The so-called communication is nothing more than Lao Yuan asking Fang Hanmin to explain the role of high and new technologies he mentioned in his long-term plan. Fang Hanmin gave a detailed introduction to high-throughput screening and big data applications in the creation of new drugs. Maybe he is older. , lack of enough imagination, or due to aging knowledge, even if Fang Hanmin took the trouble to explain, Lao Yuan finally only half understood these future technologies that would only appear twenty years later.
But that's not important. The key is that Director Yuan is relieved when he knows that this is not just something Fang Hanmin made up.
Based on the plan for future scientific and technological progress in the conference materials, Director Yuan believed that this Fang Hanmin was too mysterious! Not to mention the talent he showed during the many process improvements in the second workshop, but the amount of information contained in this plan is too great. Where did Fang Hanmin learn such advanced high-tech knowledge?
Factory Director Yuan is a veteran college student with a science background. Although he has been in an administrative leadership position these years, he still tries to find time to read some books on pharmaceutical technology. In Lao Yuan’s impression, there has never been anything like this in the books and magazines he has read. See terms like high-throughput screening and big data applications.
Driven by curiosity, I remember that once, Lao Yuan once asked Fang Hanmin where his knowledge came from, and he excused himself with an explanation of self-taught.
Factory Director Yuan, a smart man, obviously does not believe Fang Hanmin's explanation. He believes that even if you study by yourself, you still need books. However, in all the books that Lao Yuan has read, he has not seen these technical terms mentioned by Fang Hanmin, including two The new technology adopted in the deep technical transformation of the workshop. Based on Fang Hanmin's age, experience and personal conditions, Director Yuan did not believe that Fang Hanmin had access to more books and magazines than he did.
Lao Yuan is considerate. Since Fang Hanmin refuses to tell his secret, it would be impolite and useless to ask for more details. It is better to stop here and not ask Fang Hanmin the same question again...
After the meeting materials are prepared, there are still four or five days before the on-site meeting. These days are rare free days for Fang Hanmin since he joined the factory. During this period, he wants to think about his relationship with Yu Dongmei and then write a letter to her. , showing off their personality traits and making Yu Dongmei face the differences between them.
Fang Hanmin was sitting on a chair, thinking about how to express his words tactfully. The phone on the table rang, and he picked it up. Before he could speak, he only heard a woman's voice coming from the other end of the phone, "Is this Fang Hanminke?" Is it long?”
It seemed like he had heard this voice somewhere before, and he could call him by his first name, which meant that the other person was at least an acquaintance, but Fang Hanmin was not sure, "Who are you?"
"You are so forgetful, so you forgot me so quickly? I am Hou Xuemei."
"Oh, Chief Hou's daughter, what do you do for me?" Of course Fang Hanmin knew the other party's purpose, but he still asked knowingly.
"As I said last time, I'm not a rich man. Please don't call me that! Also, do I need a reason to chat with you?" Hou Xuemei's character is both willful and domineering.
Because Fang Hanmin had already made up his mind and didn't want to get entangled with the other party at all, his attitude was naturally blunt, "I'm sorry, I'm currently preparing meeting materials for the on-site meeting early next month, and I don't have time to chat with you."
The word "small talk" made Hou Xuemei understand Fang Hanmin's impatience, but it was working time now. Although Fang Hanmin's attitude was indifferent, after all, he was busy with work. Even though Hou Xuemei felt that she had been treated coldly, she had to swallow her breath and said, "Then you first Get busy, I'll find you again when I have time."
"I'm sorry. I may have been very busy in recent years. Please don't come to me again."
What's the reason? It’s simply a ruthless rejection! "you......"
Hou Xuemei was about to have an attack when Fang Hanmin hung up the phone decisively.
She was originally a very decent girl, but how did she become such a loser? If he were in his previous life, Fang Hanmin would immediately ask the logistics department to change his phone number and immediately block any contact with Hou Xuemei. But now in the mid-1980s, it is not easy for the office to have an internal phone that can transfer external calls. It is impossible for him to make additional demands from the factory because of his own personal matters.
Fang Hanmin calmed down his emotions. His most important task now was to solve the problem with Yu Dongmei. He planned to let Yu Dongmei see his letter before the weekend and let her know his thoughts.
After some consideration, Fang Hanmin wrote on the stationery:
Hello Dongmei! Although we are classmates, we have only been officially communicating with each other for nearly a year. Through this more than one year of communication, we have not only learned more about each other, but also gained a new understanding of ourselves.
I was originally a boring person, but spending this time with you has allowed me to experience more joy in life and learn how to plan my daily life.
Dongmei, you are a rare good girl, impeccable in appearance and character. I can see from you your positive attitude towards life, your open-minded way of doing things, and your generous interpersonal communication. To be honest, before getting along with you, I basically knew nothing about the joy of life. It was you who taught me to enjoy life.
It is important for people to know themselves. Through getting to know each other, I found that I have many shortcomings. Compared with you, I feel ashamed. In a sense, I feel that I am not worthy of you, so I hope you forget this relationship between us.
The next morning, Yu Dongmei was preparing lessons in the music teaching and research room. The staff in the communication room opened the door of the teaching and research room and said, "Teacher Yu, here is a letter from you."
Yu Dongmei took it and saw that the address of the letter was the Technical Department of Red Star Pharmaceutical Factory. She was very puzzled. Fang Hanmin usually made phone calls when he had something to do. Why did he change it to writing a letter this time? She immediately opened the letter, took out the two pages of letter paper inside, and couldn't wait to read it.
Reading the contents of the letter, Yu Dongmei's mood changed from confusion to shock, and finally she felt extremely angry. She stuffed the letter into the drawer, got up and came to the Academic Affairs Office, and said coldly to the old man in the office with a look of anger: "I'll make a call."
"Teacher Yu, you don't look good. Are you angry with someone?"
"I'm making a phone call. If you are willing to listen, you can listen nearby. I have nothing to avoid. If you don't want to listen, you can go out!" Yu Dongmei said angrily.
The old man was quite sensible, "I'm not interested in the affairs of you young people." After saying that, he went out without forgetting to close the door.
Yu Dongmei dialed Fang Hanmin's office number and said coldly: "Fang Hanmin, I received your letter. Let's meet at the old place tonight."
Fang Hanmin knew that Yu Dongmei would be angry after reading his letter. He said carefully: "Dongmei, you mean to meet tonight? But today is not the weekend!"
"Yes, tonight, at the same place, I'll be waiting for you. See you there or not." After saying that, Yu Dongmei hung up the phone.
After get off work, Fang Hanmin came to the restaurant where he and Yu Dongmei often met. He hadn't been there for two weeks. The restaurant had been renovated. The original scattered seats by the windows on both sides had been divided into semi-enclosed small rooms. He found one. Circle, I saw Yu Dongmei in the outermost private room, "Are you here early?"
Yu Dongmei's face no longer had the smile of the past, and she responded indifferently, "It's not early, I've only been here for about ten minutes."
After sitting down opposite Yu Dongmei, Fang Hanmin handed over the menu and said, "You order."
Yu Dongmei pushed the menu back, "You order, I'll pay today."
Upon hearing this, Fang Hanmin was surprised, "You paid the bill? Why?"
"No reason. For more than a year, every time we meet for dinner, you pay the bill. Let me settle the bill once today."
Fang Hanmin knew there was something in his words, so he didn't insist anymore, ordered two dishes casually, and put the menu in front of Yu Dongmei.
Yu Dongmei looked at the menu in front of her, ordered two special dishes of the restaurant, and told the waiter, "Bring us a bottle of liquor with a slightly higher alcohol content."
"Dongmei, it's hard for me to drink high-strength liquor. Can you drink it?"
Yu Dongmei said noncommittally: "There's nothing you can't drink or not. At worst, you're just drunk. Being drunk can solve a thousand worries. Being drunk is even better!"
Of course Fang Hanmin knew that the other party was talking angrily, and he also knew why Yu Dongmei was angry. He did not answer the conversation to avoid causing unnecessary trouble.
After a while, the dishes were all served, and the waiter filled the glasses in front of them with wine. Yu Dongmei took the initiative to raise her glasses, "Hanmin, thank you for your companionship over the past year, cheers!"
Fang Hanmin felt that these words sounded awkward, so he put the cup he was holding back on the table.
Yu Dongmei glanced at him, "Why are you suddenly so disgusted with me that you don't even want to drink the wine I suggested?"
"Why do I dislike you? Dongmei, why did you say such a thing?" Although Fang Hanmin knew the reason for the other party's anger, he still felt surprised.
Upon hearing this, Yu Dongmei took out the letter written by Fang Hanmin from her bag and threw it on the table with a bang, "Why? I should ask you this! Do you want to read this?"
Of course Fang Hanmin recognized the letter he wrote, but he evaded it and said: "What's wrong with this letter? I spoke highly of your character in the letter, and also mentioned that I learned a lot from you. I just told the truth. Any questions?"
Yu Dongmei picked up the cup, drank the remaining half of the wine in one gulp, and then placed the empty cup heavily on the table, "Even if we don't count my crush on you in high school, my emotional devotion to you over the past year, Are you going to give me this result in the end? Fang Hanmin, I thought you were a responsible gentleman, but I didn’t expect you to be nothing more than that!"
"Why didn't I take responsibility?" Fang Hanmin was still pretending to be innocent.
"Have you forgotten what you said? If you have forgotten, look at the letter you wrote again!"
"Dongmei, do you have an opinion on the last paragraph of the letter? But I am telling the truth! I have always felt that my family is poor, not sociable, mediocre in appearance, and always have an inferiority complex." Fang Hanmin defended himself. argued.
"Even though I took the initiative to pursue you in the beginning, you didn't reject my pursuit for these reasons! Since we officially got along with you, I have never disliked you in any aspect. We have been together for more than a year, but you suddenly brought up these things The reason is that you want me to forget the relationship between us, Fang Hanmin, what are you worried about?"
Under the influence of alcohol, Yu Dongmei's crying and shouting questions made Fang Hanmin feel ashamed. However, he also clearly realized that the huge difference in interests and hobbies between himself and Yu Dongmei existed in reality, and He believes that if we do not face up to this difference now, once the two people come together in confusion, this difference in interests and hobbies will have an immeasurable impact on their future lives.
Long-term pain is worse than short-term pain. Instead of suffering in the future, it is better for both parties to realize the harm of this difference to marital life now.
