Zhou Lizhi, who was in the hospital, suffered in pain for more than ten hours after entering the delivery room, and finally gave birth to a baby girl as skinny as a kitten.
"How is it? Are you giving birth? Is it a boy or a girl?" Seeing the doctor come out, Chen's mother immediately went forward and asked anxiously.
"It's a girl. Mother and daughter are safe." The doctor replied, and at the same time handed the wrapped baby in his arms to her for her to see.
"What? It's a girl's movie?! What a bad luck!" Mother Chen immediately frowned and couldn't even bear to look at her granddaughter. "You gave birth to a loser, why is she so useless?!"
When the doctor heard her words, he immediately became angry and scolded: "What nonsense are you talking about? Why are girls such losers? The chairman said that women hold up half the sky, but I didn't expect you to be so feudal, decadent and patriarchal. You are really a woman!" Aren’t you a woman yourself?!”
Mother Chen choked up after being scolded by the doctor. She couldn't resist the doctor, so she angrily hid aside and never thought of holding the baby girl.
"Are you the husband of a pregnant woman? Do you also favor boys over girls?" the doctor asked Chen Wenya who was standing aside.
"No, no. Sons and daughters are the same to me. I don't favor boys over girls." Chen Wenya still pays attention to his image in front of outsiders, even though he actually prefers his son in his heart and feels that his son is the one who will carry on the family lineage. Incense, but now it won't show in front of the doctor
He pretended to be happy and took the daughter from the doctor's arms and said, "Is this my daughter? She's so cute."
Seeing that he did not dislike him because she was a daughter, the doctor's expression softened and he warned him: "Because your daughter was born prematurely, she is smaller and smaller, but she has nothing wrong with her body. She just needs to spend more time and energy taking care of her." , if you drink milk, you should eat small amounts and often. If the mother has no milk, you can buy some milk powder for premature babies..."
Chen Wenya listened carefully and said that he would take good care of the child. But as soon as the doctor left, the smile on his face disappeared immediately. He impatiently handed the child to his mother and said, "Mom, you Come and take care of me, how can I, a grown man, know how to take care of children?"
Mother Chen didn't want to take care of her, but she had no choice now. Zhou Lizhi was still observing in the delivery room, and no other family members came to the hospital, so she had no choice but to take over taking care of the child.
"Hurry up and get your wife out of the hospital and let her take care of herself. I can't bear to take care of a girl, and she's not my big fat grandson!" Mother Chen said with a pulled face.
"I know, she gave birth naturally and will be discharged from the hospital soon. Staying in the hospital is a waste of money!" Chen Wenya frowned and said.
Neither mother nor son thought about preparing some food and drink for the mother, and they didn't care at all why Zhou Lizhi gave birth prematurely. They just thought about how to offload the care of the child to the mother who had just given birth. Speaking of which, Zhou Lizhi also Quite sad.
As expected, Zhou Lizhi only stayed in the hospital for one night before her husband's family urged her to leave the hospital. They said she had a natural birth. Which hospital should she stay in? It was a waste of money, so I took Zhou Lizhi home regardless of the doctor's advice of staying for three days.
Zhou Lizhi thought that she could finally take a good rest after confinement, right? But she didn't expect that her Chen family had no intention of taking good care of her during confinement. After taking her back from the hospital, they threw the child to her, saying that everyone in the family had to go to work or go to school and had no time to take care of her and the child. Let her take care of the baby by herself.
"Mom, I just gave birth to a baby and my body is still hurting. How can I take care of the baby?" Zhou Lizhi said feebly. She was weak and sweating a lot. Where can she work?
"Why can't you? When I gave birth to Wenya and the others, when did I have confinement? They always had to get up to work on the day after giving birth, and they had to take care of everything such as housework and taking care of the children. Even in some villages, Women give birth in the ground when they give birth. After giving birth, they bite off the umbilical cord and continue to do it. Why can't you learn from us? You can't do this or that, you're all used to it. How can you be so squeamish? I think you are being hypocritical! What woman doesn't have children? You are the only one with too much trouble!" Mother Chen said loudly to Zhou Lizhi, saying that it was impossible to raise children for her.
Zhou Lizhi felt angry and resentful, and wanted to quarrel with Chen's mother, but she was too weak to have the energy to quarrel with her, so she had to look at Chen Wenya: "Wenya, can't you take half a month's leave and come back?" Take care of us? The child is your own, shouldn’t you as a father take more care of it? "
"Bah! What are you thinking, you bitch? You actually asked my son to take leave and come back to take care of you? Where did you get such a big face? A man's career is so important, how can he be delayed by such trivial matters? If the leader knew about him If you ask for leave because of such a thing, you must think that he will not be useful. Do you want to kill my son? Go out and see which man asks for leave because his wife has a baby? You are not afraid of being laughed at!" Mother Chen put her hands on her hips. Zhou Lizhi scolded.
Only then did Chen Wenya come out to talk to Xini and said: "Mom, don't be angry, I won't ask for leave. Lizhi is just joking. And Lizhi, it's not that I don't want to come back to take care of you and the child, it's just that I'm a little busy at work recently. , the boss is keeping a close eye on me, I can’t ask for leave at this critical moment, otherwise I won’t be involved in the promotion. If I can be promoted this time, my salary will be increased a lot, and I will give it to you and Buy some supplements for the child and make up for it. You have always been considerate, and you can definitely understand me now, right?"
Chen Wenya was worthy of being an eloquent playboy, with a eloquent tongue and a few words that calmed both Chen's mother and Zhou Lizhi.
So the end of this matter is that Zhou Lizhi, a pregnant woman, has no one to help her. She has to do housework and take care of the child at home. And the child was born prematurely, which requires more effort, which makes her physically and mentally exhausted in a few days. Fatigue, worse than during pregnancy.
Every time I coax a crying child, I have to wash a basin full of dirty diapers. After washing the diapers, it’s noon and I have to buy groceries and cook and wait for my family to come back...
At the end of the day, she was so tired that she couldn't even straighten her waist. Whenever this happened, she would think of the happy time of confinement at Sun's house in her previous life.
Her and Sun Jianshe's first child was a boy. Grandmother was so happy to have a grandson that she even took a month off to serve her during the confinement period. She took great care to prepare delicious food for her at every meal, just to make her happy. She has milk to feed the child.
She didn't need to worry about taking care of the child, washing diapers, etc. She only needed to feed the child every day, and she could do as she pleased with the rest of the time, so she was very relaxed during the confinement period. She gained more than ten kilograms after the confinement period. I was too comfortable and fat during confinement.
In her previous life, she was so blessed that she didn't know how to be blessed. After having children in her two lifetimes, Zhou Lizhi became even more intolerable to her experiences in this life. Every time she thought about it, she shed tears. Unfortunately, no one in this life would. I feel sorry for her.
