Junior sister, do you know what monks like us are most taboo about? "Bu Rugui looked at Li Dai and asked.
Li Dai was silent for a while, frowned, and said uncertainly: "It's a taboo...it's a taboo to be proud of yourself after getting a few grades and not want to make progress." If there is anything else to say, then she has achieved such achievements at this age. , you should be proud, so it is very normal for master and brother to have this worry.
In Li Dai's view, it is very important for a person to have goals and be enterprising. If she has not seen a more magical world and more powerful people, then Li Dai will be short-sighted and easily become complacent. But with those experiences and insights, Li Dai knew that she was just a little cabbage in front of the real strong people, the kind that could be ravaged at any time.
So there is no pride in her. She wishes she could use one day as two days to become stronger and stronger.
"No!" Bu Rugui shook his head, "Junior sister, you are very good. You can be a little proud of your achievements. As long as you don't get blinded by the glitz and continue to stick to your goals, there is nothing wrong with you."
"The most terrifying thing about monks is not having a proud heart!" Bu Rugui concluded, then looked at Li Dai and other senior brothers and sisters with a very heavy tone, and said: "The most terrifying thing about our monks is that we have a stubborn heart. A heart that is too competitive, a heart that cares too much about self-respect!"
When the elder brother said these words, Li Dai was really shocked.
"From ancient times to the present, those who can go a long way and live to the end are those who are thick-skinned, who don't care about other people's opinions, who can tolerate it, and who don't put dignity first at any time."
"Junior sister, there are three things wrong with you agreeing to Gu Tianyu's sword discussion!"
"Wrong is a choice! Faced with other people's provocations, you think you can handle it and are powerful, but you don't know that such a decision is too impulsive. If you don't understand your opponent, you only rely on the surface to look at your cultivation and follow your feelings. This is very bad. If If you are a person with unlimited cards and a ruthless person, then your challenge is likely to capsize in the gutter, causing serious injury or death! So don’t act impulsively, and be indifferent when facing other people’s provocations. Don’t do it because of dignity or face. , or anything else, without being completely sure, which is very bad.”
"In this way, if someone else provokes you and you are too tough to deal with it, then there will be no end to such things in the future on the path of cultivation."
"So your choice is wrong!"
"Two inappropriate occasions!"
When Li Dai was stunned, Bu Rugui continued:
"In this world, except Master, Senior Brother, and those who are really close to you, no one wants you to be too powerful. However, you directly accepted Gu Tianyu's challenge and gave others a chance to watch. Although this can make you famous, It brings endless hidden dangers.”
"In front of everyone, the more times you take action and fight, the easier it is to expose your trump card. And if you become the target of an old monster, then fighting again and again will allow others to observe and summarize, and fully Mastering your weaknesses will only make you more dangerous."
"So competitions, unless they are formal competitions between sects, should be avoided if possible."
"As for the people who have fought with you, either you kill them or don't fight them. Otherwise, if you fight every enemy you face without killing them, all your information may be sold to Wantong Tower. , which is a place dedicated to collecting all kinds of intelligence.”
"So Junior Sister, no matter how powerful you are, try not to fight when there are many people. It is not a necessary duel, and it is not a necessary person to trust. Silence after the battle is the most basic. Junior Sister, you are not aware of this, you are still too much. Younger.”
"What about third place?" Li Dai pursed her lips and asked.
Knowing that her senior brother was right, with her intelligence and spirituality, she figured out the point of being raised at once, but she had never thought about it in detail, that a small challenge had so many sequelae and disadvantages.
"The third teacher is here to speak!" Chen Qiansuan suddenly stood up and walked towards Li Dai. He looked at her with loving eyes and sighed:
"Xiao Qi, do you know what is the biggest problem with yourself?"
Li Dai shook his head blankly.
Chen Qiansuan looked at her with a look that Li Dai couldn't understand and said:
"Although you haven't spent much time with me as a teacher and all the senior brothers and sisters, judging from some of your behaviors, some habits, and your challenge to Gu Tianyu, there is a big problem with your character, that is, you are too strong. .”
"Strength is easy to break! You should understand this truth, right?"
"I usually see you as smooth and gentle in dealing with things, but if you don't experience the things you believe in and the principles you believe in, if you don't experience it yourself and wake up to it through heart-wrenching realization, then it's useless no matter what others say. Use the principles you think are right. In the mortal world, I'm afraid even ten cows wouldn't be able to pull it back. If there are no accidents, it's easy to end up in the dark."
"Don't rush to refute me, Master!"
"Think about it for yourself. After listening to Senior Brother's words, do you think that although what he said is reasonable, you feel that you have your own principles and your own personality. Your personality is to face provocation, especially hostility. It's not your style to be provocative and retreat. Even if it hurts yourself, you should still fight, right?"
Li Dai's eyes widened. She didn't expect that the master knew her inner thoughts so clearly.
"This is why I called you here today!"
"You participated in the competition and woke up from the sword. Even if there are some sequelae this time, it will not have much impact on you. However, your stubborn and strong character will be a huge stone for you to walk on the road to immortality in the future!"
"Maybe your ideas are correct, your theories are correct, and you insist on it without being shaken. This is your advantage. But if one of the ten thousand insistences, only one of them is wrong, then you still have to go the same way. If it gets dark, it will be a disaster!"
"My teacher, I hope you will remember what I said today and remember to be flexible. When you choose a method and insist on it for ten, hundred, thousand or even ten thousand years, and there is still no way out, then you might as well try to start from another angle and try to change it! "
"My teacher, I don't want you to fall in front of me!"
When Li Dai was told by Chen Qian, she was shocked and realized that she really had this problem.
Just like when faced with Xiao Rui's attitude, she always had her own set of ideas. She had allowed her to have independent thoughts and educated her, but she had not educated her too well. Then, she was always conflicted in her heart. She will subconsciously bear a responsibility towards Xiaorui, as if she is her responsibility.
If she hadn't known that Xiao Rui had touched Bai Bai and Jiu Yin, she might have been tolerant of her until one day it was irreversible and she made a bigger mistake.
Xiaorui had touched her bottom line this time, and a strange combination of circumstances had made her wake up. She was cruel enough to let her experience growth on her own, but what about other people or things in the future?
Does she still have to be so stubborn?
Once it is recognized, it is recognized.
Wrong is wrong and right is right.
Is there definitely no problem with her identification?
Li Dai was confused.
But if she doesn't insist on anything and doesn't have a set of firm principles in dealing with things, where should she go?
"It's a good thing to stick to your goals and be stubborn, but don't go too far. Everything has two sides and multiple sides. If you consider the problem, you can consider it from more angles. There will be more ways to go, and it will not be easy to reach a dead end."
"Yes, Master!" Li Dai nodded respectfully, "Thank you, Master, for your teaching!"
Chen Qian nodded with satisfaction, "You guys should step back! Xiao Qi will stay here. I have something to ask her alone if I have something to do."
Seeing this, the senior brother did not hesitate and retreated with his second senior brother, three senior sisters, fourth senior sister, sixth senior brother and eight junior brothers, leaving Li Dai alone.
But when Chen Qiansuan spoke again, Li Dai was shocked.
"You just touched my memory?"
Li Dai pursed her lips and subconsciously wanted to deny it, but seeing Chen Qianshu's expression of knowing everything, she couldn't say any words of denial.
