Chapter 690
"The person with me is Pei Yanzhou, not the Pei family. If Pei Yanzhou minds, I will walk away."
Cheng Xi looked at her mother seriously, "Mom, if you have to find a boyfriend who is from the same world as me, then according to what you say, I should find someone who doesn't even have a house like me."
"That's not true." Fang Qiu choked, "It's just that Mr. Pei's conditions are too good."
"Okay, you think I'm not suitable for him because his conditions are too good. Let's take you as an example. When you and Cheng Zhouhua were together, Cheng Zhouhua had a house, a car and a company in Su City. His conditions were considered to be above average, and his background was good. He comes from a small place and has nothing to do with a wealthy family, so are you happy with him?" Cheng Xi asked.
Fang Qiu looked confused.
There was happiness in the first two years of marriage, but later Cheng Zhouhua seemed to use her as a nanny.
What suffocated her the most was what the Cheng family did to their daughter later.
Only then did she realize that the man she married was a scumbag.
"You're not happy." Cheng Xi answered for her, "Let's talk about my biological father Tao Rui. You and he got married more than 20 years ago. It can be said that they are well-matched and have similar financial abilities. They are the same. Born in a rural area, still working in a small county with no house or car, and just as poor, are you happy?"
Fang Qiu: "..."
Seeing her mother not saying a word, Cheng Xi sighed and put her arms around her shoulders, "You are not happy either, and your life is very painful. So when it comes to finding a boyfriend, it doesn't mean that you are poor. You can find someone to follow." You can live happily if you are just as poor, but it does not mean that you can live comfortably if you find someone with better conditions than you."
Fang Qiu smiled bitterly and said, "I am an example full of failures. Maybe I can't teach you about marriage."
"Mom, just because I saw your failure example, it made me more clear about what I want. First, at least when looking for a boyfriend, I can't find someone from a poor family. Poor and humble couples are in trouble. You and Tao Rui had a big fight back then. That way, the main reason is not because of lack of money. Secondly, character is very important. Thirdly, whether he treats you well. Fourthly, whether the two people have the right temperament."
Cheng Xi said, "In your eyes, you may think that Pei Yanzhou is too rich and well-off to be unattainable, but in my eyes, he also has many shortcomings. If you underestimate yourself, no matter who you are with, You think it’s all high-flying.”
Fang Qiu was stunned.
I never thought that a man in his forties would be so enlightened by what he said to his daughter.
Yes, when I chose Tao Rui, I felt that my family's conditions were not good and that I was only worthy of someone like Tao Rui.
Later, she married Cheng Zhouhua. She thought she was a high-ranking person, so she was cautious after marriage.
In the final analysis, she still underestimated herself.
"Mom, don't think too much. We have just started dating. If he treats me badly and is inappropriate, I will still break up with him."
Cheng Xi said as he got up from the bed and got dressed. Talking about breakup was the same as talking about today's weather.
Fang Qiu: "..."
If other women find a man like Pei Yanzhou, they will either feel uneasy or be like a treasure.
My daughter is better.
This nonchalant tone….
Maybe this is good, at least he won't be hurt as much as he was when he was young.
...
After eating breakfast, Cheng Xi began to think about the design drawings.
After the Lantern Festival, she was about to join the crew with Xia Anqing. Although Xia Anqing gave her the task of being responsible for her own costume styling, Cheng Xi did not dare to be careless at all.
She spent the whole morning looking up information and designing.
