Liking is a beautiful thing. When you like someone, it will make you like the world. It's not that the world is beautiful, it's just because that person exists in that world. This is especially true if you like someone secretly.
It is also ethereal, like the full moon reflected in the lake. When you try to catch it, or throw a stone at it, it will disappear in the ripples of the lake. Especially the love hidden deep in my heart is like a fruit that has reached the extreme of maturity but is instantly imprisoned by time. When you decide to release it and allow time to flow again, please be mentally prepared, because from the moment you release it and contact it, it is heading towards corruption.
So far, the only woman Ye Feng has expressed love to is Ren Xiaojin, and he will never express love to another person in his life. At the same time, he also knew the difference between liking and loving. Ye Feng knew that he was not qualified to like others, let alone be liked by others.
But just as Fox Ji, one of the three demon kings that Ye Feng met in the real Kunlun secret realm, said that Ye Feng can prevent himself from liking others, but he has no ability to prevent others from liking him.
When facing women who like him, Ye Feng knows that he is not qualified, so he often feels guilty and inferior, and does not know how to face them. No matter how many books he read, no book could teach Ye Feng this. No matter how much knowledge Ye Feng has, his feelings towards others towards him are still just like those of a teenager. The only thing Ye Feng could do was not to hurt them before he figured everything out. We can't ask a person under twenty to handle relationships like a seasoned veteran, otherwise he will really be like a bastard like a scumbag stallion.
It is a big mistake to let nature take its toll. That is the fate of a scumbag who will be beheaded and put on the train sooner or later. But let me ask you, if you refuse everyone to fulfill your true love, is it not a selfish act from the perspective of a third party? Maybe you will think that is the correct value, but it is only an accurate value recognized by modern monogamy. When you flaunt the latter, you are bound by the word "correct".
Of course, this does not mean that it will impact your original value understanding. Everyone has his own understanding of the world, and based on this understanding, he formed his own value understanding of the world. This is everyone's own business.
Don't try to change a person's three views, because that is to deny other people's past and life to a certain extent. Because that's something that's doomed to fail
What's more, there is no right or wrong in many things in this world, especially things like relationships. When you do something in the name of correctness, you are just moving from one extreme called error to another extreme called accuracy.
When it comes to feelings, no one can ever give the most standard and reasonable answer, so each of our lives is described as a book being written. Before the book is finished, it is impossible for others to know about your book. What kind of story does the book tell? When will the story end? Is it a comedy or a tragedy? Each of us is the author of our own book and the number one reader of our own book. Some will be masterpieces and some will be trash. No one will know until the end.
Even the author Ye Yu doesn't know the answer to Ye Feng's book. The moment Ye Feng existed, Ye Yu could no longer control Ye Feng. The author of Ye Feng's book was only Ye Feng himself. He had his own ideas, his own bottom line, and his own approach. And all Ye Yu can do is sit in the special seat of the cinema, holding popcorn and Coke, watching how the story named Ye Feng develops. This may be the only privilege of Ye Yu, a special author. To put it simply, Ye Yu is the kind of person who doesn’t take things too seriously when watching the excitement, and the bigger the better.
In terms of emotional handling, Ren Xiaojin is much better than Ye Feng. Ye Feng and Ren Xiaojin like and love each other, and therefore understand each other. Ren Xiaojin can accept others for the one she loves, while Ye Feng rejects others for the one he loves, but cannot completely abandon others, so Ye Feng is in pain. This is really the reason why Ye Feng is always not qualified to like others, let alone to be liked by others.
Research shows that women mature sexually earlier than men. This may be part of the reason.
In contrast, in terms of relationships, Ren Xiaojin is the strong one, while Ye Feng is the weak one. By the way, Qing Ni can be regarded as the overlord
The human heart can be regarded as a ghost and a dangerous thing in a negative way, but in a positive way it is often complex, incomprehensible, and unclear. This is why the first priority of cultivating immortality is to cut off the worldly ties and end the mortal heart. In fact, there is a certain truth to this. When you are distracted by worldly affairs and have too much mental energy involved, you will not be able to calm down and practice the great truth. On the contrary, it will breed inner demons. If you are deeply trapped in it, let alone the inner demons of the Tribulation Realm, even the inner demons of the Nascent Soul and the Transformation God may not be able to survive. Ye Feng is no exception to this point.
It's not that Ye Feng doesn't understand this truth, it's because he understands this truth that Ye Feng calls the path of cultivating immortality with spiritual roots the right path of immortality, a bright road, while Ye Feng calls his own path a crooked path to cultivation. This is not the opposite. to Versailles. He sincerely yearns to cultivate the righteous path of immortality. Ye Feng believed that if he had spiritual roots, even the worst five-color spiritual roots, he could become stronger at the same level. But there are so many ifs in this world. If "if" really existed, this world might have been destroyed long ago.
When Ye Feng chose to use his human body to integrate humanity and follow the human way, he was destined to have no chance to look back in this life. We can only sink and struggle in the world of mortals, seek for that glimmer of opportunity, and try to transcend and become a "dust fairy". Because this is the only humane way, this is what the female boss of Humanity told Ye Feng herself. The humane female boss told Ye Feng that in a certain era before, when the human race was at its peak, there was a term called "Chen Xian". Those who reached the immortal realm with human power were called Chen Xian, and those who reached the fairy realm with spiritual power were called true immortals. . By sinking in the world of mortals and experiencing it, one can hone one's mind, accumulate a lot of knowledge, and transcend into a god-like existence. That’s why it’s called “The Immortal of the Mortal World”. It sounds very beautiful, but today, when the method of cultivating with human power has long been cut off, it is impossible for anyone to reach the level of Chen Xian.
