Because of everything that happened in this family, it simply made people's heads feel more and more painful.
The other party clearly knows that this family does not have his daughter-in-law, which means that the family cannot support it at all. He clearly knows that he should recognize his mistake, but the other party is unwilling to admit his mistake.
The more I think about these behaviors of the other person.
Yi Zhonghai almost lost his mind about the Jia Zhang family in the courtyard. He couldn't figure out what the other party wanted to do in this courtyard.
After all, if these things that happened are from the perspective of Qin Huairu, a woman, it means that the other party has been wronged a lot. It is obvious that the old woman should apologize properly and even admit her mistakes, but the other party I have always turned a blind eye to this problem of my own.
I also feel that this old woman in the yard, in addition to constantly increasing troubles for herself, constantly increases the burden of life on herself. It seems that apart from these things, the other party does not seem to do anything at all. In the past, During this time, because the family is supported by its own daughter-in-law, the daily life and so on are basically just barely enough, which is pretty good.
But there is no support from my wife here.
Although it seems relatively relaxed on the surface.
But if the family wants to continue to survive, it is not as simple as imagined.
Although Yi Zhonghai didn't want to persuade the Jia Zhang family at all, if he didn't persuade the other party properly, it would be extremely difficult to deal with the situation at hand. Even if there was no other way, it would be too difficult. I can only advise the other party; "I think you should pay more attention to your daughter-in-law and worry about it. It's better for you to worry about it. Do you feel that you should pay more attention to it?" If your daughter-in-law is not in this yard, there is absolutely no problem. But your daughter-in-law is never in this yard. Even if you have a little money, it will slowly be spent all the money. Well, don’t you know this in our yard? In addition to these things, you are in this family, and with this grandson, you always cause trouble in this yard. You should not be a little bit concerned about this aspect. Don’t you have any impression? Every time these things happen, your daughter-in-law helps to solve the situation. Don’t you feel that these things are a little tiring? I still feel your feelings about what your daughter-in-law does. My daughter-in-law is a little tired, please don’t cause trouble, it’s really hard to wipe your butt.”
In the process of advising the other party.
He simply didn't want to listen to his own advice.
Feel the same about what the other person does.
I like to daydream at every turn.
Except for daydreaming.
It seems like there is nothing to be done about it.
I have always felt that it is not easy for me.
I have always felt that others should pay.
But others keep giving.
It's like not taking it seriously.
Don’t you feel that others are tired?
We are all living people, not like animals at all.
Anyone who is alone will feel uncomfortable physically and want to take a good rest.
This person behaves in front of him.
Although he kept advising himself, Jia Zhang couldn't listen to the situation. After all, the last time he gave in to the other party, his status was already low.
If I continue to admit defeat to my daughter-in-law in front of this daughter-in-law, wouldn't my status be even lower?
When the time comes when he faces his daughter-in-law, this can also be said to be a bit more embarrassing. Even if he wants to give his daughter-in-law good instructions, this is very unrealistic.
There is no point in continuing to persuade in front of the other party.
I don’t want to make useless efforts on the other side.
That's why I didn't continue to persuade him.
They all showed themselves to be very difficult, and originally thought that the other party would obey me obediently.
But in the situation in front of him, he didn't obey him obediently.
This situation also feels slightly embarrassing for Jia Zhang.
I also feel that the other person seems to know the little thoughts in my heart. The more I think about the other person's little thoughts in my heart, it is simply clear that I am in the yard. I feel embarrassed and a little ashamed. , this means that you simply can’t find tofu. If you can find tofu, you will definitely hit the tofu without any hesitation.
He didn't continue talking, and the other party actually became a little more honest in front of him.
Yi Zhonghai was even more speechless about what Jia Zhang had done.
Then, express what you most want to express now, and express it again to the other party.
Because Guan Zi is relatively smart, Yi Zhonghai knows what someone wants to say in front of him, but when he thinks that he has to pay now, he still feels reluctant in his heart, and then for this aspect The matter was well mentioned; "I can be regarded as an elder after all. As an elder, I just give out money casually. So for me, as an elder, wouldn't it mean that I, as an elder, have nothing to do with it?" To save face?”
The reason why I don't spend money is because I feel that money is very important to me.
If you took out these things, you would have suffered a huge loss before.
Not wanting to talk nonsense with the other party at all, he continued to say to the other party; "In your family, if you don't have your daughter-in-law to support the family, the family will not be able to support it at all. If you give a little bit, you can make your daughter-in-law change her mind. Isn’t that great?”
Although Jia Zhang still wanted to have something to say about what happened to her.
But many of these words are on the edge of the mouth and cannot be said.
I also feel that the troubles I am encountering now are just one after another.
To be honest, when it comes to family daughters-in-law, I actually don’t quite understand what the reason is. Every time I face a family daughter-in-law, I feel that I have to be a little more careful. If I face a family daughter-in-law, If you are not careful, maybe this daughter-in-law will be the same.
But if it is true that he is very indulgent towards his daughter-in-law, then for him, if something like this happens to him, this seems to be too much of a disadvantage, right?
It can be said that I have been asking for a long time in front of the other party, but the other party seems to have no reaction.
It can be said that it is meaningless to continue to be verbose in front of the other party. Yi Zhonghai did not want to be verbose in front of the other party. He did not have any politeness about the situation on his side and asked the other party directly. Have you thought about these things?
Especially in the process of speaking, what I want is to get the exact answer quickly, the tone, etc., is very cold.
This can almost equally be said to be without any emotion.
When facing his daughter-in-law, although he always wanted to maintain a tough state, the other party said a lot in front of him. If he always wanted to maintain a tough state, this seems to be fair. The above is fundamental, but it is unrealistic. When there is no other way, we can only temporarily agree with the other party's statement.
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Although my daughter-in-law doesn’t want to come here at all in the village where she lives, if the family doesn’t have my daughter-in-law to support the family, then the family cannot survive. When there is no other way, in the yard Mrs. Jia Zhang came here directly. The more she thought about her daughter-in-law's current identity, which was completely rural, she felt uncomfortable in her heart.
Because when my son was still alive, I had told him several times, but my son thought the other person was very beautiful, especially his reminders, etc., so he didn't take it to heart.
The more I think about the daughter-in-law in my family, I want to control my daughter-in-law. It is not as simple as I imagined, and I am very angry.
I also feel that it is great that my son listened to me and did not marry this woman from the countryside.
But because the other party married someone from the countryside.
Even if I don't want to bow in front of my daughter-in-law regarding certain aspects of things.
But if you don't bow your head in front of your daughter-in-law, you won't be able to do many things.
This is also extremely dissatisfying.
Thinking that something happened to his son because his daughter-in-law came to this yard, but in the past, his son had never had any accidents. In fact, the resentment he felt towards his daughter-in-law, etc., was simply very big. .
Otherwise, it would be impossible for him to target the daughter-in-law in his family at every turn.
In this place, it can be said that it took a lot of effort to find his daughter-in-law's family.
After taking out these things, Jia Zhang felt very aggrieved when facing her daughter-in-law, but in front of her daughter-in-law, she spoke to her; "It's better to go back. Do you just want to stay in the countryside?"
