"It's finally over." After taking a bath, Shen Cha collapsed directly on the soft couch with a look of despair on his face, "I didn't expect that those foreigners didn't cause us any trouble, but our own people caused so much trouble. .”
"Who said foreigners didn't make trouble with us? Isn't that Abai from Erhutang who fought with you not a foreigner?" Shen Haolin wiped his hair and walked over. Seeing Shen Cha's appearance, he laughed, "Why? Are you so tired?"
"The main reason is that I'm tired. It's not as tiring as arranging troops or fighting a big battle." Shen Cha opened his eyes in large letters and closed his eyes slightly. "If Hongye is telling the truth, that Abai is not even a foreigner. Daxia people are the ones causing trouble." She sighed softly, "The Zhen family lives in this kind of intrigue and intrigue every day, don't they feel tired? Just listening to them talk about this I was exhausted physically and mentally during the process. It can be seen that people like us are still very happy. Those women who struggle and seek survival in the backyard every day are really pitiful."
"You, Jin Miaomiao and Hongye, as well as the female generals in the army who are charging on the battlefield, how can you compare with those women in the back house?" Shen Haolin wiped his head and took another hand. He bought a new handkerchief, helped Shen Cha up, put her neck on his lap, and wiped her head very gently. "You are all people who cherish the righteousness of your family and country. What you think about every day is how to strengthen your country and not be invaded by foreigners. If you don't fight for the blood on the front, how can those women in the back house feel at ease? Where are the intrigues?" Shen Haolin leaned down slightly, straightened out Shen Cha's hair, and continued to wipe it, "So, you can't understand their lives, and they can't understand yours. Since they can't understand, don't Just force yourself and let everyone complement each other and interfere."
"That's true." After wiping her hair, Shen Cha turned over on Shen Haolin's lap, "However, Zhen Dabao is a very pitiful child. He was born with all kinds of diseases and is destined not to grow up. , and then was used by relatives at home as a pawn for revenge. In class today, I have been thinking about a question. "
"What are you thinking about?" Shen Haolin moved Shen Cha back to the soft couch, moved over himself, let Shen Cha rest his head on his chest, and said, "For a while, you were obviously wandering. What are you thinking about?"
"I was thinking about what kind of parents are responsible and qualified parents." Shen Cha found a comfortable position in Shen Haolin's arms, rubbed it a few times, and said, "Our parents are responsible parents." Responsible parents, Uncle Xue and Aunt Xue are also responsible parents, including the late Emperor and the Queen Mother. They taught their children what tolerance, great love and a broad mind are. My mother has always known that I have The grievances between the two of us are very big and heavy, and she has been trying to excuse me."
"Smart people cannot use other people's mistakes to punish themselves. If you target them, you will become like them."
"Yes, this is something my mother often said to me." Shen Cha snorted twice, "If it weren't for my mother's persuasion, those two people would have disappeared long ago."
"People who are celebrating the New Year, don't be too violent!" Shen Haolin patted Shen Cha on the back, "However, if what they do threatens the safety of Daxia, we don't have to be merciful. This is great love. .”
"Brother is right, this is great love." Shen Cha sat up and reached out to touch the teacup on the side. After touching it, she took two sips, put the teacup back, and lay down again. The whole process, she was closed. Eye-catching. "Obviously, neither Mr. Zhen, Mrs. Zhen, nor Meng Wu, nor Miss Zhen are qualified parents. Their first consideration is not their children's feelings, but their own moods."
"Not only them, but also the people around them, such as the old housekeeper and the nanny, they can't talk without talking about the eldest lady or the old boss. They don't take the children seriously at all. Zhen Xing back then and Zhen Dabao now are the same. It’s just a tool they use to fight their so-called enemies.”
"Yes, the source of the tragedy of Zhen Xing and Zhen Dabao actually lies in these people. Because the child is not born with the one he likes, so it is natural for him to dislike and not care about this child, and it is natural for him to think that he has no responsibility to discipline this child. No matter what kind of character the child grows up to be, or what kind of person he becomes, as long as the child is alive and he is not accused by outsiders of mistreating his young child, it will be fine. But they did not expect that kind of indifference and indifference. , is very harmful to children, and will plant a seed of hatred in their hearts. As time goes by, this kind of hatred will slowly take root and sprout in the children's hearts, and they will treat anyone and anything. It's a hostile attitude. If they are allowed to develop, it will be a very big hidden danger." Shen Cha spread his hands, "That Zhen Xing never thought that Zhen Dabao would take revenge on him, nor did he think that Zhen Dabao would go to him. Throw firecrackers in the stove? In this current situation, both sides suffer. Everyone involved is a loser, and no one is a winner in this game. "
"I remember when I was very young, I overheard my father and mother's chat. I seemed to be one of their friends. Something similar to the Zhen family we met today happened at home, which made the whole family restless. The incident happened The couple is the eldest brother and sister-in-law of their parents' friends. These two people are married purely for profit. Before getting married, they each had someone they liked, but they reluctantly got together because of some interests of the elders in the family. After getting married, the family People's lives are very lively, there is a small fight every three days, a big fight every five days, there is no day without noisy."
"Then do they have children?" Shen Cha yawned, "If they have children, they will be really unlucky."
"There must be a child. The child was sent to a village in the countryside after he was born. There was no one around him except the wet nurse, the girl, and the boy. The parents didn't even visit him, so they just left the child to fend for himself. My mother told my father at that time that even if it is a marriage of interest, both parties can have a good discussion about how to live in the future before getting married. Even if they cannot reach an agreement, can they not have children? You are so unkind, I Isn’t it sad for a child who is born unwillingly to have parents who are irresponsible and use the child as a pawn to blackmail the other party?”
"Mom is right, what happened next? Did you find the child?"
"That child is a man of character. Since no one is here to take care of him, he can just take care of himself. When he was about six or seven years old, he ran out of Zhuangzi because the evil servants in Zhuangzi also flattered others and despised others. Yes, although this child occupies the title of the eldest son, he does not have the dignity that an eldest son should have, and they are not willing to waste time on him. So they have always ignored him, and even starved him for a meal or two from time to time. The child ran away, and they didn't notice it immediately. It seemed that it took almost half a month before they realized something was wrong. If they look for the child again, he will have disappeared long ago. "
"Where did the child go? Where could a six- or seven-year-old child go?"
"No one knows except himself. When he appears in front of everyone again, he is already a great general with great military exploits. His official position is much higher than that of his father. Moreover, no matter in terms of appearance or body shape, He is a replica of his father. His father wanted to recognize him, but he ignored his father and went directly to Song Jue to request an order, completely severing ties with that family."
"This story is a bit familiar." Shen Cha rubbed his ears, "How do you feel...Brother, is the child you are talking about Wei Daoqing, the general who conquered the west? I remember the name Daoqing, or did he give it to himself after the separation of the family? Changed.”
"That's him!" Shen Haolin chuckled, "This is a more inspiring and positive example of this type of family."
"It takes such a strong will to be able to reach the level of General Wei. A child like Zhen Dabao, who is being toyed with by the wife in the back house, probably can't do it." Shen Cha's voice became smaller and smaller. , "Go back... um, write a... memorial to His Majesty, suggesting that he... consider... consider how to... um... protect... this kind of family..."
Shen Haolin was still waiting for her to continue talking. After waiting for a long time, he heard the sound of long breathing. He lowered his head slightly and took a look, only to find that the girl had already fallen asleep.
"You worked hard today!" Shen Haolin kissed Shen Cha's forehead, "Have a good sleep!"
