If you ask me, why is a waste like Sima Zhong who can say "Why not eat minced meat" as a matter of course, in the fairy world, besides the beloved concubine, does anyone remember him?
Then you must have forgotten one thing. What those people remember is "Sword Immortal Sima Zhong", not Sima Zhong who said "Why not eat minced meat". The latter is naturally a waste, but the former is not. And even though he was a waste, he was later favored by an immortal and taken to the immortal world to become a swordsman.
You must know that before Sima Zhong became the Sword Immortal, he was a complete useless little emperor in everyone's eyes, and there were many peers who were better than him. Whether the Xianjia is looking for an outstanding talent of the same generation or a waste among the wastes, logically speaking, the Xianjia should not choose Sima Zhong no matter what, but the immortal chose him anyway. It can only be said that the immortal took a fancy to a certain value in Sima Zhong, so he chose Sima Zhong. However, no one else knew about this value, and neither did Sima Zhong himself. But now that Sima Zhong is dead, there is not much to say about what that value is.
Although Sima Zhong is not a good guy, we can still see positive things from this incident.
You have to believe: no one in this world is really worthless. The more inferior a person is, the more he must learn to discover his own value. Otherwise, to put it bluntly, those who want to cut you off will be able to discover the hidden value in you. But the sad thing is, if you don’t know it yourself, “if someone steals something, you don’t even know what is missing. Wouldn’t it be sad and pitiful?
Therefore, what a person with low self-esteem should do is not to stick to past mistakes, but to focus on what valuable things he has in his current self, and ignore what he does not have compared to others. It is indeed difficult to find a grain of sand in the desert, but isn't it obvious to find lice on a bald man's head? Anyway, you have nothing, and the only remaining advantages can still be found. Anyway, you are not afraid of losing anything anymore, because in that case, what else do you have to lose? Anyway, the situation can't be worse than it is now, right?
Take Sima Zhong as an example. This trash who shouted "Why not eat minced meat" was not favored by immortals. Even trash like Sima Zhong was valued by immortals. Do you think you are worse than a loser like Sima Zhong? Even if Sima Zhong is a dead person now, if the dead person is turned into ashes and buried under the ground, isn't it still valuable as fertilizer? What do you think?
But of course, people still have to have some value when they are alive.
Among those who remember Sima Zhong, Sima Zhong's beloved concubine was the one who wanted Ye Feng to die the most. After all, she wanted Ye Feng to die in order to borrow a knife to kill people, but she captured and sacrificed everyone who had even the slightest blood connection with Sima Zhong. After that, the second stage of the sealing secret realm of the Lock of Heaven was opened.
But I have to say that this woman is really cruel, but she is also very stupid. But her stupidity is not the fact that she is a weak person but still wants to be an enemy of a strong person like Ye Feng, but that she "acts before she can decide". If it is stupid to be an enemy of a strong person like Ye Feng, then everyone is stupid, because Ye Feng is the strongest on the ceiling, and anyone is weaker than him in front of Ye Feng. Anyone who is an enemy of Ye Feng is acting as a weak person against the strong Ye Feng.
Before this woman could fully understand Ye Feng's actual combat strength, she assumed Ye Feng's strength for granted, and used this assumption to formulate the "killing someone with a borrowed knife" action plan. "Taking action before making a decision" was the most stupid thing about her. Her actions were too hasty. However, although she is stupid, she is also powerful. She knows how to hide herself and retreat to the background. This is the reason why she is still alive at this moment.
As Zhang Juzheng once said, "Observe before planning, plan before taking action, think long and far, and all plans will be right."
If you are going to take on big responsibilities, you need to start developing a habit now. When any stimulation comes, be sure to close your mouth first. Too many people in life react immediately with their mouths when they are stimulated. That would be tragic, because trouble will come from their mouths. For those very powerful people, when any stimulus comes, their first reaction is to close their mouths. As soon as you close your mouth, the stimulus will go to your brain and circulate there. After thinking about it, you can speak only when you need to say something and act before you need to act. This is called "make a decision before acting" and "think twice before acting." ".
Anyone who reacts immediately when encountering a stimulus is a high-risk group. You are a human being, not a stress reflex.
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The narrator said: Wait, Ye Yu, that’s not right! Didn't you say before that when you are "indecisive and don't know whether you should do something, do it first?" Isn't this exactly the opposite of what you just expressed about "making a decision before acting" and "thinking twice before acting"? Of?
Ye Yu said: "Which comes first between "plot" and "action" depends on the situation. Assuming that what we want to do is a good thing, at least it is not a bad thing that obviously hurts others. If you are still considering whether to take action, then that When it's time, "move" first - that is to say, without considering whether to act or not, directly force your body to move first, and use brainless forced action to start the matter.
But if you are thinking about how to get a good result from something, then you must first "plan". You must do your best in advance, plan things well, and think clearly about all aspects of the matter within your own capabilities before taking action. And uphold the mentality of "doing your best and knowing your destiny" to do things
No one is perfect, and everyone messes up sometimes, so it’s not scary to do something wrong. The scary thing is that you did something wrong because you didn’t think clearly. Doing something wrong that should be done right is the most terrible thing. troublesome place
You said Ye Feng is perfect!
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! If Ye Feng heard you say this to him, he would definitely laugh and wait until he stops laughing before telling you,
"You made a mistake, and I will make a mistake too. And I made a mistake that I will regret for the rest of my life in the place where I least want to make a mistake."
Then he walked away with a lonely look on his face
If Ye Feng was a perfect person and would not make mistakes, then Hong Ye would not have died.
Of course, if it is a bad thing, our suggestion is that no matter what you are considering, it is better not to "move". If you don't "act" and just think about it, it will naturally be too late to repent. But once you do it, it's too late. What you think in your heart won't matter at that time. No one will care about what you thought in your heart at that time.
After all, "good things depend on your heart, and bad things depend on your actions."
That’s why we often say that we should “plan before taking action.” Otherwise, you will fail even if you are a bad person.
