Chang Xingyun admitted that Li Yong's words gave her a lot of room for imagination and she was also afraid that something like that would happen, but she was still willing to think better first.
In other words, he is also deceiving himself.
Li Yong smiled and said: "Come on, do you believe what you say? You are just here. You are afraid that things will get bigger and you will be embarrassed to see others at school and at home, because of this It's a shameful thing, especially for your father. Secondly, maybe it should be said that you are used to it and don't want to change, let alone dare to change.
"But you haven't thought about it. Sooner or later, everyone will know about this matter. If you don't change, he won't change either. It will still be you and your family who will suffer at that time. It's better to resolve the matter at this time, so as not to When things get even worse in the future, it will be too late for you to regret."
Chang Xingyun was silent. She was surprised that her thoughts were grasped so accurately by the big boy opposite.
In fact, she was a little unpredictable at first, and she became like this in a confused way.
Then it was like what Li Yong said, you are used to it and you don’t want or dare to change.
Because she couldn't guarantee whether the outcome would be worse than it is now.
"Actually, he wasn't like this before..." After saying this, Chang Xingyun himself felt that her defense was very weak.
Li Yong laughed and said: "Of course I know he wasn't like this before, otherwise you wouldn't be able to like him, right? But he will basically be like this in the future. You can't always live with him in the past, right? Fortunately, you are still there now Since I don’t have children, it’s easier to stop now.
"If you have a child in two years, you won't be able to separate by then. And do you think that he will be able to change after having a child? Maybe by then, the child will have to endure his domestic violence just like you. .”
Li Yong's words made Chang Xingyun feel scared and unwilling to see it again, and he finally began to seriously consider whether he really wanted to listen to his advice.
She is a kind person, and it doesn't matter if she suffers, endures or even endures some things, but she will not allow her family members to have a bad life, including her future children.
Of course, since she and Chen Qin had no children for so many years, she would sometimes wonder if their relationship would be much more harmonious if one more child acted as a lubricant.
It's just that if you have children, and you will have children in the future, it is definitely not the same concept.
Li Yong was right, but she couldn't guarantee whether Chen Qin's violence would be passed on to his children even if he restrained himself from it in the future.
She would rather be beaten...
Of course, according to what Li Yong said, if he divorced Chen Qin, this kind of thing would never happen again.
only……
Seeing that Chang Xingyun was still hesitating, Li Yong sighed and said, "Think about it for yourself. I won't persuade you much, and I guess you won't listen even if I try to persuade you. Or you can also find time to talk to him Let's have a good talk, like make an agreement or something, and see his attitude first..."
If the cow doesn't drink water, he can't push it on the head and stuff it into the river, so that's all, just take care of yourself.
Chang Xingyun felt that Li Yong also had good intentions and felt that he had failed him, so he apologized: "I'm sorry, I still can't let go..."
I can't let go of this, not only because I can't let go of Chen Qin, but also because I can't let go of my current life.
She has become accustomed to and satisfied with this kind of peace and stability, and is unwilling to make changes easily.
Li Yong chuckled and left directly.
Unexpectedly, Li Yong suddenly learned from Qiao Qiqi that Chang Xingyun was looking for him.
He thought that he had nothing to do for the time being, so it would be okay to go take a look.
Of course, if you tried to persuade someone once but it didn't work, forget it. After seeing Chang Xingyun, her face looked normal and she didn't look like she had been beaten again. She asked curiously: "What are you asking me for?"
"Actually, I had a good talk with Chen Qin, and I felt...a little scared..."
"Afraid?" Li Yong was stunned for a moment, then laughed and said, "You're not afraid of being beaten by him, so what are you afraid of?"
Chang Xingyun rolled her eyes at him, knowing that this kid was being arrogant and she didn't listen to him last time.
Li Yong didn't shy away from it at all, but Chang Xingyun sighed again and said proactively: "I'm sorry, you kindly advised me last time, but I still..."
"Stubborn, stubborn, stick to the rules, content with the status quo, unwilling to make progress, wolf-hearted, dog-biting Lu Dongbin..."
"Stop!" Chang Xingyun raised his hand and said helplessly: "It's not as exaggerated as you said, right?"
Li Yong blinked and said, "I've been reciting idioms recently, what are you talking about?"
Chang Xingyun was a little speechless. Li Yong's lazy look seemed to have just given up on her, which made her a little uncomfortable.
Finally, he got back to the topic and said proactively: "I made an agreement with him for three chapters as you said, but his reaction was very strong..."
"What a strong method?"
"he……"
"Did I swear to you that I would never hit you, blush, quarrel, or get angry with you again? But after all, I just don't want to agree to the agreement? It even looks like I hit you before. It’s the same as before, it looks a bit scary?”
Chang Xingyun looked at him blankly, and nodded after a while. Naturally, he was not surprised how he could guess it.
Li Yong shook his head and said: "Then it seems that he is even more outrageous than I thought. Maybe he has tolerated you for a long time."
Chang Xingyun seemed to remember something, hesitated for a moment, and then heard Li Yong ask: "Is it because of the child?"
The female teacher raised her head, pursed her lips and said nothing, but it was self-evident.
Li Yong didn't even think there was anything strange about this. After all, although they did not live with their parents, it did not mean that there was no pressure from their parents.
Chen Qin seems to be a person who thinks highly of himself, but until now after getting married, he and Chang Xingyun still live in the Chang family's house. This is a challenge to his self-esteem, but he does not have the courage to tell Chang Xingyun. After all, that It will also look a little strange.
If the seeds of trouble were laid from that time, it is not surprising that they would reach this point today.
To put it bluntly, this is the story of a Phoenix man meeting Bai Fumei, and it is normal for the man to have low self-esteem and distortion. Li Yong even doubted whether there was something wrong with the author who "made up" this line.
As the saying goes, either break out in silence or perish in silence. Chen Qin has already embarked on the former path, and then headed towards the latter path.
"Then what do you think now?"
"I have no idea……"
"Don't know?" Li Yong looked at her with a confused expression. Although he was a teacher, he would also get lost in his own life.
But for Chang Xingyun, who has lived a carefree life since childhood and may not have encountered any major setbacks, it is not surprising to encounter difficulties at this time.
Even in terms of personality, Chang Xingyun, as the eldest sister, is more "soft girl" than Chang Xingyu.
Otherwise, it would be impossible to consult Li Yong, a child in her eyes.
"this is for you!"
Seeing Li Yong suddenly reaching out his hand, Chang Xingyun asked curiously: "What is this?"
"Movie tickets, the one that was released recently..."
Chang Xingyun glanced at him and suddenly asked: "Why do you want to give me this?"
"Aren't you upset right now? You just want to go watch a movie to relax and distract yourself so that you don't keep thinking about bad things." Li Yong shrugged and said, "Just listen to what I say, you might I still can’t make up my mind, why not listen to what the people in the movie say?”
Looking at the movie ticket, Chang Xingyun hesitated for a moment, then nodded.
