In the end, Ye Feng made it clear that he would not accept the Wang family's industry. But even if he doesn't accept it, Wang Hai is his brother. If there are any difficulties in the future, he will naturally do his best to help for the sake of his brother. There is no need for him to pay the price. However, Ye Feng suggested that Mr. Wang had better tell Wang Hai the actual condition. Ye Feng told him that he might not be the chance for him to survive, but Wang Hai definitely was. Mr. Wang has been in business for so many years, but he still doesn't understand the meaning of Ye Feng's words.
Mr. Wang understood that Ye Feng respected his own stubbornness, so he found a way to save himself. After all, he had rejected other people's kindness twice in a row. As the saying goes, the other party would not force anything. To be honest, I really have no intention of accepting Ye Feng's kindness. As the saying goes, no reward will be given for no merit. The first principle of establishing a career that I have summarized through hard work in the business world is not to be greedy. What you deserve is what you deserve. Never give up. What is not yours. Absolutely not. After Ye Feng asked himself to tell Wang Hai about his condition, Wang Hai would definitely find a way to save the old man, and he would inevitably not be able to avoid Ye Feng. At that time, the method Ye Feng wanted to use to save himself would naturally come to him through Wang Hai. And if his grandson wants to save his filial piety, no matter how stubborn he is, can he still give it up?
As a businessman, we pursue profits but are not obsessed with fame. The so-called benefit refers to the actual benefit obtained. Ye Feng just wanted to hand over the method of survival to Mr. Wang. As for who gave it to him, it didn't matter whether it was a favor from Ye Feng in name. After all, Ye Feng didn't care about fame and fortune. When he helped others, he never thought that the other party would remember him, let alone Let alone repaying a favor.
The reason why Ye Feng helped Mr. Wang must be because he was Fatty's grandfather. In addition, there is of course Mr. Wang's temperament of knowing what to do, knowing how to advance and retreat, and leaving room for leeway. It will be a very comfortable thing to talk and interact with such a person. Therefore, meeting is fate, and there is no need to worry about this method of extending life.
But it is precisely because Ye Feng knows that Mr. Wang is the kind of person who knows how to measure, and he is even stubborn to the point of stubbornness, so when giving favors, he also needs to consider ways and means. We must know that unilaterally imposed good intentions are not malicious in another sense.
So on the big screen, Ye Feng couldn't help but sigh: "These days, if you occasionally want to be a good person, do something good, and accumulate some moral virtue for yourself, you have to find ways and means. It's really not easy to be a good person."
Yingying said angrily: "It's easy to be a bad person, isn't it? It's not like you have a reputation as a big liar. You've been a bad person for a long time. It's not that easy to be a good person."
Ye Feng clicked his tongue and said: "That's right. It's true that if God does evil, it can be forgiven, but if you do it yourself, you can't live."
At this time Lan Lan added: "It is true that people like Ye Feng deserve to be struck by thunder, but I know that thunder cannot kill you. It's really unlucky."
Hearing this, Ye Feng smiled at Lan Lan and gave her a proverb: "Roll over, baby cow."
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We often say that having an elder in a family is like having a treasure. In fact, it does not mean that the elderly are treasures, but it shows that the elderly occupy an important position in the family. This should be discussed in two aspects: pros and cons.
On the positive side, the elderly are like a treasure chest. They will use their unique experiences and insights to bring a lot of life insights and inspiration to the young people at home. At the same time, there is no doubt that the elderly always stand at the core of the spinning top of the family. Their inevitable leadership and authority are undoubtedly the best glue for a family, making a family full of cohesion and centripetal force. And this is simply impossible for young people to do. At the same time, the elderly are not only the glue of the family, but also the glue of a society and a country. Therefore, it is not unreasonable that among the traditional Chinese virtues of "respecting the elderly and loving the young", "respecting the elderly" comes first.
At the same time, this is also the reason why Yaya's father, Lao Liangtou, made suggestions to Ye Feng before.
Of course there are negative examples. As long as there is an unscrupulous old man with narrow cognition, strong personality, and selfishness in any family, it will inevitably lead to the decline of a big family. The reason is the same as above. The old man occupies an important position in the family, but for such an important person, if he cannot live up to it, he will lose his temper, show off his face, and show off his acting skills, for fear of the peace of his children and the stability of the world. Excessive demands for attention, respect, and obedience from other members. To defend his poor dignity. In this way, the children in the family will also suffer. If the children resist even a little bit, those people will use the kindness of upbringing to morally kidnap them. They will not be able to deal with big things and are unwilling to listen to small things. In the end, family members will not cooperate and win-win, but will only attack each other and belittle each other, and the family atmosphere will be extremely depressed. . In that case, family decline is almost inevitable. The original text in "Yan's Family Instructions - Managing the Family" reads: If the father is unkind, the son will be unfilial; if the elder brother is not a friend, the younger brother will be disrespectful; if the husband is unjust, the wife will be disobedient. These all make sense.
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Afterwards, Mr. Wang thanked Ye Feng and asked Ye Feng if he wanted to go to the scene to see it. After all, he had already come, but Ye Feng said that he had finished all the things he came here to do, so it was not inconvenient to bother him.
Hearing this, Mr. Wang could still see a bit of disappointment on his face. Ye Feng also smiled helplessly, but when he looked at the entire villa, Ye Feng suddenly changed his words in the next second: "But the old man is right, he is here, and this distant relative of mine and I will be here soon." Let’s go to the venue and have something to eat before leaving.”
"Okay, let's go together." Mr. Wang smiled.
However, Ye Feng said that there was still something that needed to be dealt with, so he asked Mr. Wang to go first and he would arrive later.
Mr. Wang also smiled when he heard this. Since the other party agreed to go, he would naturally not lie to others if he said it in that capacity. So he raised his hand, and a Hongqi million-level luxury car parked next to him. The old man originally wanted to ask the driver to wait here and listen to Ye Feng's arrangements at any time, but Ye Feng declined. Ye Feng told Mr. Wang that he came incognito and did not want to be recognized by others in such a high profile. Because I don’t want others to know that I left Kyoto and came to this place. Therefore, Mr. Wang's arrangement is a bit deceptive.
After Mr. Wang understood the meaning of Ye Feng's words, he stopped forcing it, although at this moment Ye Feng was an honored guest that he could not invite. I am not willing to be so indifferent to the guest's hospitality. However, the guest himself requests it, so I, the host, can only follow his wishes.
So after getting in the car, the old man told Ye Feng that he would be waiting for you at the venue, and then went to the venue.
