The narrator said: Ye Yu, can I ask you a question? It came to mind from the relationship between Ye Feng, Jiang Yu and Fatty.
Ye Yu said: Huh? You ask, I also want to know what you will ask.
The narrator said: Judging from the current situation, Ye Feng is now in a group to level up, and Ye Feng, as the leader of the group, distributes the dropped equipment to everyone. However, it was obvious that all the equipment in this dungeon was teammates' equipment, and there was no equipment suitable for Ye Feng at all. After all, the level of the copy is too low.
Therefore, the current situation is that Ye Feng is helping selflessly. Although Ye Feng has never asked for anything in return, this is normal. After all, Jiang Yu and Fatty are not only Ye Feng's friends, but also ministers who have sworn allegiance to Ye Feng, so this situation is not difficult to understand.
But if we are friends or people of equal status in reality, and we help each other but do not get the rewards we deserve, I always feel that there is something wrong with this, but I can’t explain why. Can you talk about it?
Ye Yu said: Well, let me tell you.
First of all, let’s be clear about the premise. What we are talking about is help between friends or people of equal status, not the kind of relationship between superiors and subordinates. Although Ye Feng, Jiang Yu, and Fatty are friends, they are also the superiors and subordinates of the monarch and his ministers.
Let's put it into perspective, if you have worked hard to help for a long time, but this help was in vain, then I can only tell you, admit it, your help was in vain. Otherwise, what else can you do?
Do you want to remind the other person yourself?
You must know the ugly ghosts of human nature that we often discuss. Human nature itself likes to magnify its own contribution and role in a matter. Especially after something is accomplished, I especially like to show off my decisive contribution. I am super awesome in everything. Even if I am pretending to be awesome, I still have to look awesome, which means I like to take credit for myself.
As for what will happen to such a person, we can refer to Xu You, the man who set up a plan for Cao Cao to attack Wuchao, where Yuan Shao's army was stationed for food. After the achievement, he went around showing off his achievements and not taking others seriously. He relied on his own achievements and repeatedly spoke wildly and insulted Cao Cao. In the end, he was beheaded by Xu Chu, Cao Cao's favorite general.
Then again, after the person you helped got the benefits, and after the greedy power threw you out of the sky, then this kind of person will not become popular. Because he cannot take advantage of the real talents in the long term. His biggest loss is when he loses your favor. He is different from you who are destined to become a dragon and a phoenix.
In this world, the real winners are long-termists who look at long-term interests. It's because the set of rules he follows in life and doing things has the highest probability of success, so he succeeds.
When someone asks you to do something, you have to make your own judgment first: Is this person worthy of your help? After you decide to help, you should either tell the truth and negotiate the terms in advance, or treat it as if you are giving love for free. You must not ask for terms halfway through helping, otherwise you will be the one who is unkind, because you are raising prices and taking advantage of others.
Even if the help is in vain, it is not useless to you. A favor can help you identify those people who are worth keeping in touch with and developing long-term relationships with, because those are people who are as valuable as you, and then the value between you will become higher and higher after helping each other.
Don't always worry about being forgotten by others, it only means that the other person is not the right one. So don't be afraid of helping in vain. The key is to have a long memory. If you help once in vain, if you don't have long memory, if you help in vain a second time, then you are making a fool of yourself and no one can save you.
Moreover, after giving the help, it also shows that there is a problem with your judgment of whether the other party is worth it. You should have judged whether the other party is worthy of your help at the first time. To be more generous, just treat it as teaching fees.
You have to know one thing, you don’t need everyone to understand you, and you don’t need to be rewarded every time you help. This is not buying food at the market, where you pay with one hand and deliver the goods with the other. You just need to remember that the friendship of one great person is far greater than that of a hundred ordinary people. Ordinary people are stuck in the quagmire of their own lives. They are scrambling for life-saving straws all over the world every day. They cannot provide anything of value. But the essence of this world is the equivalent exchange of value. An awesome person is different. The reason why an awesome person is awesome is because your life principles are the same. You are also an awesome person. You are mutual respecters and he is willing to make friends with you.
The more we are in the quagmire, the more we work hard, and we are all stepping on each other's shoulders, saying "I am the best and everyone else is stupid". But among great people, you are rich and noble, and I praise each other for my achievements.
Remember remember.
. . .
In the secret realm of unity.
Jiang Yu said: "Lao Ye, I'll go in first. See you later."
Ye Feng sighed deeply and said: "Go away, I don't want to see a pervert like you anymore."
Ye Feng paused for a moment and said:
"Boss Jiang, I only set the analgesic effect to last for twelve hours. You should pay attention to it. I don't want to go back and fish you out of any ditch."
Hearing this, Jiang Yu smiled and said, "Okay."
With that said, Jiang Yu passed through the entrance to the illusion and disappeared into the water curtain.
The fat man also said goodbye to Ye Feng and entered the illusion.
Linglong said: "Dad, I will go in first. Will you be lonely without my daughter by your side?"
Ye Feng smiled and said: "My ears will be much cleaner, my worries will be much less, and my mood will be much more peaceful."
Hearing this, Linglong stuck out her cute little tongue at Ye Feng, made a face, and plunged into the entrance of the fantasy world.
Yun Xi bowed to him and said, "Master, I'll go in first, and I'll come out to see you soon."
Ye Feng nodded and smiled: "Yun Xi, you have a higher understanding than me, but you have to remember that haste makes waste, and you would rather seek stability than speed, you know?"
Yun Xi said: "I understand."
Youji looked at Ye Feng speechlessly. It was obvious that she did not want to enter. Ye Feng could only smile bitterly and said: "Youji, you need to become stronger now, so this is an order."
Youji hesitated for a long time and finally nodded.
Before entering, Ye Feng said to You Ji: "You Ji, you have worked hard these days. You should also take this time to have a good rest. This is the second order."
Gu Ling'er didn't say anything, nodded to Ye Feng, and went in directly. Ye Feng didn't say anything. After all, Gu Ling'er just passed the test of the see-through eye.
But Tu Shanling glared at Ye Feng and said coquettishly: "You scumbag, you don't mean what you say."
Ye Feng smiled helplessly and said: "When you come out, the Heavenly Emperor's Tribulation and exclusive treasures will be given to you by Mr. Ye with both hands."
Tu Shanling's eyes lit up, "Okay, I'll forgive you, but is what you said true?"
Ye Feng said: "I guarantee my character."
Tu Shanling immediately cursed: "Bah, your character has been used up long ago, okay!"
