"The price of love is too expensive, and we can't afford equivalent remuneration." Qin Shuangshuang joked with a smile, "I don't know what you think, anyway, I don't believe in love, I believe in long-lasting relationships."
Wang Yunli was confused and asked: "What is the difference between love and emotion?"
Qin Shuangshuang thought for a moment, organized his words, and gave his own opinions.
"I think so! Although love and emotion have somewhat similar meanings, there are fundamental differences.
Emotion refers to an emotion that humans produce when facing various stimuli such as the external environment and interpersonal relationships. It can be various emotional states such as joy, anger, sadness, etc.
Love refers to a deep, unique emotional experience that includes emotion, sensibility and rationality. It mainly manifests as a strong emotional tendency towards a person and a desire for his or her decision to act.
Emotion is a short-lived, limited, temporary and superficial emotional state. It occurs in instantaneous communication between people and is expressed through words, eyes, gestures, etc.
Love is a more profound, extraordinary, complete and inner emotional experience. It is a long-lasting comprehensive experience of passion, reverence, trust, pursuit and responsibility.
In general, feelings are the most basic form of the human emotional world, and love is a deep emotional experience based on feelings, and is the result of people's continuous emotional sublimation.
In our daily life, who can always maintain passion? No matter how beautiful the love is, its final destination will be feelings. Do you think love is the long-term one or the relationship is the long-term one? "
Wang Yunli stared at Qin Shuangshuang like a curious baby with wide eyes, confused by her theory.
Is there such a big difference between love and emotion?
She never thought about it.
It was also the first time for Li Yuan to hear her daughter talking about these things. She was so confused that she hardly understood a word. But she firmly believed that what her daughter said must be right.
"Then are you and your man getting married for love or for feelings?"
Wang Yunli was very curious about Qin Shuangshuang's choice.
"We first had feelings, and then love emerged after we got married."
Qin Shuangshuang did not dodge and commented objectively on his relationship with Shen Chenming. At first, Shen Chenming had been thinking about her for so many years, but later because of Yang Tianhe's backlash, she became angry and agreed to a flash marriage with Shen Chenming.
After coming to the army and feeling Shen Chenming's love for her, her inner emotions slowly ignited.
Thinking of Shen Chenming, Qin Shuangshuang's eyes flashed with pain. She believed in her sixth sense that something must have happened to Shen Chenming, and it was not a big deal.
The division headquarters has not received any news from the superiors, so it must not be a last resort. She asked He Zhijun several times, but they all said that the military department had not notified him.
No news is the best news, which means that Shen Chenming did not leave him. He must have been injured, very seriously.
It doesn't matter, as long as he can breathe, it doesn't matter what he becomes, she is willing to accept it.
That was the father of her child, a hero who had made great contributions to the people and the country.
"I'm so envious." Wang Yunli's eyes were shining with admiration, "I listen to you, find a man who can give me a long-lasting love, don't expect love, it's too expensive, I can't afford the price."
"That's right. No matter how beautiful love is, it can't be kept fresh for a long time. Only relationships are stable and reliable. I'm going to see your squad leader in the afternoon. Do you need me to ask someone to accompany you? It's better to be a man, better than your squad leader. Better."
Qin Shuangshuang said, turning his eyes to Zhang Dewen who was ordering and handing over goods to Sister-in-law Lu. They have known each other for so long, so they understand each other quite well.
Zhang Dewen is not young, but he does not have a family or a girlfriend. He said that he was from Kyoto, and his family had long been urging him to get married. He couldn't bear the urging, so he was transferred to Haicheng.
Wang Yunli is too naive and is afraid that she will be bullied by Yu Xuan. With Zhang Dewen by her side, she will definitely not be compared to that squad leader.
"I don't have friends like that."
Qin Shuangshuang's suggestion was a good one, but it was a pity that she didn't have any friends of the opposite sex around her. Where could she find someone for a temporary visit?
"I'll find one for you." He pointed at Zhang Dewen and patted Wang Yunli's hand, "What do you think of him?"
Looking along her hand, Wang Yunli was stunned: "You mean him? Director Zhang? This is the first time I've met him? Will he be willing to help me?"
Speaking of the latter sentence, Wang Yunli's voice was softer than a mosquito.
Li Yuan laughed after hearing this. This child really had no confidence in herself. Look at the way he lowered his head and didn't dare to look at anyone, as if he had made some mistake.
"If you want him to help, I'll go tell him. I think he will be happy." Qin Shuangshuang was not very sure and did not dare to say anything, so he used an ambiguous word.
Turning to look at Zhang Dewen, Wang Yunli's face turned red.
In fact, Zhang Dewen is good-looking. He is still the director of Kaisheng Garment Factory at a young age. He can definitely outdo the monitor who is still in college and has no assigned work.
I just don’t know if people will agree to such a rude request. What if they don’t agree? How embarrassing.
If you can bring him along to fill the scene for you, you can really piss Yu Xuan to death. I really like to see her so angry that she vomits blood because she has no choice.
"Then... how about... you go and talk to him... about it."
Wang Yunli dug hard at the floor with her toes, wishing she could carve out a two-bedroom apartment.
This matter was so shameful that she couldn't open her mouth, so she had to talk about it both ways.
"Okay! Just wait."
After Qin Shuangshuang finished speaking, he walked towards Zhang Dewen. He had finished handing over the goods and was packing up the large cloth bags on the ground and preparing to put them in the trunk.
The manual work in the garment factory is all about cloth. Every time you come to deliver or receive goods, you only need to drive a car. Put some in the trunk, put some in the back seat, you can basically get it done.
The driver will also help move the goods. The efficiency of the garment factory is getting better and better, and there is also a lot of manual work. The factory director had already moved it, so what reason did the driver have for not to follow suit?
Every time he pulls a load, the factory will give him overtime credit. He didn't have this kind of treatment before, but it was extended later when the manual work was contracted to the army's family homes.
This was his extra income, and his wife didn't know it. He saved this money secretly, and he was even willing to buy red peony when buying cigarettes. Unlike before, he always smoked golden leaves and mangoes.
Speaking of which, he has to thank Translator Qin. If it weren't for her, the factory's efficiency wouldn't be so good, he wouldn't have overtime pay, and he couldn't afford Red Peony.
Factory Director Zhang is also a very good person. He deserves a fair amount of treatment, and he also fights for overtime pay for himself. He said that the factory was making money and didn't care about his overtime pay. As long as he worked hard, he would get everything he deserved.
While the two were packing, Qin Shuangshuang came over. Zhang Dewen stood up and folded the bags in his hands.
"Looking for me? What's the matter?"
