Tiantian admitted generously, "Yes, I was indeed stronger at the beginning."
"But after falling in love, I discovered that sometimes you have to be soft, and you can't be too strong all the time."
When you should be subdued, be submissive, and when you should be coquettish, be coquettish. Lowering your attitude appropriately will make the relationship between the two people better.
If two people are both strong and tough, they will only go further and further away.
We have to give in to each other, sometimes you let me, sometimes I let you.
Change each other, compromise with each other, reflect on each other.
If one of them doesn't change, it's useless no matter how much you do.
It takes two people to run it together.
Chengcheng praised her, "You summed it up so right."
"I was too self-centered before and didn't care about Mo Mo. I always ignored his feelings and made him sad."
"But not anymore. Now I will stand by his side first, protect him first, and give him a sense of security."
Instead of just thinking about your own face.
"Now I also understand that a man's self-esteem needs to be maintained, and occasionally I have to support him a little and give him some rainbow farts."
After all, if the other person loves you, you have to give a little bit, and you can't just enjoy their good things.
The two of them worked together, and the relationship became even sweeter.
Mrs. Chi was very pleased to see their progress.
"It's best if you can grow up. When you get married in the future, you have to work with your husband to manage the marriage so that it can last."
Especially after giving birth, that is the time when relationships are put to the test.
I have never experienced the sweetness of oranges and oranges, so I still can’t understand them.
"Let's talk about it later."
None of them wanted to have children so early, and they wanted to wait for a few years before deciding.
Mrs. Chi was not happy, "You have to have a baby as early as possible, while the baby is still young and fully recovered."
Chengcheng didn't want it, "It's very painful to give birth, and I don't want to suffer it so early."
If I could, I wouldn't want to give birth.
Old Mrs. Chi's eyes widened, "How is that possible! You want our family to lose its incense!"
Chengcheng smiled, "Isn't there still Yiyi?"
The eldest grandson doesn't count on her, he counts on her.
Old Mrs. Chi didn't care, "You have to live anyway, otherwise Mo Mo will lose his incense."
"Your parents-in-law are so kind, your grandpa Jin and grandma Jin are so kind, how can you bear to let them die in regret?"
These words were serious. How dare Chengcheng die in regret. She curled her lips and said, "Oh, I know, I will give birth, but not now."
Old Mrs. Chi brainwashed her, "You silly child, giving birth will not affect your life."
"You're giving birth. Grandma and your Grandma Jin will help you take care of it."
"I'll teach it business, and your Grandma Jin will teach it reading. You don't have to be busy. You can go to work when it's time, and travel when it's time. I won't delay you at all."
"And after you give birth, your mission is completed. You can have sex as much as you want, and you don't have to worry about it at all. How wonderful."
Chengcheng thought for a moment, "It seems so."
There are so many people in her family who love taking care of children, and there will definitely be someone to take care of them after she gives birth.
"Okay, then I'll think about it."
Old Mrs. Chi was already thinking about the Full Moon Wine, her lips curved, "Then you and Tiantian chat for a while, I'll go get busy."
Chengcheng waved his hand, "Go ahead."
Tiantian covered her mouth and snickered, "Grandma really likes children."
I wish all my grandchildren at home would have children.
Chengcheng joked, "If I give her so many babies in the future, let's see if she dares to give birth."
Tiantian raised her head and smiled, "Yes, if we really have to give birth to her together, she should be scolded."
Chengcheng laughed loudly, and the two sisters' laughter filled the room.
After the engagement is completed, the two families have a meal together and wait for the wedding day.
During this period, Chengcheng and Jin Fanmo went to work as usual.
Only Mrs. Chi, Mrs. Jin and Lan Jiaojiao and Zhuang Xinyan have been busy.
Mrs. Chi first set up the wedding hotel in Beijing, and then she and Mrs. Jin returned to their hometown.
Homemade Chinese style.
The sisters-in-law of the Jin family did not expect that Mrs. Chi would come.
In private, he also quietly asked Mrs. Jin, "When the Jin family marries a daughter-in-law, why does her in-laws come to give orders?"
"Isn't it too strong?"
Mrs. Jin waved her hand, "No, I asked her specifically to help. She is used to presiding over big things, and she is very good at these small things. I feel at ease when she arranges them."
The sisters-in-law don’t understand, “You are from the man’s family, how can you let the woman’s family dictate what you do? How can you still be dignified in the future?”
Mrs. Jin said to her, "This is because your thinking is wrong."
"Nowadays, it is important for both parties to live in peace, help each other, and take care of each other."
"Old Mrs. Chi is very capable. I'm relieved that I can ask her for help."
Otherwise, for such a big event as marriage, many rules and details would have to be handled by careful people.
But her sisters-in-law said, "There's no need to call her that. She's not from our city, so she doesn't know the rules here."
"Besides, don't you have us? Wouldn't it be better to ask us to help you?"
Old Mrs. Jin didn't want to let these sisters-in-law help.
When they were young, they were at odds with each other. They both just maintained superficial peace, but in reality they didn't like to find each other to do things.
When Jin Fanmo got married, Mrs. Jin never thought of asking her sisters-in-law for help.
It's better to find Mrs. Chi than to find them. Everything can be discussed easily.
If she finds these sisters-in-law, if they don't suit her liking and she refuses, she will probably hold grudges again, so it's better not to let them go.
But I can't say it explicitly, I can only say implicitly, "Since we are going to be in-laws, we are a family. It is better for the relationship to be held as a family together."
These sisters-in-law don’t think so.
"You're stupid, we are the men, and the men should make the decision. Whatever they want to do over there is up to them, but we have the final say over here."
"Otherwise, they will control you in the future and do whatever they ask you to do, even if you don't listen."
Over time, there will be no status.
Old Mrs. Jin didn't believe it, "No, the Chi family is very good, they are not strong people."
After that, he continued to find Mrs. Chi.
Old Mrs. Chi saw her sisters huddled together from a distance and knew she was talking about her.
Old Mrs. Jin did not hide it from her, "My sisters-in-law are also young ladies from wealthy families in ancient times, and they are very proud and arrogant."
"But they don't have bad intentions, they just have unlikable personalities."
Old Mrs. Chi could tell, "It's okay, I've watched too many ancient harem dramas, and I know how to deal with them."
"Don't worry about them. Anyway, no matter whether you are doing well or not, some people will say that it is better to be happy yourself."
Old Mrs. Jin thought she was right.
Whether she asked Mrs. Chi to help or her sisters-in-law to help, they all had something to say.
It's better to just do whatever you want.
Mrs. Chi first accompanied her to see the wedding venue.
But those sisters-in-law said, "Since we are married, we should do it at home and not go to any hotel."
"That's right, since it's Chinese style, just like in our time, just marry in a red sedan chair."
Since it’s Chinese style, why should we go to a hotel?
"No, let's do it at home. Our yard is so big, no matter how many people come, it will be enough."
Old Mrs. Jin frowned when she heard this, for fear that Old Mrs. Chi would be unhappy.
But Mrs. Chi thought it was okay.
"Actually, you can marry in, but our Chi family has very few people giving weddings. They will definitely come over when the time comes. I'm afraid there won't be room in your yard."
