were also missing.
Mrs. Xu felt puzzled. She had clearly ordered her whole family not to participate in fishing and earn work points today before going to bed last night, just to let the "three you" have a good rest.
Otherwise, if the three of them go out to work, can the three of them stay at home? I just stayed here and did the housework. It just so happened that there was no rain today, which was really annoying.
Moreover, Mrs. Xu was still thinking about asking Guan Ertuo to take the pulse of "Sanyou" and let Guan Ertuo act as a male "intimate old man" and say, "If you don't tell your mother, please take off your clothes and show me."
Then he turned around and quietly gave her inside information about any injuries on his body.
She could feel that her sons didn't want to admit that they were digging sewers outside. Whether it was due to self-esteem issues or because they were afraid that she would feel uncomfortable hearing it, she planned to cooperate and pretend not to know, but she had to know how the children were doing.
But early in the morning, why were they all gone?
Mrs. Xu asked the naughty boy next door, "Have you seen your uncles and Sister Tian Xin?"
The naughty boy pointed to the road to the center of the village.
Mrs. Xu then followed the naughty boy's direction and before she arrived at Liu Laozhu's house, she saw Yu Qinniang and Xu Tianxin hiding behind the house and peeking.
She also looked over, and then heard her three sons saying to Liu Laozhu: "Uncle Li Zheng, we know that my mother owes you and the village seventy-four taels of silver."
Liu Laozhu: "..." Are there so many? He hadn't done any calculation yet and was shocked by this number.
"What do you guys mean?" I didn't believe you were here to pay off a debt so early in the morning.
Liu Laozhu thought to himself: If his family could live like this, he would have to work hard to make money every day for ten years and save money at the same time. He didn't even want to smoke cigarettes, and he would only drink a few sips of wine when he was bored. In addition, he still has a few taels of salary even if he is one year short of working. After more than ten years, he has made a lot of money, and his family still has thirty acres of land. The Xu family only has eight acres of farmland including middle and lower grades. Even if the three brothers go out for a lucky trip, they can't afford to pay back seventy-four taels.
It’s definitely not there yet.
The three brothers of the Xu family came specifically to see Liu Laozhu before going up the mountain. They just felt that they owed money to someone and they had to tell them what they knew. They couldn't pretend to be stupid and make people feel uncomfortable, and they wouldn't hide in the future.
"Nothing else, just come over and tell me, so that you can rest assured."
Only then did Liu Laozhu understand.
Hearing this, he let out a long sigh and said, "I'm relieved."
Looking at "Three You", I want Liu Laozhu to tell the embarrassing truth, even if I don't worry, I will die as a living horse doctor. I have been tied to the same boat as your mother, and I have borrowed it even if I can't get off.
But he also had to admit that he suddenly felt that the Xu family was better at educating children than his Liu family.
