Her competition should be over. I think that after she recovers, she will be even more regretful than she is now, and she will blame me more deeply. This is something I don’t want, but I have no choice. I have nothing but denial. There is no way to explain this matter. Also, thank you for listening to me. Regarding Xu Dan, can Dr. Mu keep it a secret? "
He Ping suddenly talked a lot and looked like he was about to leave the clinic. Mu believed that He Ping had told him everything he knew. From He Ping's narrative, we could see that there were many contradictions with Xu Dan's accusations.
The most obvious contradiction is that Xu Dan said that He Ping violated her, but He Ping denied it.
Secondly, Xu Dan said that he had only told He Ping about being assaulted by his uncle when he was a child, but obviously there were many comments in the message about "I am dirty and I don't deserve happiness". These words were not left by viewers who knew nothing. Down. There should be others who know that Xu Dan was violated or molested when he was a child.
And among those who left messages, there were many who thought of themselves because of Xu Dan's incident. For example, someone said, "I have thought about dying countless times, but I can't do it. I can't imagine my parents watching me die." I can't imagine how sad it would be for me. The person who loves me the most in the world saw the desolation of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person to me when I died. I think I won't continue until the day when they are gone. Survive in this dirty world. 】
Such messages seem to come from the heart, with a strong sense of reality and strict logic. It can be inferred that some people should understand the misfortunes that have happened to Xu Danshang.
If there is only one such message, then it may be a coincidence. The person who left the message thought of his past experience to persuade Xu Dan to stop committing suicide. However, in fact, there is far more than one such message.
"Okay, doctor, I'm leaving first." He Ping stood up and prepared to leave.
Perhaps because of fatigue, He Ping couldn't stand firm and suddenly leaned on the table feeling dizzy.
"Are you okay? Did you not sleep well or is it for some other reason?" Mu Xing asked.
He Ping smiled and waved his hand, "It's okay. I'm too tired. What can I say about rushing for performances? It's too late for me to become famous. If I had worked harder when I was a teenager, I wouldn't have to work so hard now. The orchestra is a very comfortable place. I can just follow the performances, but I have to accept more performances outside of the orchestra, just to make up for the time wasted in the past."
"You should also spend more time with Bai Lu. The feelings between the two of you still need to be communicated." Mu made some suggestions.
He Ping forced a smile and said, "I think so too. I also know that Bai Lu will make the doctor laugh if she stops talking."
"If things didn't change suddenly, now that you've returned to Yaohai, the police station will probably come looking for you. How are you going to explain it?" Mu asked.
He Ping sat back on his seat again and shook his head, "I don't know. Besides denying everything, what else can I say?"
"This matter is not so easy to deny, because Xu Dan actually deliberately wanted to make things worse. Can you analyze the reason?" Mu asked again.
He Ping suddenly laughed heartily and coughed several times in succession, "I don't know, I don't know. It's really hard to guess a girl's mind. She told you today how miserable her past was, and tomorrow Just accuse you of violating her. She was still talking about music with you yesterday and will commit suicide tomorrow. She also said that she committed suicide because of you. It is more difficult for a girl to think about music than to study music. I am really, why should I go to her? I really regret it, how much time I wasted."
"Go find a lawyer. If what you tell is the truth, the lawyer will help you." Mu suggested.
He Ping hesitated and said to Mu, "I just thought I could tell you, and I don't know why I trust you so much. But I don't know if I will find a lawyer. I just hope Xu Dan can figure it out. It's not easy for me to understand that it's just as difficult for her. Then Let me go please."
After saying that, He Ping stood up again and left the clinic.
He Ping walked back to the ward, looked at his sleeping wife Bai Lu, kissed Bai Lu's forehead tenderly and gently, and gently tidied the broken hair around her ears. Bai Lu looked as beautiful as when he first met her.
If life is just like the first time we met, why should the autumn wind draw a fan sadly?
It is easy to change people's hearts, but they say that people's hearts are easy to change.
Although our hearts may not have changed, and neither of us really wants to abandon the other, this may not guarantee eternal kindness and harmony.
He Ping suddenly burst into tears, and the tears fell on Bai Lu's cheeks and slowly fell on the pillow.
It doesn't matter whether your heart changes or whether your feelings have changed. It doesn't matter to He Ping.
Soon, everything will become meaningless.
Zhang Wenwen patted Mu's shoulder and comforted him: "Don't worry, the law will not wrong a good person, nor will it tolerate a bad person. You are just a doctor, don't be so gloomy."
After Zhang Wenwen finished speaking, he handed Mu a printed document.
Mu first expressed his gratitude to Zhang Wenwen. Zhang Wenwen didn't need to stay in the hospital on Saturday afternoon. The outpatient service ended in the morning. Because of Bai Lu's incident, Zhang Wenwen took the initiative to tell Mu, "Use my outpatient room. I’m going to sit in the staff cafe for a while and read some material.”
Now it's time to get off work again, and Zhang Wenwen obviously has no intention of getting off work.
Seeing that Mu remained silent, Zhang Wenwen patted Mu's shoulder again and said, "Hey, don't be so worried. It's not like you. What kind of patient has troubled us, Dr. Mu?"
When Zhang Wenwen said this, Mu could no longer ignore him and could only tell the truth, "It's not difficult to have no patient. Why do I feel that it's not easy for every patient?"
"That's because you are too serious. Speaking of which, Senior Sister Xiao is as serious as you in doing things. I am also impressed by the two of you. It is hard to imagine that you were lovers in school days. Do you just discuss patients when you are together? Isn’t it true that there are many people and many strange patients in your relationship every day?”
Zhang Wenwen smiled playfully, pretending to be relaxed and teasing.
Mu turned his head and glanced at Zhang Wenwen, "What else? Patients, no matter how small the disease is in the doctor's eyes, it affects the patient's entire life. To them, it is everything."
"Is this an exaggeration? It's much more difficult for patients than for doctors." Zhang Wenwen sighed.
"No, it's difficult. Being a human being is never easy." After Mu finished speaking, he opened the information Zhang Wenwen handed him.
After reading the five pages printed out in A4, Mu's face looked like a crude model that had just been built, without any human atmosphere at all.
"Don't look at me like this. Isn't this something we all feel? Now it's just a statistical report. It's not so unacceptable. It's not like this here. The whole world has already entered a high rate of suicide. It's time, this is a common problem faced by mankind." Zhang Wenwen tried to make Mu relax.
Mu also wanted Zhang Wenwen to relax, so he nodded, stood up and asked Zhang Wenwen for a cup of coffee.
During the two minutes of silence, the two doctors said nothing, each looking at the cup in their hands and the dark brown liquid in the cup.
What Mu held in his hand was the "Global Suicide Prevention Report" issued by the World Health Organization that Zhang Wenwen printed for him.
The first line of the report contains the shocking and powerless words suicide: one person dies every 40 seconds.
This line of words silenced two doctors, silenced thousands of families around the world, and caused millions of children to die early.
Zhang Wenwen said: "Paying attention to and preventing suicide is almost the top priority of mental health work around the world. I believe that more people will present data and difficulties in this regard at the Annual Mental Health Conference after this year. It’s not just the cardiology department that encounters these problems, in fact, any department may encounter such patients.”
“It’s not just hospitals that may encounter people at risk of self-harm. We may encounter such people in schools, businesses, communities, and families. When you and we take a subway, there may be one person in a car. I'm planning this suicide." Mu said seriously.
"Yes, nearly 230,000 people currently die by suicide in our country every year. In addition, the number of suicide attempts is many times the number of suicide deaths. In the general population, suicide attempts are the largest risk factor for suicide. Moreover, suicide has become 15-29 The second leading cause of death in the age group. When I participated in volunteer work in Detroit, I once saw that their hospital system conducts risk assessments on almost every patient in order to prevent suicide, but the effect is still not obvious." Zhang Wenwen said these I couldn't help but feel a little nervous.
His hands were shaking slightly and cold sweat broke out on his palms.
"Well, in fact, our overall suicide rate has decreased in recent years. I have also been paying attention to relevant data reports from the World Health Organization. In recent years, the problem of teenagers has become more obvious. According to the suicide rate faced by teenagers, In terms of risk, study pressure still ranks first, accounting for nearly 50%, and there is not much difference whether in urban or rural areas. In addition, parental divorce and early love are also important factors," Mu said.
"Speaking of this, I remembered. The most terrifying thing in recent years is that the age of suicide is getting younger. Think about Ding Xiao. She is only in fifth grade. Is there huge pressure to be promoted to junior high school? Oh my god." Zhang Wenwen almost jumped. He got up, but he sat on a chair, trying to look calmer.
There is no way to calm down about such a topic.
"So, do you have any ideas?" Zhang Wenwen asked Mu.
"Well, we are almost ready. I will submit the complete report at the Mental Health Annual Conference." Mu said calmly and calmly.
"Are you ready, kid? You see, I'm still extremely nervous, for fear that no one will do this." Zhang Wenwen's nervous heart finally relaxed a little.
Mu took a sip of coffee but was still very serious, "This is also what happened recently and urged me to do these things. We live in this era, so we should be brave enough to do something when we have to do something. .
Especially this time Xu Dan gave Qiu Ping a room number, which made me think of some more effective methods. Outside of the medical system, there are actually many people who can participate in suicide assistance. We need to establish A more comprehensive model of mutual assistance is not limited to 24/7 phone lines that may be busy, but also to hospital outpatient clinics where registration is required and all medical visits will be recorded. We need to have ideas that keep pace with the times.
For example, the assistance system on the Internet, the assistance system in mobile phones, and the help module embedded in Alipay, etc. are highly relevant to everyone~
For the time being, some things are just preliminary ideas, some plans are based on the existing intervention methods of our medical system and the police, and some are more complicated.
But in principle, there are only two points: First, suicide intervention must ensure that the suicidal person can find a help channel as soon as possible, a person, an online answer, and a voice.
Second, treating the disease before it occurs is the top priority in the long term, and improving overall health is the fundamental way to avoid frequent crises. This matter involves a wider area and takes longer. Improving public awareness is part of it. Improving regular assessment is part of it. Paying attention to the timely assessment of risk groups is also part of it. As long as we continue to think about it, there are many, many more. Endless things to do. "
Mu took out a pen from his pocket and wrote one after another in the blank space, then stood up and handed it to Zhang Wenwen's hand.
"That's pretty much it. Although there is no clear quantitative data on the effectiveness of crisis intervention, everyone's crisis has a time limit. If the period of chaos and imbalance is over, and people's self-help ability is activated again, it may be over. Crisis, regaining the power of life.
The reason why people are human is that they always have to take care of each other. "
After Mu finished speaking, he stood up and was about to leave, but Zhang Wenwen pulled him back and said, "How did you come up with such a detailed idea? How did you develop your brain?"
"Me? I don't know. Some things were still affected by Xu Dan. The room number she sent to Qiu Ping was a way of asking for help, although her original intention was not to ask for help. Okay, I'll leave first. I'm hungry." After saying that, Mu drank all the coffee in the cup and threw it into the dry trash can. Just as he was about to leave the clinic, he was pulled back by Zhang Wenwen.
"Let's have dinner together later. I'll invite you. I know all your money is in the charity fund." Zhang Wenwen clapped his hands and said with a smile.
"No, I still have something to think about, maybe next time." Mu replied.
"Is it okay that your patient is here? Are you just going to leave?" Zhang Wenwen said as he put on his coat.
"Well, let's go. I've just said what I can say. What I can't say, I can only wait." Mu replied.
"Then let's talk as we walk. I have another case to ask you for advice. I have a patient here who comes to see me for neurological headaches. Every time he has a headache, he says he sees three of himself."
Li Xiaoyun, who has been busy from New Year's Day to the Saturday of the second week, finally found time to lie comfortably on the sofa and watch TV for a while. She also likes the "Weird Showdown", which is famous in the group recently.
Finally having a long break, Xie Xiaofei and his father Xie Chunping went to the amusement park for a day. Li Xiaoyun finally had time to apply a facial mask and rest comfortably alone.
Good guys like this are really rare. It would be great if it could always be like this, as if I were back when I was single.
Li Xiaoyun, looking at the guests in "The Bizarre Showdown", each one is smarter than the last, especially when he sees Li Mu being calm and composed during the verbal battles, and always able to turn the tide with his witty remarks, I really like and envy him in my heart, so I looked up Li Mu online. My background turns out to be that I have had a unclear feeling about morals and learning since I was a child.
Anyway, he is someone else’s son.
Then I thought of my son Xie Xiaofei again. Speaking of which, he really got into trouble this week. He yelled weirdly in class and even wrote half a line of Chinese text silently in 20 minutes. He was completely regarded by the teacher as Bad birth.
What the class teacher said is also true. It doesn’t matter if he is a slow learner, and it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t understand. They can all be taught. However, Xie Xiaofei’s situation is not only that he is a slow learner, but also that he is unwilling to learn. What the teacher is worried about now is whether the child’s behavior habits are bad. There are serious problems. Li Xiaoyun even heard that there was something going on between the parents that affected the child's mood.
This situation is common nowadays. Li Xiaoyun also knew that the girl from the Far North Elementary School was weird because her parents divorced. As a result, she jumped off the building because of the pressure. But the relationship between her and Xie Chunping was pretty good, so it couldn't be related to their discord.
Li Xiaoyun shook his head, watching TV and checking his phone with the mask on. Staying in the windy air-conditioned room all day in January, Li Xiaoyun felt that his skin was almost dehydrated.
After browsing Weibo and scrolling through Moments, a message in Moments suddenly caught Li Xiaoyun’s attention.
The person who posted this in Moments is a friend of Li Xiaoyun, a guzheng teacher who specializes in purchasing from Korea. He definitely looks like an Internet celebrity, but unfortunately he prefers to be a teacher.
It seems that I don't have time to go shopping around Jeju Island recently. Li Xiaoyun originally wanted to introduce two customers to her, but found out that this girl hadn't flown in a month.
Li Xiaoyun sighed and thought to himself that it is really not easy to purchase on behalf of others these days. The customs inspections are getting tighter and tighter, especially for flights from places like Jeju Island or Thailand where the agents are purchasing, especially at the airport. Pay attention to flights. If a girl drags a small suitcase out of the airport, there will be no problem. If she checks a large suitcase, she will most likely ask you to come to the side and cooperate with the inspection.
If the purchased goods such as cosmetics violate the regulations, then taxes and fees must be paid. What is the concept of making up taxes and fees? In addition to the money spent on the round-trip air tickets, this purchase was basically a total loss.
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