In her words, there are not many big things that a person may encounter in this life.
However, she didn't want to live her whole life with a man who would abandon her at a critical moment, and she was thankful that she didn't have children.
The parents-in-law and mother-in-law persuaded and persuaded again and again, and the man even knelt down to admit his mistake and beg for mercy, but the young daughter-in-law still insisted on divorce.
The other family who filed for divorce was also a woman, a middle-aged woman who had just turned forty.
What she explained to her close friends from the same village was:
"Anyway, my daughter went to college last year. When she was young, she wanted to get divorced, but they refused to let her live with me. I was also afraid that her father would marry her and her stepmother would be bad for her. I watched her go to junior high school and high school, and I was worried. Divorce will affect her studies.
I have lived enough of my married life in the past twenty years. Thanks to this earthquake, I finally figured it out. People have to live for themselves for a few years."
My friend was very puzzled. In everyone's eyes, the men in this family were known to be good-natured people.
She works diligently in growing vegetables, and she usually obeys her wife and daughter's instructions. She is so good that she has nothing to say. What is the reason that makes a middle-aged rural woman unable to bear it anymore?
"Hmph, I'm not afraid of your jokes. They say he is honest, an old goose with pebbles!
When my daughter was not even eight years old, he got sick and came back home. Over the years, I have felt sick just looking at him."
What the hell? Honest people were not honest ten years ago!
This shocked the men and women in the village. Tidbits of news always gave people a lot to talk about after dinner. Some felt sorry for the broken family of three, while others were puzzled by the divorce at such a young age.
It is unknown what kind of psychological changes human nature will undergo after a disaster.
In the TV station's series of post-disaster reports, there were many stories of people who were moved.
Among them, there was a couple who had been in love for four years and had only been married for three months, which made people cry.
When the 5.12 earthquake struck, the girl and her husband were unable to escape safely. In the end, both of them were trapped in the corridor by the collapsed house.
When the search and rescue team found them, both of them were under rocks and unable to move.
At the critical moment, the girl gave up the opportunity to save herself first. She kept asking the search and rescue personnel to rescue her husband first. In the end, the search and rescue personnel could only follow her request to save her husband.
When search and rescue personnel finally rescued her, 12 hours had passed since they found them. The girl had already lost feeling in her legs and she was about to face high-level amputation.
Such a girl who is willing to sacrifice her life for her husband makes many people in front of the TV very moved and admired.
Everyone believed that her husband would take good care of her for the rest of her life, and they would support each other until they grow old together.
You Yu was silent when she saw this report. She is deeply aware of this story to this day.
The reason is quite ironic. The man did not properly take care of his wife who had a high amputee and disappeared before she was discharged from the hospital. It was not until two years later that he appeared again with a divorce agreement.
The girl was disheartened. Later, with the encouragement of her family and the help of caring people in society, she received prosthetic limbs and participated in many programs.
After her deeds spread, a certain singer discovered that this strong girl had a certain talent in singing, and brought her to Beijing to study music.
After that, fate seemed to favor this girl who had encountered all kinds of hardships, and her life suddenly became dazzling.
Be independent and self-reliant, live tenaciously, and become a better person.
You Yu was an ordinary person who was inspired by this girl back then. What can she do for her now?
By the way, prosthetics!
There are relatives with high-level amputations. For an ordinary family, this is not a small sum of money!
Zhuzhu’s mother loudly proclaimed:
"Did you hear that? Madam Yu donated another 10 million yuan. She said it was designated to be used for prosthetic limbs for amputees rescued from disaster areas!"
Big buck teeth and honor, "Our lady Yu is not only a female goddess of wealth, but also a money-spreading boy! They say she has donated all the money the company has earned in the past few years."
Zhuzhu's mother sighed: "She is a good person! How could such a good person get such a disease? It would be great if she could have a man and children!"
Big buck teeth retorted loudly: "You have no man, no children, and how can you? I think all the women in our village combined, there is no one like her who can live a cool life!"
This is to admire her and feel sorry for her.
There are also those who make sarcastic remarks, "Huh! I'm just a disabled person, what's the use of earning more money? Why don't I just donate it all and let others spend it!"
"Why is it useless? Didn't you see that reporters from the city's TV station have come to the village several times? They said they wanted to do a special report for her, but they pushed it to her."
"I'm afraid she thinks the city's cards aren't big enough. The one who came back last time was from the provincial station! I don't believe it. Didn't she donate more than 20 million to gain a good reputation?"
Some people are even placing bets on when You Yu will accept an exclusive interview with the TV station and how much more topics will be added to her two companies.
Unfortunately, none of them won the bet, and You Yu refused all interviews.
Not only did County Magistrate Lu and others look at her with admiration again, but the city leaders also signed up.
"The ten tickets for the Olympic opening ceremony that County Magistrate Lu gave me?" You Yu looked at the stack of tickets sent by her brother-in-law in disbelief. How difficult it is to buy these!
"Our County Magistrate Lu is from the capital, so he naturally has channels to buy tickets. This is to reward you for your contribution to the people in the disaster area during this earthquake relief operation!"
Deputy County Magistrate Lu finally dropped the word "vice" and became the head of Jiang County.
"Hahaha, all the senior city officials know your name! County Magistrate Lu has already nominated you for many awards, so just wait and hear the good news."
"I didn't do anything, I didn't dare to take it, I didn't dare to take it!"
You Yu: She knows her own business. She is just a part-time worker. No matter how much money she makes, she can’t take it away. Her brothers and sisters don’t need her support. Of course she can only give back to the society.
Not even half a month has passed since the hot discussion about donating money. At the beginning of June, everyone was refreshed by the arrival of asparagus in five impoverished mountain villages this year.
The few households in Yougoubian Village who followed the trend also benefited from the benefits. They went to the county vegetable market for wholesale and could sell it for 1,780 cents per catty.
Not only is this thing effective (benefits) quickly, but the output is also not low. The harder you pinch it, the faster it will grow!
In Diaoyazi Village, the whole village has planted a total of 150 acres.
At the beginning, I could pinch more than fifty kilograms of asparagus per acre at one time, and I could continue pinching every three to five days.
On average, each family can earn more than 100 yuan in three to five days. Even the eighty-year-old woman in the family can easily make money for food.
Days, not to mention the many goals!
(End of chapter)
