Lan Jiaojiao sighed, "Then how did you persuade Yiyi?"
I'm afraid that the boss doesn't like the second child, and that would be troublesome.
Xi Xinyan gave her advice, "You have to learn the routine, focus on them in every sentence, and tell them that after you have younger brothers and sisters, your mother will still love you most, but your younger brothers and sisters cannot be loved by no one, so let them love their younger brothers and sisters." , and their parents continue to love them."
As long as a child hears that his younger siblings won't compete with him for his parents, he can still accept it.
What if you said from the beginning that your mother has to take care of your younger siblings after they are born and has no time to take care of you?
When the eldest heard this, he must have thought that his mother only loved his younger brothers and sisters, and she no longer loved them. He must have hated his younger brothers and hated his mother.
Therefore, you must be skillful in everything you say and do. You must put them first and tell them that their younger brothers and sisters are just coming later. They came first, and their parents still love them the most.
In this way, the eldest brother can basically accept it, and can even help the mother take care of the younger siblings.
Lan Jiaojiao nodded, "Okay, then I'll try your method."
Chengcheng and Tiantian are both generous people, and they never really care about their younger siblings.
Xi Xinyan hummed, "Yes, Chengcheng and Tiantian love you so much, I can definitely accept it."
Lan Jiaojiao felt much better after being told that she was confident.
"We have about the same month. I'm a little later than you, but the delivery date should be about the same."
Because she was a twin, she couldn't keep her pregnancy until 40 weeks, and it was estimated that 37 weeks would be the maximum.
Xixinyan knew that the twins would be tired, so she looked at her flat belly and said earnestly, "You should take care of your health. Don't go to work yet. Come and raise the baby at home with me."
It's winter, the ground is slippery, and the first trimester itself is unstable, so it's better to be more stable before doing anything else.
Lan Jiaojiao nodded, "Yes, Brother Ting said so too."
Chi Wenting didn't want her to go to work while pregnant, but he wouldn't just refuse to let her go. Instead, he would tell her exactly what Xi Xinyan said.
Lan Jiaojiao has finished her studies now, so she doesn't work so hard anymore. Besides, she is still pregnant with twins, so she really needs to rest for a while.
"Brother Ting asked me to finish my PhD this year so that I don't have to study again in the future."
She originally studied for three years for a master's degree and three years for a doctorate. She will graduate in the last year this year.
"My dream was to get a Ph.D. this year. I will finish my Ph.D. this year and I will consider whether to get a postdoc."
She can't help Chi Wenting in business, she can only be better in academic qualifications. Going out with Old Mrs. Chi can also help Old Mrs. Chi gain face and not be too much of a hindrance.
Seeing how serious she was, Xi Xinyan was very supportive.
"You are already very good. From undergraduate to master's and then to Ph.D., you are already more patient than many people."
For example, she also went from undergraduate to master's degree, and then she couldn't go up.
In addition, my work requires frequent business trips, so I have no time to continue studying.
And she got tired of reading it, so she stopped reading.
That's why she admired Lan Jiaojiao for being able to get a Ph.D.
In six years, Lan Jiaojiao was persistent enough.
Lan Jiaojiao smiled sheepishly, "My family background is not good, and I can't help my family at work. I can only study for a higher degree to give my mother some face. Otherwise, I won't be able to help with anything, and I will feel uncomfortable." "
They are all people's daughters-in-law. Old Mrs. Chi is so kind to her, and she also wants to give her a long face.
For example, the daughters-in-law of wealthy families are basically from wealthy families, but there are relatively few with doctorate degrees.
There are even fewer postdocs, so she wants to continue her studies.
Xi Xinyan admired her, "Last time I went to a gathering of relatives in the Chi family, the elders' attitude towards you was much better when they heard that you were about to get a doctorate."
When Lan Jiaojiao and Chi Wenting got married, many relatives were not optimistic about it.
After all, their family backgrounds were incompatible. Lan Jiaojiao was just an ordinary college student, and her relatives didn't think highly enough of her.
But now Lan Jiaojiao is also a university teacher and is about to graduate with a doctorate. After getting a degree, people looked at her differently.
After all, this society still admires people with high academic qualifications. Now that Lan Jiaojiao goes to relatives' homes, some elders will ask their grandchildren to ask Lan Jiaojiao about her studies.
Lan Jiaojiao also smiled when she heard this, "Actually, it's fine as long as you concentrate on reading."
It may feel difficult at first, but it will be okay if you get serious about it.
Xi Xinyan thought she was awesome, "It's no wonder that Chengcheng and Tiantian are good at reading. It seems they are inherited from you and my eldest brother."
At first, everyone thought that Chengcheng and Tiantian had good grades and were the genetic pool of Wen Ting.
Now it seems that Lan Jiaojiao is not that bad.
Otherwise, people wouldn’t get this degree.
Lan Jiaojiao was modest, "Stop praising me, it makes me feel embarrassed."
Yu Xin smiled and said, "I'm not exaggerating. You are indeed very powerful. There is no need to be modest."
The two of them were laughing and joking, and then Mrs. Chi came up.
Still holding the fruit, "What are you two talking about?"
Xi Xinyan and Lan Jiaojiao looked at each other and whispered to Mrs. Chi.
"Mom, I have good news for you. Jiaojiao is pregnant."
Old Mrs. Chi was stunned, "What? Are you pregnant?"
Xi Xinyan shushed her, and Mrs. Chi lowered her voice.
Busily sitting next to Lan Jiaojiao, "Jiaojiao, are you really pregnant?"
Lan Jiaojiao nodded, "Yes, I went for a checkup at noon. The doctor said there are two gestational sacs."
Old Mrs. Chi was even more surprised, "Two gestational sacs? Are they twins?"
Lan Jiaojiao nodded shyly, "Yes, twins."
Mrs. Chi was so excited that her eyes lit up.
"Oh my god, Jiaojiao, you are so amazing, you are actually a twin."
There are already three children in the family, and now we have three more, which is great.
Old Mrs. Chi was overjoyed and so excited that she didn't know what to say.
"Okay, okay, you and Xinyan are both good. The excitement at home cannot be separated from you. You are so awesome."
Nowadays, many young people don’t want to have children. Mrs. Chi knows this.
Old Mrs. Chi is extremely happy that Xi Xinyan and Lan Jiaojiao can get pregnant together.
"Why are you talking about this now? Do you want to talk about it in three months?"
Lan Jiaojiao shook her head, "I don't know what to say. I'm still young and haven't seen the fetal heart rate yet, so I want to wait until three months before saying anything. This will be safer."
Mrs. Chi knew her concerns and told her not to worry.
"It's okay. Your daily routine is very healthy. I have checked with Wen Ting before. You are both in good health and your genes have been checked. They are all very good. I heard that the child will grow up safely."
Lan Jiaojiao would feel much more at ease if she had her.
"Yes, the babies will be healthy."
Mrs. Chi said, "Now you and Xinyan can raise the fetus at home with peace of mind. Once the fetus is firmly seated, you can go out to play and feel more at ease."
"As for school, you should take leave first and continue studying for your Ph.D., won't you be able to finish it almost after the New Year?"
Lan Jiaojiao nodded, "Yes, I can finish reading it next year."
Old Mrs. Chi patted her hand and told her not to put so much pressure on her, "Just follow your own pace and do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Only when you are in a good mood can you look beautiful."
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