When Ye Feng first returned to the crowd, Ying Ji and Meng Ying also came from behind. Ying Ji showed her excellent acting skills and directly complained to Ying Ying:
"Senior sister, Ye Feng, he bullied me!"
Yingying said: "Oh, why did Feng bully you?"
As he spoke, he looked at Ye Feng with a smile, but that smile stung Ye Feng's back.
So Ying Ji told what had just happened, turning the black and white upside down. Basically, she said that she was an innocent victim, and did not mention that she deliberately provoked Ye Feng in the first place.
So Ye Feng's shameless lower limit once again refreshed everyone's outlook.
"Yingying, listen to my explanation, this is not the case," Ye Feng said,
This is another standard scumbag line. It's a pity that everyone doesn't have time to listen to Ye Feng's explanation now, because Lan Lan has already walked far ahead and has to go to many places today. There is no time to listen to Ye Feng, a person who has obviously been wronged, to complain about his grievances. Why does everyone know that Ye Feng has been wronged? That's because Ye Feng has been wronged by girls not once or twice. Everyone is used to it. Besides, Ye Feng paid for it himself and helped Ying Ji pay in the end, right?
This time, Ying Ji and Meng Ying also followed Ye Feng and the others. The reason is: Ying Ji is the queen of Qin, and Kyoto is a partner of Qin. The important figures in Kyoto have dirty morals. As a partner, Yong'an Fang will also have no face, so Ying Ji will also follow Ye Feng and supervise Ye Feng's abnormal behavior not to go too far.
In fact, everyone present was convinced at this moment. Ying Ji almost had a note on her forehead saying "I want to play together too." This is probably what is called tsundere.
As for Meng Fei, after discussing with his sister, he decided to go find Liu Gang and others who were enjoying life. After all, Meng Fei was the real leader of their guard team, and it was his duty as the leader to ensure their safety. matter. And Meng Ying is just the Queen's personal bodyguard
When Meng Ying heard that Meng Fei had decided to fulfill a leadership obligation, she was also surprised and happy. Because from the time they left Yong'an until now, although Liu Gang and the other guards were once his subordinates, they are now Meng Fei's subordinates. Meng Fei was the commander of the guards, but he even blurred his own identity, which made everyone feel awkward. For example, Liu Gang and the others should have followed the orders of their commander, Meng Fei, but Meng Fei had always shied away from letting his sister make the decision. He always thought that he was still the same Meng Fei who was his father's subordinate. He didn't realize that he was now trying hard to be like his father.
In fact, Liu Gang and the others were very passive and embarrassed at this moment, but Meng Fei was still cowardly and weak, so that small matters could only be decided by Liu Gang, and major matters could only be decided by the old leader Meng Ying. It's okay now because everyone is on their own and everyone can and is willing to help you find out, so it's okay. But what about next time? Next time Liu Gang and the others become someone else. Meng Fei, can you still do this? Is there anyone else willing to help you?
Now that your father is dead, Meng Fei, you must grow up and be brave.
When everyone develops to a new stage and has a new identity, they must make decisive and brave choices and changes. Maybe they may be a little scared and awkward at first, but they absolutely cannot escape, but Meng Fei still escaped.
In fact, this situation like Meng Fei’s is not a special case. In the real society, the identity of each of us cannot change forever. When we were young, we were just the children of our parents, and “children” were our identities. Of course, Including friends, students, etc. When we graduate, our status as students will change to that of working employees. Later, when we meet, fall in love, and get married, our identities will be labeled as husbands and wives. Even after our children are born, our children’s identities will be superimposed again. An identity named "parent".
what are these? These are changes in identity. All changes in this world are opportunities and risks. Different people view "change" from different angles and display different emotions and attitudes. Those who see opportunities are excited and even headstrong; those who see risks are cautious, even timid. Meng Fei is the latter. Changes in this world always come earlier than tomorrow. We must learn to adapt to changes in our own identity immediately, otherwise it will only make people around you awkward. For example, a mama’s boy is obviously married and is someone else’s husband. This is an identity that should protect his wife. But she still has no independent opinion all day long and only listens to her parents. This will make the wife very insecure. This is awkward. Whether such a marriage can last depends entirely on when the "mama's boy" can adapt to facing her husband. This change in positioning
Meng Ying was very curious as to why Meng Fei had reached this point, and what had happened to him that made him change like this. So Meng Ying raised this issue
Meng Fei said: "Brother Ye Feng told me. He said that fear is not shameful and that fear is a normal behavior of people. Moreover, he encouraged me that the more scared I am, the more I have to force myself to take the first step, so I think I might still be able to take the first step." I can’t become as powerful a leader as my father, but I want to start with some small things like being a leader, take the first step, and I will keep working hard.”
Meng Ying was surprised when she heard what Meng Fei said. Because I had talked to him about being brave more than once, but they all failed without exception. Mr. Ye Feng had just stayed in the smoking area with his younger brother Meng Fei for only half an hour, but Meng Fei had already been successfully persuaded by Ye Feng. Meng Ying wanted to know that he could not convince Meng Fei, but Ye Feng could. Reasons to convince him
So Mengying asked this question again
Meng Fei replied: "Because Brother Ye Feng said that he is not a fearless strong man. He said that like me, he also has things to be afraid of."
"..." After hearing this, Meng Ying fell silent. At this moment, she finally understood the reason why she failed. It was because of the height difference between her positions during the conversation. For example, if you are an adult talking to a child, you can choose to stand and talk, or you can squat down and talk to the child at eye level. In the former case, children must look up to you, and while feeling more awe in their hearts, they also feel a little more rejection subconsciously. In the latter case, when you squat down and look at the children, the children only need to look straight at you, and feel less awe and also feel a sense of rejection. There is less of a hint of subconscious rejection. This is also the reason why he failed and Ye Feng succeeded.
By the way, when Ye Feng talks to children, he almost always squats down and looks at the children, without exception. Even if there is an exception, it is just Gu Ying, and Ye Feng holds Gu Ying in his arms. At that time The line of sight is also level.
And this is Ye Feng’s magnanimity!
