After Wen Lun and Lu Jing greeted each other politely, he turned his attention back to Wen Xiaochuan, and then suddenly shook his head.
"pity……"
"What's a pity?" Wen Xiaochuan was startled.
"You want to follow my example of making friends and accumulating capital for your future man, which is a good idea, but unfortunately you are overestimating yourself." Wen Lun changed the topic and said calmly.
"This is not an easy thing. Those men come to you because they admire you. They regard each other as competitors or even enemies. When you are not married, you have to mediate between them. The conflicts may not be too difficult. As long as you are willing to put in some effort, you can easily make them work for you.
"However, once you get married, those people will easily hate you because of love after they find that their feelings for you are hopeless. They may not vent their anger on you, but the unlucky man who married you will. Maybe.”
Wen Xiaochuan's face changed slightly, but then he forced himself to calm down, "Second sister, you are looking down on me too much. I am no longer the little follower you were more than ten years ago. What you were able to do back then, I can't do now." The same can be done.”
"No, you can't do it." Wen Lun shook his head.
After a pause, she continued, "I don't know you anymore. Although you have been with me for a while, you never paid close attention to what I was doing or why I did it. , most of your thoughts are on eating and playing.
"Of course, you were only six or seven years old at the time. This is also the nature of a child, which is understandable. But the bad thing is that when you grow up, you still feel that you have learned a lot from me, and you think you can imitate my methods. It's a pity. In the end, it’s just an imitation.”
Wen Xiaochuan looked a little embarrassed when he heard her last words. He bit his lip and wanted to refute, but Wen Lun waved his hand and interrupted him.
"If you had really taken a good look at me, you wouldn't have made such a stupid mistake. If it were me, it would be impossible for me to always put them in the position of admirers, and I wouldn't let them just work for my future. Men serve.”
Wen Xiaochuan refused, "Second sister, who are you lying to? Everyone in the world knows that if you hadn't been mediating and asking for help, Leihuo Hall would have been gone long ago."
Wen Lun sighed, "Didn't you hear what I just said? What I said was that I would only serve my future man, not that I wouldn't."
Wen Xiaochuan was originally very smart. After hearing Wen Lun's words, he quickly reacted and said thoughtfully, "Second sister, do you mean that I should make use of this network earlier?"
Wen Lun nodded, "Although those people came to you because of their admiration for you, they also have other needs. If you can use the large number of connections at your hand to solve their unsolvable troubles, you will naturally gain something. Their gratitude.
"This way, even if you get married one day, you will still retain this favor. Even if they feel sad, most people will still not refuse you when you come to ask for their help.
"Some people will even become more and more inseparable from you because you help them more. Your relationship will not only be about admiration and being admired, but will become a more reliable and stable ally.
"Speaking of which, if you want to make use of these relationships and avoid being backlashed by them in the future, the key is not to specifically use these relationships to help a certain person, but to try to weave them into a network. Let it serve everyone in the network, and your future men can also join this network, and naturally get help from others."
Wen Xiaochuan was silent for a moment, and finally said, "Thank you, second sister, for your advice."
Wen Lun smiled and opened the folding fan, "There is no need for us sisters to see each other outside. You can take Daxia Lu to see your grandmother first. If you still don't understand any questions, you can ask me later. Of course, if you feel that you can't handle this, If you don't mind, you can write to me secretly later, and I'm sure no one else will know."
"…………"
After saying goodbye to Wen Lun, Wen Xiaochuan also looked a little depressed.
She originally wanted to show off her growth during this time when she came home this time, and impress her sisters, but she didn't expect that she was not successful at the beginning, and was hit hard as soon as she came up.
The conversation with Wen Lun just now was suppressed by the other party in terms of content and aura.
Wen Xiaochuan knew clearly that Wen Lun wanted to use this incident to show her off and make her accept her position as the youngest, but she was still unable to resist.
In fact, among her six sisters, the one she fears most is Wen Lun, the second sister. The latter's methods are even better than Aunt Wen's, she is completely superior to her own.
However, Wen Xiaochuan later said with emotion, "My second sister is good at everything, but her personality is too strong and she is too proud. She doesn't allow anyone to shine more than her. So now I actually understand a little bit why she chose me in the first place." My second brother-in-law.
"Because if she chooses a well-matched and well-matched young man, I'm afraid it will be difficult for him to tolerate her pride. As time goes by, there will probably be a lot of conflicts between the two of them."
As Wen Xiaochuan spoke, she and Lu Jing arrived at the courtyard where her grandmother lived. She didn't let the maid go in to report, but just pulled Lu Jing in.
In the main hall, I saw an old woman with silver hair, but her body still looked quite strong. She was eating dates and doing household chores for several other women.
Lu Jing knew that the old woman was the protagonist of today's birthday party, Wen Xiaochuan's grandmother. As for the other people in the room, the first thing Lu Jing paid attention to was the woman to the right of the old woman.
She is the second oldest in the house and looks about thirty years old, but Lu Jing knows that her actual age should be older than this. It is only because she takes good care of herself that she looks good.
If nothing else, she should be Aunt Wen, the actual leader of the Wen family.
As for the other three women, their temperament and appearance are different, but the same thing is that they are all stunning in the world. They are probably Wen Xiaochuan's other three sisters.
The five people stopped talking after Wen Xiaochuan entered the room, and then glanced at Wen Xiaochuan first, but soon most people's eyes fell on Lu Jing next to Wen Xiaochuan.
One of the women with an oval face and wearing palace clothes was the first to speak, "Seventh sister, we were talking about you just now, but we didn't expect you to have already arrived. By the way, this person next to you is..."
"Oh, he is a friend I met in the capital... Well, he came back with me because he heard that the road was dangerous."
