"At the beginning, you need to restrain your temper. We women should take care of a man's face outside. How can you beat him and scold him in front of everyone? You even threw a glass of wine. You asked him to work with colleagues in the future. How can you keep your head up in front of me?" A gentle female voice persuaded me in a gentle voice.
When Shichu turned around, she saw a gentle-looking young woman holding her arm, frowning with a pair of thin eyebrows, and speaking to her with a look of disapproval.
"When you go back, admit your mistake to Changfan properly. You must not come here stubbornly. There must be someone who gives in between husband and wife. If you don't change your current aggressive temper, Changfan will be even less willing to go home in the future... ...Don't be unhappy, I'm doing this for your own good, otherwise you and your wife will quarrel all the time and hurt your relationship..." The young woman continued to persuade her earnestly.
"He doesn't come home from get off work to help with the housework and take care of the children, but instead runs out to drink with others. Is he still reasonable? You still want me to give in and admit my mistake to him? Ning Guoyun, is there something wrong with your mind?" Shi Chu said smoothly. , the words were spoken without thinking, without thinking at all.
Ning Guoyun's eyes widened in shock when he heard her words: "At the beginning, it was us women's business to do housework and take care of the children. How could we bother men?"
"Get out of here! The more I listen to you talk, the angrier I get." Shichu shook off Ning Guoyun's hand, snorted, and walked back home without looking back.
While on the road, Shichu received the memory of the original owner.
The original owners are Qiao Shichu and her husband Yu Changfan, who is an employee of a composite flour mill. They have been married for three years and gave birth to a son two years ago. The couple is in a free relationship and usually have a good relationship. However, Yu Changfan loves to play and has made many friends, so He was often away from home, leaving the children and household chores to the original owner alone. Over time, the original owner became irritable and would often drag her husband back to work after he went out drinking.
Ning Guoyun and her original owner were also employees of a flour mill, and they happened to be married for three years. However, she gave birth to a daughter at the beginning, and both her in-laws and her husband valued sons over daughters, so she hid from the family planning cadres and secretly returned to her hometown in the countryside. , secretly gave birth to another daughter, and lost her job in a flour mill because of it. She originally wanted to continue giving birth, but she had already evaded the family planning cadres in the street once, so naturally it was impossible for her to have another chance. So she was forced to go to the hospital for a sterilization operation.
Ning Guoyun felt very guilty because she only gave birth to two losers, which ruined her husband's family. So she became more and more submissive in her husband's family, working hard and uncomplainingly for her husband, just to let outsiders see that although she could not give birth to a man, A son, but indeed a virtuous and capable wife.
If she just did it herself, no one would be able to control her, but she not only did it herself, but also advised other women around her to be gentle, virtuous, hardworking, and "be a good woman behind a man."
The original owner was unlucky enough to become her neighbor, so he was often "educated" and "persuaded" by her. The original owner had a rather fierce temper because he was favored since he was a child in his natal family, so he was unwilling to be wronged. If his husband caused any trouble, When it comes to her, she never tolerates it and scolds her whenever she opens her mouth. What if her husband wants to be lazy and go out alone to be cool? That won't work, I have to drag him back to share the housework...
Ning Guoyun couldn't stand the behavior of the original owner. He felt that she was not virtuous at all. Not only was she not gentle and obedient to her husband, she actually scolded and even beat her. This was simply outrageous and incredible.
The original owner didn't care about her theory about virtuous women, what about three obediences and four virtues, and regarding husbands as heaven? impossible!
As the heroine of a tragic drama, Ning Guoyun's life hardships cannot be the only one she encounters: not giving birth to a son. Because of the birth of a child, she and her husband Xue Yanzong were fired from the flour factory. In order to maintain their lives, Xue Yanzong had to learn to do business. , I didn’t expect that he was quite talented in business, and he soon became prosperous and made a lot of money.
However, men will inevitably become bad when they have money, so Xue Yanzong began to hang out among flowers. After Ning Guoyun found out, she washed her face in tears all day long and was in great pain. She also complained to the original owner, who advised her to beat Xue Yanzong. , warning him to break up with the woman outside; or else divorce him and leave with his two daughters.
But Ning Guoyun didn't choose either option, and even defended Xue Yanzong, saying that it was understandable that he had a woman outside. Who told her not to give birth to a son for him, and that his family was ruined? It was also because he was depressed that he went to find other women to solve the problem, and there was also some show-off in the business scene. He could not take it seriously. He was just playing around with the women outside. Only Ning Guoyun himself was Xue Yanzong's legitimate wife and the one who had been married for hundreds of years. The first wife who could be buried with him later...
When the original owner saw her like this, he asked her what she wanted.
Ning Guoyun said that he just wanted to ask the original owner and Yu Changfan to persuade Xue Yanzong to calm down and return to his family...
The original owner thought she was unreasonable, rolled his eyes, and ignored her.
Yu Changfan did go to persuade Xue Yanzong, but Xue Yanzong was in high spirits when he was doing business and making money, so how could he listen to the advice? So not only did he not give up and return to his family, he even worsened the situation, and finally even gave birth to an illegitimate child with a dancer.
Now the original owner thinks that Ning Guoyun is ready to get divorced, right? But no, Ning Guoyun not only did not dislike or reject this illegitimate child, but she was overjoyed and asked Xue Yanzong to take the child home and raise it for her. She said that it was a serious sin for her not to give birth to a son for the Xue family. Now she finally has a husband. Son, how could she not want it? So she wants to atone for her sins, raise and teach her personally, and let the old Xue family's incense flourish...
So she really regarded the illegitimate child as her own, and her two biological daughters were ranked behind. Seeing that she was so reasonable, tolerant and generous, Xue Yanzong had a rare good look towards her, and Ning Guoyun felt more and more that he had done the right thing. .
However, the good times did not last long. Xue Yanzong's business offended a very powerful person, and he was bankrupted. He also owed huge debts. Xue Yanzong did not want to be responsible, so he left his wife, children and young man and ran away without any news.
When Ning Guoyun heard the news, it was like a bolt from the blue. But after the pain passed, she wiped her tears and decided to take responsibility for her husband and work three or four jobs outside, no matter how hard or tiring it was, just to earn money. Money to support the family and pay off debts.
As for the illegitimate son, she did not vent her anger or give up, but continued to raise her. She said that her husband would come back one day, and she could not abandon his son while he was away. She had to support the family for him, and then When he comes back, she can say openly and honestly: I did not let you down.
