Chapter 470.
The company changed and Lin Rou left again.
On the contrary, the life of adults is actually relatively boring, because many people have to work hard to survive. It is not easy to earn a salary and get a piece of money.
A lot of people have to spend a lot of time on work. In fact, they have very little time to spend on life, because once you spend time on life and entertainment, it will be difficult for you to make money. money, then you will be in a dilemma.
Generally speaking, if you want to live a good life, you must work well. This is what you must do. If you cannot work well, then you cannot live a good life because you have no money. Of course, like Lin Rou There are exceptions for people who have succeeded and need to be able to lie down. There are also exceptions for people like Xiao Wen who have very rich families. But similarly, even if they are very rich, they also understand this It makes sense, so they work hard every day. Especially Xiaowen and Xiaoni also know very well that the money they earn is different from the money at home, so they often work so hard, because if you spend the money at home, It is indeed a waste, but it will cause some dissatisfaction to some extent.
But if you earn the money yourself, then there is nothing to say, because in fact, few people care about how much money others spend, especially when you earn the money yourself, although many people may say, Ah, why do you spend so much money in a month? Why do you spend so much money every time you eat and buy clothes?
But at this time, when someone says something like this, you just refute it directly. Anyway, I earned the money myself, and I can spend it however I want. This is indeed the truth. As long as you can make money by yourself, then You have more discretionary amount.
This can also make your life easier and more enjoyable. Otherwise, your life will always be criticized by others, which would be very unpleasant.
This is why you asked me to work hard to make money in the first place. She also understands that if you don't make money, you really can't live a good life, let alone meet two people like Xiaowen and Xiaoni.
Sometimes people are realistic, but at the same time, everyone is realistic. From the perspective of mate selection, boys choose girls because of just a few things, and girls choose boys because of just a few things.
You must make yourself better, then more people will definitely come to you. This is something Lin Rou has understood for a long time. If you are not good, then no matter how hard you try, it will be useless. , because others will not care about you, nor will they like you, but if you are very good, you don’t need to work hard or cater to others, others will still like you. This is a very simple and necessary More realistic.
Lin Rou met him very early and understood this matter.
That's why she can now live such a happy life with Xiao Wen and Xiao Lin, even if you can know that they may not all like her.
Of course, Xiao Wen Xiaoni definitely still likes Lin Rou better, but if Lin Rou didn't have the achievements and abilities she had back then, then Xiao Wen Xiaoni probably wouldn't be with Lin Dong. Lin Rou knew this. Something happened, but Lin Rou didn't care.
Because she knew that this was the case, and the same was true for her choice of Xiaowen and Xiaoni. She chose Xiaowen and Xiaoni because she felt that they were good-looking, good-looking, and at the same time smart and capable.
Otherwise, why would you choose Xiao Wen and Xiao Ni among so many people? She had more choices. With Lin Rou’s influence at the time, Lin Rou had more choices, but she chose Xiao Wen and Xiao Li. This is It is a two-way choice process. All relationships are a two-way choice process. If you don't choose her, the other person will not choose you.
In fact, Lin Rou also wants to give some advice to some people, because some people may really not understand things in relationships. They often have trouble thinking and then go into a dead end, thinking that I have paid so much, why doesn't she like me? In fact, In fact, Lin Rou thinks this idea is wrong.
Because there is no reason to say that if you put in the effort, you will definitely get results, and if you put in the effort, you will definitely get something. On the contrary, sometimes if you put in the effort, you may not get the result even if you work hard, so you actually can’t hold on to it from the beginning. Do something with a result-oriented attitude and think about one thing, because that will only bring you unhappiness. You should enjoy the process, whether you are chasing someone or doing something. Whether it’s work, travel, or life, no matter what, you don’t want to go.
Paying too much attention to the destination and caring too much about the result. Although sometimes having a purpose, a goal, and a result can make people work harder, but when you care very much about the result and the destination, then you In fact, it is easy to fall into a dead end and cause harm to yourself. Lin Rou actually doesn't want this, especially since she has seen so many fates. In fact, many people have accidents due to emotional reasons, but Lin always feels that this is really unnecessary, because there is no end of the world. If there is no fragrant grass, why should you have unrequited love for a flower?
There are a lot of choices in this world. In fact, there is no need to let yourself fall into a predicament with no way out. People, in fact, must learn to enlighten themselves and become more optimistic. Negative people In fact, if you really can’t live well, you must be more optimistic.
"What the hell am I doing here thinking about this all of a sudden?"
Lin Rou sighed in her heart, and then she thought it might be because of the TV series, because TV series are indeed filled with some bad emotions, or some realistic things. Sometimes Lin Rou would also write some thoughts after reading them. , or have some temporary feelings, this is also inevitable.
After growing up overnight, Lin Rou and Xiao Wen Xiaoni also returned to the company again.
They even went out to eat together before returning to the company, which made Lin Rou feel very happy. She suddenly realized that there was no need to go out to rest, and it felt good to rest at home.
However, she also knew the reason for a treasured land for practice. She felt that she still had to find a treasured land for practicing Feng Shui. Only in this way could her practice be more effective. However, Lin Rou didn't want to stay away from Xiaowen and Xiaoli, so she decided to wait until she found it. When that piece of land came, I took it over with Xiao Wen and Xiaoni.
(End of chapter)
