"Many male colleagues in the company are on Shen Kun's side. I can't understand their views. They don't think Shen Kun did anything wrong, and they admire Shen Kun's courage. They think you are too ruthless. They He also said that you are too difficult to chase. They will not dare to contact you in the future. What do these people think? I have to stay away from them in the future." Zhou Lin said angrily.
I smiled flatly, not surprised at all.
I just heard the remarks of two male colleagues here. I don't care what they think of me, and I don't need their approval or support.
Sun Meng actively spoke for me: "That's better. Our Tao Ye doesn't want to have contact with them. It's better for them to stay away by themselves, so as not to save Tao Ye from having to deal with them. Otherwise, Tao Ye will be indifferent to them, and they should It’s rude to say Tao Ye.”
Zhou Lin suddenly understood, nodded slightly, and said: "That's right. It's a good thing to think so. Good fortune and misfortune depend on each other."
"I have already criticized them. I will not be polite when I hear them talk about it again. This incident can make me realize their character, which is an unexpected gain." I said optimistically.
I am no longer a young and ignorant little girl. I have my own sense of right and wrong, and I will not doubt myself because of other people's biased opinions. I will safeguard my legitimate interests.
Zhou Lin said supportively: "That's how it should be. They are sneaky and secretly discussing, and they are not aboveboard at all. They all deserve it if they can't find a girlfriend. They don't know where their heads are."
After she finished speaking, she suddenly lowered her voice and said cautiously: "Yesterday, when I went to ask my boss about work, I heard my boss complaining to the finance department that you had too many things to do. He said that you don't like Shen Kun, so just ignore him. , and also posted the chat records. Everyone came to work, and no one will settle the lawsuit against you. You have to make such a big fuss over such a small matter. There is also something wrong with the boss's brain. Why should you endure it when you are bullied? Instead of blaming Shen Kun for doing evil, these people criticize you."
After hearing this, Sun Meng said angrily: "The boss doesn't have much trouble. Shen Kun has always been supportive of him. With his narrow-minded character, if Shen Kun harassed him, he would scold him. He would definitely give him a scolding right then. Shen Kun opened."
Hearing this, Zhou Lin and I couldn't help laughing. We all got it wrong.
Sun Meng saw us laughing, understood what we were thinking, and started laughing too.
Zhou Lin said angrily: "Not necessarily. Maybe the boss likes someone like Shen Kun. Look at how nice the boss is to Shen Kun. We will be scolded when we make mistakes, and we often have to take the blame. But Shen Kun is very I rarely get scolded by my boss. Sometimes when the boss finds out that Shen Kun made a mistake, he doesn’t scold or pursue him, and he feels a little embarrassed. I used to think that the boss liked Shen Kun."
"Oh...it turns out the boss is jealous of Tao Ye." Sun Meng agreed.
The two of them sang and harmonized, and we couldn't help but make associations. In the end, we all agreed that the boss's feelings for Shen Kun were unusual.
I said cooperatively: "For this reason, I forgive my boss. In such a relationship, he is definitely not interested in me."
We talk about these gossips to make ourselves happy.
It is a good way to relieve stress for those of us who are part-time workers.
After a while, the iced drinks we bought arrived.
Sun Meng drank a drink and played with her mobile phone.
Zhou Lin and I also quickly opened the drinks and drank. It is a very pleasant thing to drink a cold drink at this time.
"I'm 170cm tall, and I'm looking for someone above 180cm tall. Isn't it too demanding?" a soft female voice asked calmly.
A male voice that tolerated disgust replied: "Not high."
"My monthly salary is 5,000, and I'm looking for someone with a monthly salary of 6,000. Isn't the requirement high?"
"not tall."
"I graduated with a bachelor's degree and am looking for someone with a bachelor's degree or above. The requirements are not high, right?"
"Not high. Then have you ever thought about what kind of boys who are over 180cm tall and have a monthly salary of 6,000 with a bachelor's degree are looking for? They will definitely not want someone like you. Their requirements must be higher. In addition to these basic The requirement is that the woman should be beautiful, slim, and have a gentle personality."
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When Sun Meng heard this, she couldn't stand it anymore. She raised her hand and switched to another video.
Zhou Lin complained outright: "This man wants this girl PUA. He wants to tell the girl both inside and outside his words that her demands have increased. She should lower her demands. This girl just made some very normal demands. He has become very demanding. He also wants to attack girls."
"His words sound so disgusting. I can't stand listening to them." Sun Meng said with disgust.
I sighed softly and said helplessly: "Many men think that girls are too demanding, and label girls as high-minded, money-worshiping, and materialistic. Those men themselves have higher requirements. They don't Talking about themselves, they also want girls to lower their requirements. You really can’t have too low requirements when looking for a partner, otherwise you will find bad people and your life will be even worse in the future."
Sun Meng and Zhou Lin nodded in agreement in agreement.
"Anyway, I won't be PUA. When I heard what the man said, my first reaction was that I should be more demanding. Only in this way can I choose the one I'm satisfied with. I'm also very angry at these people who want to lower me. If you are demanding, let them know that the world is not what they think. Who wouldn’t make demands? Why can’t I raise my demands? I will ignore those who want me to lower my demands.” Sun Meng Said rebelliously.
Zhou Lin smiled happily and said enthusiastically: "I would say that those who are not what I am looking for are just eliminated. I don't believe that all boys who meet these normal basic requirements think like that. If If that's the case, I won't get married. Why get married if it's so unpleasant from the beginning? We won't be affected by these people's ideas. I don't expect much for such a big thing as marriage. Then I will What kind of things are demanding? When you go out to buy groceries, you know how to choose the right ones, but when choosing a boyfriend, you only choose the bad ones? I made him doubt his life."
I'm very pleased that both of them are very motivated.
Now everyone's thinking has progressed. The actions and thoughts of those in love brains are disliked. In the past, the love-minded heroines were also criticized.
This is progress.
Zhou Lin suddenly asked me mysteriously: "Tao Ye, does your handsome friend think this way? You can try it and see what he thinks. No matter how handsome the other person is, as long as his three views are not correct, you cannot choose. "
"He...he is not such a person. He is very nice." I said sheepishly.
Sun Meng also echoed: "Gu Chenyang is definitely not such a person. He is gentle and considerate, polite and cultivated, and respects women. Zhou Lin, you are worried too much."
Zhou Lin said wittily: "So you like him? You also said that the two of you are just friends."
I sighed helplessly, feeling my face getting hot. It turns out that Zhou Lin is digging a hole for me. I was too embarrassed to notice it just now.
Sun Meng was trying hard not to laugh.
Seeing Sun Meng smiling, I couldn't help but laugh too. The relationship between me and Gu Chenyang is too shallow to say we like each other.
I've talked to him about it.
"Yeah." I nodded gently, trying to deal with it.
Zhou Lin said excitedly: "Then you go and chase him. Judging from what I know so far, I'm sure he likes you too. Chase him quickly. No matter what, you won't suffer."
Zhou Lin’s enthusiasm and encouragement really made me helpless.
I had no choice but to agree: "Okay. I'll work hard."
Zhou Lin started to tell Sun Meng.
"Sun Meng, don't laugh. I'm telling you, when you meet someone you like in the future, you should try it out to see the other person's character. You must not accept someone with bad character. Some people hide it very well. Shen, pretend to be like a gentleman when chasing you. When you fall in love with him, he will stop pretending. It will be too late by then. If you find out after you get married, it will be even later. You can use something like Shen Kun These things you do are to test the other party's attitude." Zhou Lin said seriously.
Sun Meng couldn't bear the smile on her face. She grinned and agreed: "Yes. I know. I will test it."
I asked Zhou Lin curiously: "Have you tried this method?"
Zhou Lin thought carefully and said rigorously: "I didn't take the initiative to test, but I used the same method. When I was in college, there was a boy in our class who was very handsome. I had a crush on him at that time. I hesitated for a long time. There was no confession. One day, his roommate failed to confess. He comforted his roommate in the classroom and said a lot of derogatory words about the girl. I decided at that time that I didn’t like him."
Sun Meng said disdainfully: "Some men will say that they are high-mouthed. Being high-mouthed actually shows their true thoughts."
We all agree.
But Gu Chenyang has never had these bad habits. He comes from a good family and is capable, but he is not ostentatious at all and is very honest and low-key.
Even if there are bad people around him, he is still untainted.
After so many years, he is the only person I have met who is good in every way. Being with him also makes me feel comfortable.
When we have differences, he never quarrels with me.
He is always so gentle, like the spring breeze.
If Gu Chenyang is here too, join our discussion. We are also all light-hearted and happy.
He would never support Shen Kun like the male colleagues in the company, nor would he want to be a peacemaker like Sister Zhao. He will be firmly on my side. Not because he likes me, but because that's what he thinks.
The harmony of our three views allows us to get along happily. Even if you are not a lover, having a friend with such a good character is still a blessing in life. I also want to ignore Gu Chenyang, but people and things around me always tell me how good Gu Chenyang is.
