"Miss Zhong." Han Guo looked at his wife and children who had turned into zombies, as ugly and terrifying as before. It seemed that in Han Guo's eyes, his wife was still so beautiful and had never changed. The children were So cute, always so cute.
Hearing this, Zhong Li calmed down and said hurriedly: "Mr. Han, what are your orders?"
Han Guo looked at his wife and said, "Miss Han, please forgive me for what I'll say next. It may be a little rude and overbearing, but it may be the last thing I say to you in this life. Just treat it as an old man's. Some parting words."
The narrator said: The smart people in the world understand what it means to ignore matters that have nothing to do with them. Mr. Han is very smart. He knows that there is no need to say anything to Zhong Li, just because he is too kind.
Zhong Li was stunned. She didn't understand what Mr. Han was going to say to her, but she finally said, "Mr. Han, it doesn't matter."
"Miss Zhong, I can see that there should be someone you miss but can't see, so what do you think love is?" Han Guo said, still looking at the zombie's wife and children.
"..." Zhong Li was speechless. It wasn't that she didn't know how to speak. On the contrary, because she was in a special working environment and was an oiran, she could say many kinds of romantic expressions about love. And every statement is recognized and pursued by countless people. In the eyes of everyone, she is the person who knows love best.
Han Guo finally looked at Zhong Li and gave him a rare smile: "Sure enough, it's not that I can't tell because I don't know, but because I know too much that I can't choose."
Han Guo would smile to those who appreciated him, but he was very indifferent to those who didn't appreciate him. Because Zhong Li didn't understand the rules before, although Han Guo didn't make things difficult for Zhong Li, he still acted like "Don't pay attention to me, I don't want to pay attention to you either." Your expression, how can you smile in that situation. Mr. Han is a smart man who knows how to take measures, and he is also a smart man who knows how to protect himself. In the cold world, he knows how to perfectly combine "not caring about himself" with the benevolence of a doctor. Otherwise, how can he become a "sage of medicine"? Name, how to bear the word "holy". Before leaving, he wanted to treat one more person because he remembered that little friend Ye Feng had said to him that he would have to heal people until the end of his life. Only in this way could he atone for his sins, but this time he wanted to heal one person. Heart.
So after he smiled at Zhong Li, he turned to look at his wife and continued: "Miss Zhong, the so-called love does not actually need so many gorgeous words to describe and modify it. It is actually very ordinary and ordinary. . It means that one's eyes are full of the other person's figure, and that the other person's importance in one's heart exceeds one's own life. This is what Miss Qingni does to little friend Ye Feng. At the same time, love also puts the other person's needs before their own. Before his own needs, little friend Ye Feng also did this to Miss Qingni. There is no doubt that they love each other.
That is the most primitive form of love, very ordinary and ordinary. As for other aspects, love actually means nothing, and at the same time, love actually requires nothing. It’s just that we in the world like to impose our own values on it to gain a universal sense of group identity. What is most recognized and praised by the public now is that you only love one person for the rest of your life. Little do you know that that is the limit of what love can tolerate. And love is no longer what it was originally.
The word love, in traditional Chinese, has heart in the middle. The ancients have actually told future generations that love is a relative state between hearts. It only looks at the heart. Apart from that, it doesn’t need anything else. . It does not need any other external form to prove its existence, and "only for one person for a lifetime" is just one of the external manifestations, but this external form is generally recognized by everyone. But that's just human arrogance.
Han Guo paused deliberately and said after a moment: "I love my wife deeply, although I know very well that she is not the most beautiful woman, especially after I became successful and famous, I have seen countless women who are countless times more beautiful than her. But after In my eyes, she is the most beautiful, because love cannot be compared. When I fell in love with her, she was different from all other women in the world. At that time, there were only two types of women in the world: she And other women. The reason why the two cannot be compared is because one is a lover and the other is a non-lover. How can a lover compare with a non-lover?
As is the case with men, so is the case with women. "
Mr. Han raised his eyes and looked at Zhong Li, "Miss Zhong, when you love someone, you cannot compare the person you love with other people, because they are basically two types of people. Only people of the same kind can be compared. Little friend Ye Feng He is indeed an excellent man, but to you, he is not the same type of person as the person you care about. The two cannot be compared. Otherwise, you will only add endless troubles. I hope Miss Zhong can remember the words of the old man. .”
There was no more words to Zhong Li after that.
But here he stood there in silence.
. . .
Yes, in real life, between lovers, couples, and husbands and wives, both parties should be unique and incomparable existences in each other's eyes, but there are comparisons.
For example, a woman tells her boyfriend or even her husband that her best friend bought a LV bag, a diamond ring, and traveled abroad. The best friend, her boyfriend, or her husband are very, very nice to their best friend, and the woman will often ask in the end. Boyfriend, husband: "What about you? What about me?"
Men, on the other hand, tend to suppress their anger and remain silent.
Men are angry because on the one hand, women forget that men never tell her how beautiful their brothers and wives are.
On the other hand, women have forgotten the basic truth that love cannot be compared.
But it is such a basic truth that everyone has forgotten. Although I really want to add the word "almost" in front of "everyone", it seems more accurate not to add the word "almost".
Isn’t it very graphic? The visual sense means that these things are happening around us all the time.
Their love is bound to too many unnecessary things, and love has long been wrapped up in those external forms, so that after the love rots and disappears, it is still because those external packaging are still there, so that They mistakenly think that their love is still there.
It's so sad to be riding a horse.
Modern society does stipulate monogamy, ensuring that everyone has the only external form that love can accommodate. So, do all legal couples around the world love each other? This kind of thinking is a conclusion that can only be reached when the brain is in trouble. It is a logical error that cannot be saved even if the person is tied to a stone and sinks into the sea.
Old man Han Guo had tried his best to remind Zhong Li in a tactful tone that since he already had a lover he could never forget, he shouldn't be envious of other couples.
