"Human, how many opportunities do you have to choose?"
"If Aunt Hua doesn't want me to climb a high tree, then I have no choice but to get married, otherwise I may have the Green Lantern Ancient Buddha with me for the rest of my life."
Cui Meier looked lonely, but soon, there was a smile on her lips again, and she returned to her usual appearance.
Yan Liu said: "Nanhua Academy is recruiting students, are you willing to go?"
Cui Meier was stunned: "Why give it to me?"
Nanhua College admits women and is a college that seriously teaches students scientific examinations.
But this place is rare, and Cui Meier will definitely not have this place. There are even very few daughter families in Fancheng who can study at Nanhua Academy.
Because men and women are guarded against each other, if you go there, it will be difficult to find your husband's family.
What’s more, since most families have sons, there is no need to force girls to take over the household.
Yan Liu said: "So do you want it?"
Cui Meier immediately said: "I want it."
Yan Liu said calmly: "This road is not easy."
Cui Meier said: "That would be better than what I am doing now, I don't want to be arranged by others anymore.
Even the servants who serve me don't completely listen to me, and Aunt Hua knows every move I make.
Going to an academy would give me the opportunity to make a living independently, instead of having to rely on someone else's arrangements.
Even if I live a poor life in the future, I will live it for myself. I don’t think anyone will be qualified to accuse me if I sleep in my room until midnight.
I don’t have to worry about being dragged to the Buddhist hall to kneel all night long. "
Then he prayed: “Please, give me this place.
Please, if you have anything to do in the future, just tell me and I will listen to you. "
Cui Meier knew that this was her only chance. It must be not easy to be someone who could easily take out the exemption quota for Nanhua Academy.
What's precious is not the quota, but that with Yan Liu's help, she can be allowed out of the back house by her family.
The Cui family could not get a place to be exempted from the entrance examination at Nanhua Academy, but if their daughter was sent to take the entrance examination, she would still have a chance to enter the academy as long as her overall scores were good.
It's just that because of the world, I just think it's the easiest way to raise a daughter with the least risk.
If she is sent to the academy, if something happens, the reputation of the girls in the entire Cui Mansion will be bad.
The Cui family has no shortage of money to raise their daughter, and there is no need for her daughter to suffer. Studying is very hard, and Nanhua College has students who drop out of school every year.
Yan Liu said: "I'm just helping you get in. If you fail the end-of-year assessment and are dropped out of school, I won't help you."
Cui Meier hurriedly said: "No.
Since I was a child, I have been up until dawn learning dance and poetry until late at night.
and……"
Cui Meier stroked her cheek and said, "No matter how tired I am there, I won't be asked to think about what men should like all the time.
I haven't really cried or laughed in a long, long time. "
Yan Liu said: "Okay."
The three-point smile that had been holding on Cui Meier's face finally disappeared, her eyes were moist, and she gradually shed tears.
She seemed to have seen her future. She could walk freely in the corners of the world, have her own house, and be the master of her own home, instead of having layers of people above her weighing her down.
No matter how tired she is outside, there will be a place for her to sleep when she comes back, and she will have her own home.
She wiped her tears vigorously, her movements clumsy and immature, and she had actually forgotten the previous teachings on how to wipe her tears for the best look, and what kind of movements to avoid smearing her makeup.
Now she just wants to simply wipe away her tears without thinking about how to please the man with every action.
Yan Liu said: "This road is not easy to take. I can also ask your father to choose a decent family for you to marry."
Yan Liu has met many people. They are very satisfied with their current lives. They are pampered by their parents and brothers at home, they marry the right person, and their husbands are gentle and considerate to them.
It's windy and rainy outside, which may make it easier for them to get hurt.
Cui Meier said in a hoarse voice: "No, this is already very good.
I knew what my benefactor meant. If I chose this path, I would not get any help from my family and would have to struggle alone.
I also know that this road is not easy to walk, and everyone I meet may criticize and despise me in the future. "
Yan Liu interrupted her and said: "No, there are many people who will accuse you of taking advantage of your gender, but there will also be more people who will not treat you differently.
Not all men in this world are what you think.
What I am saying is that you must know that your beauty and your family background cannot be your total reliance. You will face more difficulties and more frustrations.
It may be that you are at the bottom no matter how hard you work in the riding and shooting class, or it may be that you will never fail some people, as they are just born to learn.
It may also be that you will be busy with official duties all night long, while other daughters of the same age have already..."
Yan Liu paused, and she suddenly realized that Cui Meier was different from those people she had met. She could no longer be worse than now.
Cui Meier never had a choice.
Cui Meier said: "I'm not afraid of any of this. I know it's difficult. But I want to live as a person. I think they will treat me as an independent individual after I go out."
Yan Liu said firmly: "Yes, you will be an independent person.
There will be no discipline telling you that you must depend on others to live.
You may try to please others in the future, but that is for your own future, not your natural obligation, nor is it something you must do in this life. "
At this time, Cui Meier no longer had that charming look on her body. She was like a child seeing the world for the first time. Her face was full of desire and curiosity, and her eyes were filled with longing for the future.
It was a world she had never been exposed to.
Cui Meier said expectantly: "So I won't be accused of being unfilial because I didn't get up early to grind beans?
Will you not be called unvirtuous because you are dissatisfied with your husband's behavior and argue with him? "
Yan Liuxian explained: "These situations are actually exceptions. Most people will not be so extreme. Moreover, people with good marriages between two surnames will generally not be treated in this way."
He added: "If you go to Nanhua College to study, as long as you can successfully complete your studies, you won't be treated like this.
Like your brother, you will be judged by a new system.
Even if you don't win the ranking in the future, you can still rely on the Cui family to do some business or manage the family's property, just like your other useless concubines.
If anyone uses the original system to evaluate you, no one who graduated from Nanhua College will let her go.
Because you are their classmate. "
This is the only result of women's struggle in the 100 years since the founding of the Qi Dynasty.
As time goes by, there are fewer and fewer women in the court. They have to confront the social customs of thousands of years time and time again. In the end, they choose an easier path.
That is, how can we live as women?
Therefore, anyone who demands women based on the requirements formed over thousands of years must be prepared to be retaliated against.
Cui Meier said: "Okay, that's good, that's great.
If you have any orders from now on, I will not hesitate to do so. "
Yan Liu said calmly: "I just happened to meet you. If you meet other people in the future, please help me.
If you really want to thank me, then come up to me, I will wait for you in the capital. "
"Um."
Cui Meier suddenly knelt down and kowtowed to Yan Liu.
The night wind is bleak, and the trees hide in the darkness like ghosts that choose people to eat.
When Cui Meier walked on this road, she no longer felt hesitant when she came. At this time, she was in an uplifted mood and full of expectations for the future.
When Yan Liu came back, Xiao Jing said, "Did you give her a future?"
Yan Liu said: "Just like you, she just does whatever she wants. What good fortune she has depends on herself."
