In fact, there is a strange and funny phenomenon at this moment. There is an opportunity for people to make a career in the venue, but no one recognizes it. This situation is quite similar to watching a shitty drama in front of the TV. A discerning person will know at a glance that the female protagonist is a green tea bitch. You, the male protagonist, are not blind, but you can't see it. You don't want to leave such a good female protagonist. , the audience almost jumped up after watching it, and they almost pulled the male protagonist by the collar and cursed: "You are blind, that woman is a bitch!"
The most anxious one at the moment is Mr. Wang, but he cannot tell anyone else about Ye Feng's situation. Ye Feng only admits his identity in front of himself, for what reason, and what should he do? Does he need anyone to teach him?
His grandson and the one named Jiang Yu were the ones who came with Ye Feng, how could they not know their identities? But it was obvious that his grandson and Jiang Yu would not spread his message. After all, if it was to be spread, it would have been spread a long time ago, so it’s not like I am the only one who knows about it now.
If Ye Feng's identity was exposed at this time, any normal person would only think that he was the one who was exposed. Even if there are no other possibilities, no matter what the actual situation is, as long as the other party believes so, it is enough. The trouble after that would be enough to make a drink of its own. And the most important thing is that if he doesn't reveal it, at least those children can still have a small chance through luck. But once he reveals the identity of the other party, and Ye Feng is secretly angry, then those children really have no chance at all.
Even though I really want my people to have a relationship with each other, and I want my children and grandchildren to enjoy the shade under the big tree, but I can't give any hints. Everything depends on my grandchildren. After all, his grandson has already established a relationship with the other party. From the previous conversation between himself and Ye Feng, Mr. Wang has confirmed that Wang Hai and Ye Feng have a good relationship, so strictly speaking, he has climbed a high branch and has landed. , there is no need to be so anxious. But neither of his two old friends, Zhao Jinguo and Divine Doctor Liu. Because of the relationship between Divine Doctor Liu and his sect, it seems that Liu Kai will also enter the world of immortality in the future. But what about brother Zhao Jinguo?
It can only be said that Mr. Wang is very interesting to his two brothers.
So when Mr. Wang saw the performance of Brother Zhao's two granddaughters, the old man knew that there were some things and some truths, and knowing them and doing them were completely different things. For example, "You can't tell a person by his appearance."
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At this time, on the big screen of Ye Mansion, Linglong said: "Dad, you are pretending to be ugly. Those women judge people by their appearance. You are basically deliberately not giving other people a chance."
Ye Feng was amused by Linglong's words and said, "Whether I give others a chance or not is my business. I just don't want to give another chance."
Ye Feng didn't explain much this time, but sometimes, one sentence is enough for some things. And Ye Feng's words just now were enough to reassure Ren Xiaojin, Qingni and Yingying.
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The narrator said: Ye Yu, are you ready to clear your name for "judging a book by its appearance"?
Ye Yu said: Yes, I have to say, you really look like the roundworm in my belly.
The narrator yelled: "Go away, has anyone ever made a metaphor as disgusting as you do?"
Ye Yu said: Okay, I won’t joke with you anymore, let me get to the point. Everyone says don’t judge a book by its appearance; Say important things three times, but don’t judge people by their appearance. How do you see people? Everyone agrees and knows not to judge people by their appearance, but they don’t know that they are trying to imitate others and have not understood what it means to truly “judge people by their appearance.”
First of all, it is necessary and necessary to judge people by their appearance. Just imagine, you just met a stranger, and you told me not to judge a person by his appearance, but to look at his heart. But the question is, do you have the ability to see through the other person's heart? Do you have Ye Feng's ability to "see through"? Since you don't, you can't see through other people's hearts or appearances, so what do you want to see? Look at the internal organs! Then you might as well take the other person to the hospital for a B-ultrasound! Or just don't contact strangers at all, but it's your own decision to contact strangers. There are several meanings in relying on others. If you want to say that I am a homebody, I just don't contact others, and that's up to you. After all, "people" "There is no need to have it, so why talk about the issue of appearance, right?
So whenever you want to go into society and meet strangers or meet people for the first time, the only thing you can do is judge people by their appearance, that is, judge a person by looking at their appearance and behavior. You must know that Ye Feng's "seeing through" is actually a kind of judging people by their appearance before it is sublimated into Ye Feng's skill. It's just that Ye Feng is more cautious in judging people by their appearance. This is about how to correctly treat the matter of "judging people by their appearance".
In fact, if you have enough experience in this world, you can judge a book by its appearance 10 times, succeed 9 times, and fail once. This high success rate can also be achieved. It's just that people don't care about this trivial "success" at all, but they are very worried about "failure to recognize people". Survivor bias leads to failure once, and you lament that you can't "judge a book by its cover." Don't you think it's funny? This actually has something to do with people remembering the good things others do to them, and more importantly, the bad things others do to them. One word that easily arises from this is "ungrateful". This is due to human nature, and of course there is nature in it. After all, isn’t the result of failure to recognize people bad for you?
Have you ever thought about one thing? Everyone is telling you "Don't judge people by their appearance." But I want to tell you that those successful people all judge people by their appearance. After all, their life experience is there, and they have such a high success rate. "Judge people by their appearance" is there. Why not use such an efficient tool? Wouldn't it be better to save the time of exploring the hearts of those 10 people and do other things? So when you believe those lies, don’t judge people by their appearance, and waste your time on time-consuming and thankless things like changing other people’s hearts. Those people have already carved up the cake of success, and won’t even leave you with the dregs. . At that time, what they wanted to do was to knock down the ladder you wanted to climb up on, or even burn it down, from the commanding heights to completely consolidate your own class. We must know that class solidification is inevitable without external intervention, unless there is a strong external force to break it, and the process of breaking it must be violent.
So, now I give you a chance to choose again. Do you still want to judge books by their appearance?
So the next thing I want to talk about is how to accurately judge people by their appearance?
After all, if you blindly judge people by their appearance, you will die faster and more tragically than if you don't judge people by their appearance. Do you know too little about how badly those cannon fodders who judge people by their appearance in the novel "Xiu Xian Shuang" were beaten in the face by the protagonist pretending to be a pig and eating a tiger?
