Mu Yuzhen specially hung a closure sign on the library door early today, and also packed up a large table to use as a dining table. Of course, it's time for Linglong, Yun Xi, Fatty, Jiang Yu and others to show off this kind of thing.
Soon the food was on the table and the dishes were put away, but Ye Feng discovered two problems. The first problem was that the fat man's face was quite ugly, as if he had a smelly sock in his mouth that had not been washed for a week. The second problem is that Xia Yimo hasn't left yet. Ye Feng remembered that he had finished saying what he needed to say to her and let her go.
Because Fatty is one of his own, Xia Yimo is an outsider, and this is his own dining table, so Ye Feng must first deal with the problem of Xia Yimo, an outsider present. Ye Feng is not one of those protagonists in Internet articles who thinks with his lower body. Xia Yimo is beautiful, but so what, a person who can treat people as human beings always gets a negative score from Ye Feng. Although Ye Feng is not qualified to judge whether a person is good or bad, Ye Feng is absolutely qualified to make a decision for himself about whether he likes or hates a person.
Ye Feng never thought that he could change other people's ideas and opinions just by talking. Ye Feng is not that arrogant, human nature is not that simple, even a fifteen-year-old girl's ideas are not so easy to change?
But why should Ye Feng change her mind? Does he know her very well?
Why do I have to have her as my partner, just because she is beautiful?
If a person's cognition, heart and soul make Ye Feng feel sick, then the more beautiful the person's appearance is, the more it makes Ye Feng feel sick. Normally Ye Feng would not kill the other person, he would just drive them away. After all, "Whether I want to be friends with you or not", of course it is my decision to make such a matter. However, that is also based on the general situation of "small debt, small payment", but it is just a general situation.
Xia Yimo's lack of regard for human beings was enough to make Ye Feng feel sick. Fortunately, Xia Yimo didn't disgust Ye Feng that much, not because of her beautiful appearance, but because after Ye Feng told the answer, she could feel a little shaken in her heart, and this shake made Ye Feng feel that this person was not so hopeless. . But Xia Yimo was only slightly shaken. After all, as mentioned before, it is not easy to change a person's concept.
But it is indeed commendable to start to reflect on and have doubts about deep-rooted wrong ideas.
However, if there was just a hint of wavering, Xia Yimo would not be qualified to sit at the same table with Ye Feng to eat.
What's more, the food on Ye Feng's table didn't even have Xia Yimo's share.
So Ye Feng looked at Xia Yimo seriously and asked, "Your Highness, why haven't you left yet?"
No one spoke in the audience. The friends who usually laughed and played with Ye Feng remained silent. Even the five wives who Ye Feng was usually "fearful of" didn't say a word. Because it was Ye Feng who was asking Xia Yimo seriously at this moment. They know what propriety means, and they can also distinguish between occasions. If they cannot do this, they are not qualified to stand by Ye Feng's side.
. . .
Here is something that must be explained to everyone:
In life, you can be kind, but you can't be too kind. Because people who are too kind-hearted basically don’t end well.
Being too kind is always a reverse-edged sword:
The more you accommodate, the more others will take advantage of you;
The more you retreat, the more others will drive you to death;
The more you forgive, the more unscrupulous others will be;
The more you are soft-hearted, the more greedy others will be.
Not every hurt can be forgiven, and not everyone deserves to be treated kindly.
Good intentions may not always be rewarded, because in life, not everyone knows how to repay kindness. If you are blindly kind, over time, you will become a person with no bottom line in the eyes of others.
Therefore, kindness should be given to those who are worthy of entrustment:
Only kindness given to the right person can be exchanged for gratitude;
If you sincerely give it to the right person, you won't be accused of paying by mistake.
Truly kind people never decide not to be kind, they just decide not to be kind to everyone. And to become a truly kind person, you must learn to let your kindness have an edge.
Just because I don't fight doesn't mean you can rob me. Just because I'm kind doesn't mean I'm easy to bully. Just because I can understand doesn't mean I can accept it. Just because I don't cause trouble doesn't mean I'm afraid of trouble. Just because I'm reasonable doesn't mean I won't fall out. Just because I give in doesn't mean you can push your limits. There must be a bottom line in being a human being and rules in doing things.
Kindness is a precious quality, but when kindness does not grow fangs, it is weakness.
"Those who respect me, respect them; those who despise me, abandon them."
At that time, you will find that when you show your fangs to the world fiercely, the world will suddenly become gentle and smile at you.
. . .
You want to ask me why I suddenly said this? Because "kindness must be sharp", Ye Feng understands; Ren Xiaojin, Qing Ni, Yingying, Xun'er and Xiao Wu understand; Jiang Yu, Fatty, Linglong, Yun Xi and other Ye Feng's friends understand. So they knew to shut up at the moment. They also know that this moment cannot be like usual.
Ye Feng is usually "afraid" of Ren Xiaojin and the others, but only a fool would regard that "fear" as real fear. Because that "fear" is actually Ye Feng's love for his wife.
To give an inappropriate example, the relationship between Ye Feng and Yingying is good, but if one day someone wants to ask Ye Feng to do things for that person through Yingying. But Yingying's line actually worked. Then Ye Feng would help that person for Yingying's sake, but at that time Yingying would no longer be qualified to stay with Ye Feng, let alone become Ye Feng's wife.
Ren Xiaojin and the other five people knew this very well.
The same model can be applied to other partners. Ye Feng is good to his friends, but he is not as good as a bad person.
Good people deserve respect, but bad people don't.
Therefore, no one of Ye Feng's friends would dare to take advantage of Ye Feng's kindness to him and act unscrupulously.
If you want to be stubborn, didn't Yingying beg Ye Feng to let Ying Hao go? Didn’t Ye Feng agree? What's Ye Feng's bottom line?
So please recall that it was Yingying, the wife who proposed it, and being used by others to open up Yingying's line are completely different things. And in this aspect, Nangong Yu just didn't understand this truth. Nangong Xiong used her own line to ask for Ye Feng's affairs, which violated Ye Feng's taboo, so Nangong Yu was destined to never become Ye Feng's in this life. Wife, do you understand now?
Therefore, Ye Feng was seriously asking Xia Yimo what he wanted to say, not asking others. Naturally, other people would not be stupid enough to say a word for that Xia Yimo. Mu Yuzhen, Xiruo and Mei Jiu also understand this.
That's why the whole place was silent.
And this is called propriety in getting along.
