Many times, it's not that you don't love anymore, it's just that you don't know how to say love. It is not easy for two people to come together, and it is even more rare for them to spend half their lives together. Since the fate of this life has been determined, then hold hands and continue walking.
Marriage, in the final analysis, still depends on love and management.
True love emerges in adversity. Many couples can share hardships, but cannot share joys. In the final analysis, one party has lost its psychological balance. He felt that in this life, he was tired of seeing the people around him, so he longed for love outside of marriage. His heart flew out of home and he couldn't get it back.
The balance between husband and wife is relative, mostly a psychological effect, not a balance of weight, salary and income. The original ecological families of both parties are well matched.
Sometimes, love is straightforward and meaningless. Just like a straight line, it is exactly the same no matter where you look. When a marriage goes from a state of balance to a state of loss of balance and then returns to a state of balance, such a marriage will have ups and downs but will have a deeper understanding and be more meaningful.
Smart people, after getting married, have the seven-year itch and mid-life emotional crisis, start to reflect on themselves, cherish the people around them more, and have more happiness in their marriage. Ignorant people, once they have a relationship crisis, are at a loss and just let it go, and end up getting divorced.
One doesn't ask, one doesn't tell; one doesn't bow, one doesn't give in; one has a change of heart, and the other is very upset. No matter how good the marriage is, it will be a kind of torture.
It turns out that the happiest marriage is to hold hands and grow old together with your son. We have been arguing all our lives, separated and reunited many times, but we have never really let go. A happy couple holds hands once and for a lifetime. Even if it feels like the left hand is holding the right hand, it is your love and we are willing to do it, and there is never any psychological imbalance.
