In the two families, the contrast between the two eldest brothers is sharp.
Because Qi Weimin has both parents, his temperament has always been relatively gentle. Except for when he encounters some things, such as Qiao Qiqi, he will become anxious. Most of the time, he looks like Asasi, who is a minor protagonist in another world. He never gets angry with others and is very willing to help others.
In fact, it was precisely because of his characteristics that Chang Xingyu took a fancy to him.
But after Qi Zhiqiang fell ill and died, and the Qi family lost its only backbone, Qi Weimin's character was not suitable to support a whole world. Therefore, because of Qiao Qiqi's relationship, he and his brother Qi Weiyi and sister Qi Xiaoya Instead, it drifted away.
It is true that these two people have been pampered since childhood, and their personalities may be worse than Qiao Simei. At least Qiao Simei has not made any big mistakes directly except for her love brain. In front of his eldest brother and stepfather, he began to shirk responsibility.
But this kind of character development itself was born from their family environment and the education methods of Wei Shufen and Qi Weimin.
As for the relationship with his brother, Qi Weimin himself has pushed him further and further away. Saying that he only looks after Qiao Qiqi may be an excuse, but it is not entirely an excuse.
In fact, Li Yong feels that it would be much better if the personalities of Qi Weimin and Qiao Yicheng could be combined, or complementary, because Qiao Yicheng's sternness is very much like a traditional father, and Qi Weimin's gentleness is very... Like a traditional mother.
If these two become a pair...
One cannot, at least one should not...
Li Yong shook off such nonsensical thoughts, looked at Qiao Yicheng who was deep in thought, and said with a smile: "Why, seeing Qi Weimin's appearance, have you started to reflect on yourself?"
Qiao Yicheng came back to his senses, then shook his head with a wry smile and said, "I really want to know what I am like in your heart."
Li Yong's evaluation of Wei Shufen and Qi Weimin was spot on, otherwise they would not have been left speechless, although Qi Weimin may have been mainly clumsy and did not know how to refute.
And Qiao Yicheng felt that he was not as good as Qi Weimin in many cases. Just like Qiao Qiqi, at least before Li Yong's persuasion, he was still inclined to send Qiao Qiqi back, even if they now have the conditions to send Qiao Qiqi back. Seven is left to be raised.
Li Yong smiled playfully, "Are you sure you want me to tell you directly?"
Qiao Yicheng saw that the look he was looking at was a bit strange, and he got some goosebumps inexplicably. Then he immediately shook his head and said: "Forget it, wait until you want to say it later."
Li Yong laughed when he saw it. Unless there was a mission requirement, he would not take the initiative to provoke others for no reason.
Then Qiao Yicheng frowned and asked the real question, which was also the question left by Qi Zhiqiang and the others before, "But what they said is right. I still have to go to school. I can't come back every day and count on the top two..."
Li Yong directly raised his hand and interrupted: "Qiao Erqiang is already 11 years old. If I remember correctly, you were only 12 years old three years ago. At that time, you had already started to take care of your three younger brothers and sisters. You look down on it from the bottom of your heart. The second best, you don’t trust him, do you think he can’t do what you can do?”
Children from poor families have become heads of family early, and the Qiao family is in a special situation, so there is no need for Qiao Yicheng to be overly protective of his younger siblings like Qi Weimin, and should give them more opportunities for self-development.
Qiao Yicheng was speechless. Of course he didn't mean it this way, but after listening to Li Yong's words, it seemed that he really didn't think highly of Qiao Er's superiority.
In other words, in his heart he still regarded Qiao Erqiang as a child who had not grown up.
In fact, this feels right, because in the past, Qiao Erqiang, although he could take care of others in some small ways, was generally ignorant and needed to be taken care of by others. He would even compete with Simei for candy and oil residue. In order to go to Niuye's house early to watch TV, he would tell the teacher that he had a stomachache and leave school early.
But this is the carefree childhood that children of this age should enjoy, isn't it? Although Qiao Erqiang did something bad and wrong, there is no need to deny it completely, especially since he still has Some of the merits just need someone to discover and guide them.
"Then let's start with Qiao Qiqi. In the past, when you led Qiao Erqiang and others, you had no experience and suffered a lot. Now at least they have you as a role model in front of them. As long as they remember how you took care of them before, Yes, just take care of Qiao Qiqi this way.
"And it's not just Erqiang. Sanli can also take care of others, even Simei. As long as she turns her head around, I believe she can actually be a good sister."
This is actually another "function" that Li Yong wants to tell Qiao Yicheng to keep Qiao Qiqi.
Seeing Qiao Yicheng purse his lips and say nothing, Li Yong sighed and continued: "Qiao Yicheng, haven't you always wanted to see the second strong person grow up? In my opinion, the most important thing is to first cultivate his understanding of this family. When he takes care of Qiao Qiqi, his younger brother, and when he realizes that he has truly become an older brother, he will naturally change his..."
Of course, the "family" Li Yong talks about excludes Qiao Zuwang, and Qiao Yicheng also knows this very well.
If it weren't for the fact that Li Yong always considered the problem from their perspective, unlike the neighbors and even the police who wanted to coordinate the relationship between their families, Qiao Yicheng would not be so convinced of Li Yong.
"I see……"
Having said that, Qiao Yicheng still felt a little uneasy at the thought of asking Qiao Erqiang to take care of the child.
Especially Qiao Qiqi can't compare to the two strong ones back then. His body is so weak, if he's not careful...
Li Yong saw his worries and smiled: "This is a test for the second strong, and it is not the same for Qiao Qiqi. And Qiao Yicheng, the one you should trust the most is Sanli, right? Let her be by your side." Wouldn't it be nice if you could help supervise me? Don't worry, nothing will go wrong."
On the contrary, Li Yong felt that it would be easier to cultivate Qiao Erqiang's sense of responsibility. As long as he realized that he had to take careful care of his brother to grow up safely and smoothly, otherwise something might happen if he was not careful.
Of course, not only Qiao Sanli can watch from the sidelines, Li Yong himself will also be their backing, and he should also guide these wildly grown children on how to raise children correctly.
But speaking of it, he has never taken care of such a young child.
In "Only Thirty", Xu Ziyan is not that young, and he was well educated by Gu Jia. He has been obedient and sensible since he was a child, and he doesn't need any education.
As for the child in Gu Jia's belly, it hasn't been born yet.
During the "Golden Years", he, Jiang Nansun and Zhu Suosuo did not have children yet. One of them was busy with their studies and the other was busy with their careers. They probably would not consider this before they were thirty years old.
Of course, according to Qiao Qiqi's character, he should not be very noisy. Li Yong hopes to train him to be more noisy. As long as he does not become a naughty child, there will be no problem.
In fact, it is better for children to be more lively. This does not mean that they have a fixed mindset, but that at this age, they are lively, active, curious, and willing to explore and try. This is also a valuable experience and memory for the children themselves.
When you grow up in the future, you may not have the time and willingness.
