What should I do if my child matures too early?
What are the obvious characteristics and manifestations of adolescence?
How can parents effectively communicate with their adolescent children?
Three words to instantly relax children who feel stressed out in adolescence...
Zhang Huolong was not focused on work today.
I spent the whole morning on Baidu asking questions about children's adolescence, and finally stopped at the question "What should I do if my child is too stressed?"
In the factory, I was pacing back and forth on the two assembly lines I was responsible for, feeling extremely anxious.
Everyone saw his absent-minded look and said hello: "Brother Fire Dragon, haven't you sobered up yet? I have chewing gum here!"
"I'm not drunk!"
The workers didn't believe it.
"I'm really not drunk!!"
Zhang Huolong emphasized again.
The workers nodded, yes, yes.
But Zhang Huolong really didn't have the face to lie this time, he was really not drunk.
After thinking about it, I asked a worker for a 12-pack of Double Happiness cigarettes. Then I went out to the factory gate and found a group of people just entering the factory gate.
He was probably here for an interview, and the factory director and interviewer were waiting at the door of the office.
Zhang Huolong walked around to the back door of the factory, squatted on a stone pier, lit a cigarette, and called Shen Qiangwei anxiously.
At the Ming She Tattoo Shop, Shen Qiangwei was using her grappling hand to hold down the screaming tattoo customer. She was about to insert the tattoo needle when the call came.
Putting away the same tricks she used to subdue Zhang Huolong yesterday, she said to the guest: "You need to think about it for a while. Don't react so much. I'll answer the phone."
Zhang Chaoqiang taught her the word brewing.
"Honey, I've seen a lot of answers on the Internet. Basically, they all say that the child has entered adolescence, or is under too much pressure during adolescence, so..."
Shen Qiangwei was very worried: "With such a young child, will there be any sequelae in the future? What should we do now? Otherwise, we should consult a doctor..."
"I'll pick you up now."
Zhang Huolong asked for a half-day leave from the factory director.
The factory director frowned: "I've been a little busy these past two days..."
Zhang Huolong didn't have time to pay attention to him. He drifted around with the will-o'-the-wisp key and said casually: "My super strong family has something to do."
"What's going on? Your super strong family is so obedient..."
"He has learned how to pass the deer pass!"
As soon as he said it, Zhang Huolong immediately realized that he had said the wrong thing and covered his mouth. The factory director looked shocked and quickly approved the fake.
Incredible, such a genius, no wonder you are under great pressure, go quickly...
On the other side, Shen Qiangwei put away her bag and said to the owner of the tattoo shop: "My super family has something going on, I have to go away for a while."
"This guy hasn't finished his tattoo yet. Your super strong guy is so good, what could happen to him?"
Glancing at the young man who was hesitant because of fear of pain, Shen Qiangwei said in a hurry: "He has learned the way!"
She also said the wrong thing, so she quickly shut up and denied it.
The boss thought: Huh? …
Zhang Huolong arrived just as Shen Qiangwei went out, and the two quickly went to the nearby Guangming Third Hospital.
The weather suddenly turned cold today, 12 degrees Celsius, but they were both sweating.
Recalling last night, they had a great meal.
I got up secretly in the middle of the night and ran outside the room alone, hearing the rustling movement.
From time to time, he would make something like a double, a haha, or a murmuring sound of running out of energy.
The most important thing was this morning when the two of them stared at Zhang Chaoqiang while he was brushing his teeth.
"Oh my God!"
"Being super strong is definitely too much pressure, otherwise it wouldn't be the case."
"Honey, please search quickly. In this case, should you go to the pediatric department, the reproductive department, the urology department, the psychiatry department, or the psychological department..."
"Being slow as soon as you come out will cause the front line to be tight."
Zhang Huolong gradually became incoherent.
Yuhua Primary School.
Teacher Guan was nowhere to be found in the office all morning. Zhang Chaoqiang was particularly anxious, very anxious!
A waste of his bonus time!
Finally, when get out of class ended at noon and the students all went to the cafeteria to get food, Tan Yuecai accompanied Zhang Chaoqiang and waited in the office until they arrived at Teacher Guan.
Teacher Guan seems to be very busy and has been replying to messages.
"Classmate Zhang Chaoqiang, you..."
Zhang Chaoqiang interrupted him directly and said more urgently than Teacher Guan: "Teacher Guan, my psychic ring is out of energy. Can you help me recharge it quickly?"
"You can't do it so soon, shouldn't you?" Teacher Guan was interrupted by him and forgot the reason for a while.
"Maybe there was something wrong with the psychic ring you gave Zhang Chaoqiang!" Tan Yue's shrewd eyes made Teacher Guan feel nervous.
"Okay, student Zhang Chaoqiang, please come and pick it up after the first class in the afternoon. Oh, that's not right. That's not the point. You got me in."
"That's right, classmate Zhang Chaoqiang, I heard from your parents that you seem to be under a lot of pressure recently. A beautiful psychology teacher will take you to visit the spiritual station later. Classmate Tan Yue, I will take you to get food. It's been so long. It’s cold.”
Before the two children could react, Tan Yue was led downstairs by Teacher Guan's hand, seemingly unable to resist.
And in front of Zhang Chaoqiang, a beautiful girl suddenly appeared.
To describe it as a girl is not an exaggeration. Xuan Yu, who just graduated from a liberal arts university and majored in psychology, joined the entire team of psychology teachers at Yuhua Primary School at the age of only 23.
The waterfall-like hair brings a calming fragrance and seems to have a hypnotic effect, as if a breeze blows on his face and Zhang Chaoqiang blinks his eyes subconsciously.
Has been taken to the spiritual station.
Blinking her eyes for the second time, Xuan spoke with a lovely smile like a breeze and asked him:
"Classmate Zhang Chaoqiang, are your recent study tasks heavy?"
"It's okay." Zhang Chaoqiang lost his mind for a moment and answered truthfully.
"Teacher, you have noticed that your grades have always been in the top three recently. Are you working hard on your studies?"
"fine."
"Did your parents take you out to play on weekends? What do they usually cook at home?"
“Occasionally, home-cooked food.”
"Do you have insomnia at night and have the habit of getting up in the middle of the night?"
"No."
"!!"
Zhang Chaoqiang's mental will suddenly realized something, why was his body so weak and so comfortable, answering questions as he pleased...
Hypnotized!
After waking up with a start, she opened her eyes for the third time. Xuan Yu's curious eyes were looking at the fur on her body, and her slender jade hands with transparent sequin nails pinched her thigh.
"oops."
Zhang Chaoqiang jumped up from the recliner, his mind filled with doubts: "Teacher, what are you doing?"
"It's okay, classmate Zhang Chaoqiang. I am a fourth-grade psychology teacher. My name is Xuan Yu. You can call me Teacher Xuan Yu from now on. I am just checking the students' mental health status as a routine. The check has been completed!"
Xuan Yu laughed harmlessly, Zhang Chaoqiang felt like she wanted to eat people. Are all psychology teachers so scary?
"Let's go, Teacher Xuan Yu will take you to dinner. The cafeteria will be closed at this time, let's..."
"No need, Teacher Xuan Yu. If nothing happens, I'll go back to the lounge first."
Thinking that Tan Yue should have brought him food, Zhang Chaoqiang left the teacher Xuan Yu, who seemed to him to be mysterious and ghostly, and ran away. What a strange teacher.
Xuan Yu looked at his back, her eyes changed from clever and gentle to serious and solemn, and she was typing on her mobile phone.
[Zhang Chaoqiang’s focus group]
Sour Q: After psychological examination, Zhang Chaoqiang has no psychological problems and is not troubled by factors such as excessive stress.
This may not be a good thing. There is an opportunity to express that Zhang Chaoqiang’s psychological pressure problem cannot be solved by Xuan Yu!