"In addition to uncles and aunts, there are also many cousins, cousins, and cousins."
"I have many relatives on my mother's side, but I don't know them very well."
He was very withdrawn when he was a child. He didn't like to act coquettishly with adults or play with his brothers and sisters.
Just immerse yourself in your own world.
When she was older, she moved next door to Chengcheng. After playing with Chengcheng and the others, her personality gradually opened up.
Otherwise, his character is one of those that don’t allow strangers to enter.
"As for those cousins, some of them have good personalities, and some of them have annoying personalities."
Chengcheng was curious, "Which character is annoying?"
Jin Fanmo recalled, "My second uncle's family had a cousin who was always very arrogant. Her eyes were long on top of her head, and she spoke like a slanderous pen. She easily offended people."
"When I was a kid, I couldn't beat her. I used my test scores to crush her and make her mad."
Chengcheng laughed, "I really have you."
"Then besides this cousin, who else bullies you?"
Jin Fanmo recalled, "There were quite a lot of them. When I was young, those brothers and sisters liked to gang up and bully me."
Although he has no bad intentions, his naughty behavior is also unpleasant.
When he was a child, he didn't like to play with his older brothers, sisters, and younger brothers, so everyone said he was a monster.
It's better for adults to come out and teach you a lesson before you can calm down.
But when the adults are not around, they will still bully him together.
Either deliberately take away his books, or make him dance in a small skirt.
Jin's father and mother were not around at that time, so Jin Fanmo had no one to help him, so he naturally suffered a loss.
When Mrs. Jin saw this, she came out with a ruler and wanted to spank each of them.
The children were so excited and playful that they screamed and ran away.
Jin Fanmo still found it a bit funny when he thought about it.
"Why was I so stupid and didn't resist?"
"If I had known earlier, I would have called back."
Chengcheng smiled, "Maybe you were really stupid at the time." She didn't know how to fight back.
Either that or he has a grand personality and doesn't want to be in the same league as his brothers and sisters whose IQs are not as good as his.
Jin Fanmo also laughed when he heard this, "It's true that they have venomous mouths and unpleasant personalities, but they're not bad, they're just annoying."
"When the time comes, you go, don't let yourself suffer, feel free to argue, I'll take care of it."
Chengcheng was overjoyed, "Of course I won't let myself suffer. If you dare to mess with me, you won't be able to kill them."
If this were an honest person, he would definitely suffer a loss if he encountered the poisonous and difficult sister-in-law.
But with Chengcheng’s temper, there’s really no need to worry.
She wouldn't tolerate being angry for anyone.
Jin Fanmo liked this about her. The world was big and he was the happiest.
She never takes the initiative to cause trouble, but if someone messes with her, she will do it.
Mrs. Jin also liked Chengcheng's temperament and brought her a lot of bags along the way. "Hey, this is a jade bracelet my mother bought for me when I was a young girl. It's of good quality. You can wear it."
"There is also this hairpin. It's old. It was passed down from my great-grandmother's generation. It's worth a lot of money now. I'll give this to you too."
Chengcheng was surprised, "These are all treasures. Why did you give them to me?"
Old Mrs. Jin patted her hand lovingly, "I watched you grow up. Even if you don't marry Mo Mo, when you get married in the future, I will definitely have to give you some treasures as a dowry."
"Now that you are with Mo Mo, these things should be given to you."
"When you wear these things, those relatives will know that your Grandpa Jin and I recognize you, and they won't dare to talk nonsense to you."
It turned out to be to give her the highest recognition status.
Chengcheng's smile was touching and funny.
This is the case with the older generation. The ancestors are willing to give jewelry to their grandson-in-law or daughter-in-law, just to affirm the status of their younger daughter-in-law.
After relatives and sisters-in-law see it, they will understand the look and they will naturally respect him.
Mrs. Jin means well.
Chengcheng didn’t refuse.
Because she also believed in Jin Fanmo, she didn't feel bad about holding these things. Instead, she thought that she would take care of Mrs. Jin and Mr. Jin until they die.
Jin Fanmo looked on, very satisfied.
I think grandma is really sensible.
Chengcheng is also really sensible.
Chengcheng and Mrs. Jin.
Why is this kid showing such a kind smile for no reason?
strange.
The grandfather and grandson ignored him and talked a lot in the car.
Old Mrs. Jin told Chengcheng, "Those children of your generation are not enough to rely on. It's just that my relatives and sisters-in-law are more difficult to deal with."
Because he is an elder or a grandma, it is difficult for a junior to refute someone who speaks harshly.
Especially those who are younger than Mrs. Jin but have seniority, their words make people uncomfortable and difficult to quarrel with.
Mrs. Jin was afraid that Chengcheng would be offended, so she introduced her to her.
"I remember that I have several sisters-in-law who love to discipline the younger ones. When the time comes, if they tell you something you don't want to hear, you can do whatever you want. You don't have to look at me to save my face."
In the past, she would pay more attention to family tradition, etiquette, and the style of her elders.
But after spending many years with Mrs. Chi, my thoughts have changed a lot.
Now she feels that the elders must have the virtues of the elders and be lovable in order to educate the younger ones.
Otherwise, if you only have the age of an elder but do not have the generosity and tolerance of an elder, then you are not worthy of being called an elder, and you will be called an old immortal.
In the past, she would ask her daughters-in-law to be patient and pay attention to the family and everything else.
But when she came to Jin Fanmo's generation, she figured it out.
Everything is focused on making the children happy, and she doesn't care about anything else.
Chengcheng gave her a big thumbs up.
"Don't worry about me, I'm very powerful."
"On your part, if you go back and your elder sister-in-law makes you angry, don't be polite and go back boldly."
Mr. Jin and Mrs. Jin have such a good temper, and at first glance they look like an honest person who is easy to bully.
I guess I usually get angry a lot.
Mrs. Jin held Chengcheng's hand and was a little touched, "You are really right."
When I was young, I had just married into the Jin family, which was a prosperous family. There were so many sisters-in-law, sisters-in-law, and even relatives living nearby, so the relationship chain was very tense.
The newlywed bride must have felt uncomfortable when she first entered the house. Her status was not stable and she did not dare to speak loudly.
Many times, it is difficult to refuse things that I don’t like because of the face of my husband’s family, so I suffered a lot when I was young.
Chengcheng understood, "Daughters-in-law in your era were definitely not as comfortable as they are now."
Not to mention that the current daughter-in-law also has a lot of constraints.
If I really want to stop being angry, it will take many years for reform.
Mrs. Jin nodded, "Yes, young people have changed their minds a lot now, and they will get better and better in the future."
Just after we finished chatting, the Jin family's old house arrived.
This was Chengcheng's first time visiting the Jin family's old house.
Taking a car all the way in, you feel like you are walking into an area where wealthy families lived during the Republic of China era.
There is actually a whole street full of small bungalows, all of the style from the last century.
"Wow~ The house here is beautiful."
It's not a modern style, it's all old-style western-style buildings.
The buildings are built one after another, with similar styles, and they look like a big family living together.
Old Mrs. Jin introduced Chengcheng, "These houses are left by the older generation of the Jin family, and our ancestors have lived here for generations." (End of Chapter)
