Ren Xiaojin cried in Ye Feng's arms for who knows how long. After her tears dried slightly, what did she suddenly think of? Breaking away from Ye Feng's arms, he looked up at Ye Feng and said, "Don't you still have something to do?"
Ye Feng said: "Don't be anxious about Chi Yueling's girl's affairs, but you can't be slow about your affairs."
Ren Xiaojin wiped the tears on her face, and Ye Feng gently wiped away the tears on Ren Xiaojin's face. In just an instant, Ren Xiaojin's face was as white as new.
Ren Xiaojin glared at Ye Feng and said, "Who did this to me?"
Ye Feng just smiled softly and said, "I was the one who caused it."
"Then let's go together." Ren Xiaojin took Ye Feng's hand and walked towards the pseudo-fairyland.
It should be explained here that although Qing Ni could control the pseudo-wonderland to see the situation outside, Qing Ni did not do that. After all, I won’t tell Ren Xiaojin and Yingying everything about the time when I was with Ye Feng. There are some things that I don’t want Ren Xiaojin and Yingying to know, because they are secrets that belong to myself and Ye Feng. It's the same for everyone.
Sincerity does not mean exposing everything to everyone without any choice, thereby making your own life a mess, or even making other people's lives become a mess with you. That's not sincerity, that's stupidity.
Here is the simplest example. You have grown up and are working outside. Your life is very hard. Your elderly and sick parents in your hometown call you and ask if you are doing well outside. How would you answer?
Maybe even if I don't tell you the answer, you know how to answer it.
"Dad, Mom, I'm doing well outside. I'm not tired at work. My colleagues are also very nice to me. I have good food and good housing. Don't worry, you two. I will go home during the Chinese New Year."
Yes, even if your true situation is completely opposite, you will never tell your parents sincerely, even if it is all lies. Can you say that I am bad for being so insincere? Well, your so-called good thing is to tell the truth to your parents, so I think it's better for us, because as I said, your parents can't help you, and they have to worry about you not having enough to eat. They are already old. ah.
So what do you think is the problem with sincerity?
First of all, we must confirm that sincerity is correct in most cases. The reason why this is the case in the vast majority of cases is because, as we have said before, no truth is universally applicable. The same goes for sincerity.
First of all, sincerity has to be divided among people. Sincerity that treats everyone without distinction is the most foolish thing. This does not need to be proved. You can understand it if you think about it. After all, not everyone is good to you, and not everyone deserves your sincerity.
Secondly, when facing people who deserve your sincerity, you should also distinguish what can and cannot be said. These completely depend on your own judgment and choice. These judgments and choices determine what kind of person you become and what kind of character you have. Maybe after you are sincere to someone who deserves to be sincere, you will be considered a measured person, or you may be considered a fool who speaks unscrupulously.
This may be easier to understand using a mathematical model. Human relations and various truths are not as rigorous and precise as mathematics. In mathematics, one plus one equals two. Everyone will think you are right, but in "human relations and various truths" One plus one equals an interval value between one and ten. Any one to ten may be the answer. In other words, there is no fixed and unique standard answer.
And this involves whether what you pursue throughout your life is your own recognition or the recognition of others. If you are pursuing your own recognition, then you can just stick to your own "one plus one equals five" and don't worry about other things. People recognize it or not.
But if you care more about other people's approval, then please give up your obsession with "one plus one equals five", constantly improve your eyesight, and say before others say it, "one plus one equals five" in others' minds. How much is it equal to?" As your eyesight improves, your accuracy will gradually improve, and you will gradually become prosperous, or in other words, you will become flatter and more accurate.
In fact, both of them are ways to live in the world. There is no right or wrong, they are just human choices. However, the crystallization of wisdom of the sages of the past generations tells us how to choose a person who is more likely to become a person who will die without regrets, and we have said this answer many times. I won’t go into details here to avoid suspicion of hydrology.
And whether you want to die without regrets or not, is it also a choice?
Sincerity is such a thing
So if you say that Qing Ni is different from others, Qing Ni and Ye Feng are husband and wife. So let me ask, should husband and wife be sincere without reservation? First of all, sincerity is different from loyalty. If you engage in an affair, you are disloyal and you deserve to be beaten to death. Don’t confuse it with sincerity.
The essence of the relationship between husband and wife is actually to give some of the privileges that should only belong to oneself to the person one loves. There is nothing wrong with privileges. Privileges should be given to the right people. What is wrong is those who abuse them. But the so-called privileges only refer to a part of all rights. If you give all your rights to the other person, there was only one word to describe this kind of person in ancient times, and that was:
"slave!"
And whether your significant other becomes your wife or husband before or after, first of all they should be human beings, not slaves.
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Everyone in the pseudo fairyland was getting impatient when they finally waited until Ren Xiaojin dragged Ye Feng in happily. Seeing Ren Xiaojin's spring breeze and Ye Feng's "kidney overdraft" expression, I really couldn't help but feel Do you regret not peeking or are you glad you didn't peek?
But one thing is for sure, Ye Feng, a scumbag, has coaxed Ren Xiaojin into good shape again.
This was the time for Linglong to say: "Dad, do you want me to buy you a Huiyuan kidney..."
Before Linglong could finish her words, she was shot and crouched next to her with her head in her hands.
Qingni took Ren Xiaojin's hand and said, "Sister Jin'er, are you okay?"
Ren Xiaojin also held Qingni's hand back and said with a smile: "It's okay."
Qing Ni could tell that Ren Xiaojin's temperament and state were completely different from before. She couldn't help but glare at Ye Feng, who looked like a normal person in the distance. Ye Feng trembled all over, wondering where he had offended Qing'er.
But Tu Shanling seemed to have lost her mind and said directly to Ye Feng: "Hey, scumbag, your time to do things is too short..."
With a "pop" sound, Tu Shanling's head was shot and he squatted next to Ling. He and Linglong crouched down with their heads in their hands. At this moment, Tu Shanling finally understood why she had to squat down. It was so painful that she couldn't straighten her back.
Linglong looked at Tu Shanling next to her with a friendly smile of revolutionary comrades. After all, the alliance has not had new members for a long time, so it is still quite lonely.
