Huo Shenzhi looked at Yun Lingzheng silently for a long time, lowered his eyes and said lightly: "Love is the perdition of free will."
Those who say that if you love him or her, you will not make her sad, you will love her all the time, you will think of her all the time, and you will not hurt her. They even say that if you really love someone, you will not find someone who is the same as her. Stand-in, even to say something, love means believing in her and respecting her.
These extremely standard and secular answers are all correct, but they are also incorrect.
Yun Lingzheng also knows these vulgar answers. These answers that the world uses to shape a standard lover and measure whether a lover meets the standard are superficial, ignorant and ridiculous to people like them who have experienced the world.
That's why he spoke to Master Jiu now.
He thought he could get the answer he wanted.
However, the Chief Assistant is as smart as a demon, and so far, there are obstacles that have made it difficult for him to break through.
Love is the perdition of free will.
He completely understood Huo Shen's words.
The horse was like thunder, moving through the snow as fast as lightning, leaving only a shadow of the man on the horse.
That sentence seemed to be echoing in Yun Lingzheng's mind.
——"Your reason will definitely tell you that this person is not a qualified lover. You can even choose to separate from her, but your free will cannot kill your feeling of love for her."
——"You don't love someone, and you want to fall in love with her, which is impossible. Your rationality can tell you that she is very good and is compatible with you in every aspect, but you have no feeling of love for her. Standard It's all reserved for people you don't love. When the person you truly love appears, even if she doesn't meet all the standards, you will still sink hopelessly."
——"For the person you don't love, even if she meets the hundredth condition you put forward, you can still find one hundred and one reasons why you don't love her. Love cannot be controlled through free will. With a Having a relationship with a woman is two different things from whether you love her or not, and getting married to a woman is two different things from whether you love her or not. When you see a person as beautiful, you want to protect her and think she is beautiful, even though you tolerate her shortcomings and have achieved the fame of Aiwujiwu, in fact, this is not the case. Love or not are two different things."
Love has no standard answer, is not controlled by consciousness, and is not controlled by the world.
I can't help myself.
I can't help myself!
It is possession, destruction, control, and use of any means!
How could he be willing to teach Nan Jiang to anyone? How could he be a bystander and watch her spend her life with others!
At that time, the imperial capital.
When Yun Si arrived, the people below hurriedly came to report: "The old lady of the Xiao family has not left yet."
"You haven't left yet? How can you wait?" Yun Si frowned.
This kind of person either has the patience to hunt or is sincere.
She looked at Nan Jiang: "It seems that he will not give up until he achieves his goal. After all, the other party is the Duke of the state, a person of status, and he can speak in the court. Duke Xiao is also an old minister with political achievements. Let's just hang it out like this. not too good."
"Okay, I'll go meet with sister." Nan Jiang put down the things in her hands.
In the main hall, although the old lady's grandchildren and daughters-in-law had been waiting for more than two hours, they still behaved well. They didn't even show the slightest dissatisfaction on their faces, let alone complain.
It can be seen that the family rules are strict and the training is appropriate.
When Yun Si and the others came out, they saw six grandchildren and daughters-in-law, let alone concubines and legitimate children, standing behind the old lady, smiling at Yun Si.
He looked at Nan Jiang carefully, with no dissatisfaction on his face.
"Old lady, you've been waiting for a long time. You told me that I should come to visit you. But I just happened to be out on business, and I didn't know you were waiting for me here. I should hit you, I neglected you." Yun Si stepped forward with a smile. , and held the old lady's hand affectionately.
The old lady smiled as if what Yun Si said was true, with a hint of guilt on her face: "It's my fault, as an old man, for coming here happily without telling you in advance. Don't you Just blame me, how can I blame you?"
After a few words, Yun Si thought to herself: It's really amazing.
This old lady who can be granted a royal title, has high prestige among the female relatives of the imperial capital, and is very eloquent, is like a spirit.
No wonder people like the Xiao family's Duke and Madam are at home, and the Xiao family is still in a state of complete chaos.
A fool among a group of smart people cannot make a big splash.
Yun Si helped the old lady sit down, and it was time to show off her real skills: "It is said that marrying a virtuous wife will bring prosperity to three generations, while a stupid wife will destroy three generations. The old lady will prosper three generations. She is truly the crown jewel of the Xiao family. Blessed. This shows how important women are, even men who stand up to heaven and earth are outshone by women."
It's not like the old lady couldn't tell that Yun Si was talking about Mrs. Xiao Guogong.
Zhang belittled Nan Jiang every word, said that Nan Jiang was not good, and wanted to let Nan Jiang in. Yun Si used the idea of a virtuous wife and a prosperous family for three generations, and started the process by implicating herself.
If she said this, it would be equivalent to admitting that there was a stupid woman in her family, allowing Yun Si to use Zhang, a fool who would ruin three generations, to reject the marriage.
If not, how can we explain what Zhang did today? It’s as if their family wants to eat but hates it, feels embarrassed and stands up at the same time, so cheap that they are panicking and have no spine...
If she pretends to be stupid, Yun Si will be more able to talk things through.
And in the last words, he said that even men were compared to each other. Isn't it obvious that even Mr. Xiao Guogong was scolded in a yin and yang manner. Men and women were scolded together, and there was no difference in any of them.
The old lady felt that she had underestimated Yun Si before, so she dug a hole for herself.
But the sons and daughters-in-law of the Xiao family could vaguely hear the exchange in these words, but the rest was not as clear as the old lady.
The old lady smiled and looked at the cup of tea that was served. She did not accept the move and looked directly at Nan Jiang: "It's Nan Jiang, the saint of the Witch Clan, right?"
Nan Jiang stood next to Yun Si and said with a smile: "Yes, old lady, I am Nan Jiang."
Yun Si's smile did not change, and she knew that she was facing a formidable opponent today, so she was not in a hurry.
The old lady said to Yun Si: "Tiance came home and told me that he liked Nanjiang and said that Nanjiang is the best home for his daughter. I said that my grandson's taste is not bad, and I am very happy. Judging from it, sure enough, my grandson’s vision is still the same as that of another generation, and he is accurate in judging people!"
This is a promise to Yun Si that she likes Nan Jiang very much and will make decisions for Nan Jiang.
Yun Si has seen a lot over the years, how could she believe such a guarantee?
The old lady didn't answer just now. Yun Si also learned her trick now. She just smiled without saying anything and asked: "The Chinese New Year is coming soon. I just bought a lot of things. The old lady is picking through them to see what I have." like."
The granddaughter-in-laws were all anxious now.
Looking at each other, you move and I move, and if you don't pick up, I won't pick up either. They are just wearing out each other's patience. Naturally, they, the juniors, can't sit still.
The eldest daughter-in-law took the initiative to make the first move to break the situation: "Sister Nan Jiang is really well-born, and she is also a healer. If she enters the Xiao family, we will also benefit from it. If there are any three disasters or six diseases, we can be treated first." Treat it."
