Chapter 619.
Plenty of time and room to grow.
No one will do anything before they fall. Most of the time, it is because of the fall that they know how to change. Otherwise, the human body is very paranoid. Otherwise, it means that you are nice and kind. In fact, it is I can't listen to it.
Even if it is advice given to you by others, and sometimes you can’t tell whether it is advice or something else, because many times it is difficult, really difficult, because oh, how can you understand that everyone The paths are actually different. Since everyone's path is different, how can other people's opinions become your advice?
Sometimes it’s true that Lin Rou still said that, life doesn’t require a lot of advice, because you can’t listen to it. To be honest, you should persist and remember that you will still give up. What you choose in the end may actually be different from others. It sounds like it's not that important, but in the end it still depends on you, when you don't like something.
Even if others advise you to like something, you may not like it. When you don’t like something, I think you like something. Even if others say that you shouldn’t like these things, you will still like it. , sometimes things are like this.
Many times people are like this. There is no such thing as special, um, perfect people. It’s just that everyone is actually more realistic. That is to say, boys will form admiration for beautiful girls when they see them. Don’t say anything, eh, That is to say, if you like her kindness, or like something else, when her appearance has reached the point of what you expect in your heart, um, then you will like her.
And the same goes for girls, but the standards for girls may be different. Girls may also expect boys to own a house, a car or some money. Maybe boys don’t ask for so much. Boys only want girls to be beautiful. , or kindness are actually secondary, but girls may value these more, so in fact, sometimes the choice is nothing more than that.
Well, there’s nothing to say about different things. You can do whatever you think. In fact, it just means that you have to understand the other person’s thoughts, and then you have to make efforts. Of course, you first have to make it clear whether you are If you want or desire to spend a lifetime with the other person or something, then you can work hard.
Otherwise, Lin Rou’s suggestion is to give it up as soon as possible and don’t let yourself expend too much energy. There is no need to let yourself do so many things. It is really unnecessary, because sometimes there is really no time. Don't waste your time on other things if you don't have to do anything. It's really unnecessary.
Because I felt that Lin Rou had a little bit of it before, which was really a waste of time. Then later on, she did work hard, but it took a lot of hard work for her to be able to achieve what she achieved later. You know, in fact, she wanted to It is not easy to achieve the current achievements of the alliance. Many people even said that when their relatives were born, they thought they could become very powerful people.
But in fact, it is a kind of blind arrogance or being influenced by, how to say, some things. To be honest, there are some people who don’t know the heights of the world. Like Lin Rou, she is already very powerful now, right? , but he is not actually the most powerful person in the world. Well, sometimes, but sometimes it’s just another word.
If you don't have high ambitions, how can you achieve a high position? In fact, sometimes Lin Rou is also very entangled. That is to say, when a person is actually arrogant, but has not reached that height, he may really feel uncomfortable, but if there is someone who can reach it, That kind of height.
That is to say, you move towards that height, and there are still some opinions, because how to say it means, well, when you imagine your height to be very high, as long as you are willing to work hard towards that height, you actually There is still some hope. In fact, Lin Rou does not agree with those who just say that it is a matter of taking it one step at a time, or that, well.
No, it cannot be said that taking one step and taking one step at a time is actually a better mentality. But you can feel that if you want to achieve great things, you must still have a higher ideal, otherwise, In fact, there are very few people in this world who just say, never have any ideals, and then become a very good and strong person. This is indeed not the case. You may get to a certain position because of good luck, but you To become the kind of existence that is truly famous in history.
That must be that you yourself have a very big ambition. Otherwise, if you don’t have any ambitions, then you actually won’t be able to do those things, because sometimes feelings are more important. Although you say you are right now, It’s more realistic, but many things need to be felt first. At least in some fields, you have to dare to think first, and then you can do it well. If you say that you only dare to do but not think, that’s not true. There are some You really have to dare to think about something before you can do it well.
You have to set your future to a very, very high level. You will have a goal and you will work very hard. But if you actually have no particularly high expectations for your future, , then you have no way, you really have no way to say that if you do a very good thing, you really can't do it well, and you can't do it that well. This is something Lin Rou knows very well. Sometimes it must be A lot of things have been done well. If you want to do a lot of things well, then you must set very high requirements for yourself, otherwise it will be difficult to achieve this level.
Is this something Lin Rou has only recently figured out? Normally, Lin Rou might not understand something, because some things are really difficult, but the more you walk, it’s like saying, well, after reading this book and asking you, when you understand There are a lot of truths, or in other words, when you really understand a lot of truths, the road you want to take will actually be much smoother, and you will actually be able to judge you more.
You will also be able to cope with everything in life more easily. This is what Lin Rou really wants to tell everyone. As long as you are in a field and you are willing to spend your time, you will definitely continue to grow. This This also gives you room for improvement.
