[Chapter 196] The secret unfolds. Du Jin thought of this, hesitated again and again, and decided to meet with Si Qing in person. On the one hand, he wanted her to put down her worries and complete those tasks with good intentions. On the other hand, Du Jin also wants to see Si Qing... This is a feeling that he cannot resolve himself when he is in love, but even if Now that Du Jin has Xiao Ai, he can easily learn about Si Qing's work place and environment, but he did not do this and rashly explore the privacy of his loved one without permission. This is Du Jin's reason. The bottom line he has set... But at the same time, Du Jin also doesn't want to rely on the help of anyone or anything, because that would go to the other extreme, that is
"Dependence incapacitation", for these views
For people who "should not rely on anyone or anything except themselves", this group of people is afraid of relying on others.
They may appear strong, confident, and even successful at first glance, but on the inside they are actually fragile and restless. Although they are afraid, they also secretly long for intimacy.
And Du Jin clearly understands that if it is purely based on this
In terms of "rejection of help" behavior, this type of people will avoid the need for others as much as possible. If they have to rely on others or seek outside help, they will feel strong shame and embarrassment, and may even hate themselves for it.
This kind of dependence also includes emotional ones. For example, when you are very sad and lonely, you are not willing to tell the people around you to seek comfort and care.
They are relatively more accepting of being dependent on others than relying on others. But more than this, they hope that others will not rely on themselves.
Because those who rely on incompetence often
"Dependence" itself has a negative evaluation, thinking that
"You should do your own thing." They do not like and are not good at dealing with dependence from others.
Therefore, in interpersonal communication, they have
"Escape from interpersonal exchanges
"The tendency of ". In other words, it is best for you to be you and me to be me. For them, it seems that only by avoiding the effort of you coming and going, can they gain
"Island-like independence." If this is the case, then Du Jin may become a
"Dependent on incompetence" extremist, this is another aspect that Du Jin does not want to see. Now he is looking for a moderate dependence, but at the same time, he can maintain his own autonomy, so that he can always react to the outside world in a timely manner. To give feedback, this sounds a bit self-contradictory. To be honest, Du Jin himself sometimes feels a little confused, but he is always learning by himself and making himself strive to grow as he expects. Otherwise, if he only relies on himself for intelligence It is almost impossible to fight against the Red Blood Seal and the United Church.
Of course, it was not conducive for Xiao Ai to investigate Si Qing's work location, but he did not object to letting Xiao Ai find the office phone number of Si Qing's current workplace. A series of numbers did not violate Du Jin's principles, which made Xiao Ai He asked in confusion: "Master, why don't you let Xiao Ai find the person you want to find, and then we can go directly to find him?"
"Uh...Xiao Ai, people also need some distance between them!"
"Oh!" Xiao Ai was quickly fooled by Du Jin. He had no intention of explaining his principles to Xiao Ai. After all, Xiao Ai was similar to his sister in his eyes, and he didn't want to create a barrier with Xiao Ai because of his own ideas. , of course, Du Jin will still find opportunities to explain this to Xiao Ai in the future, at least it is not the time yet.
Soon, Xiao Ai dialed the satellite phone that Si Qing had used before. Generally speaking, this kind of military-encrypted satellite phone cannot be connected through external communication networks, but this restriction is not suitable for Xiao Ai. He said it was not difficult. After waiting for a few seconds, he was connected, and then came the slightly confused voice of Si Qing: "Hello, I am Si Qing, who are you?"
"Captain Si, I am Du Jin. The issues related to the paper we jointly published have been resolved. I would like to inform you personally, Captain Si." Du Jin's response was very standard, and it was not as intimate as the two of them in private. After all, this satellite phone is not like a conventional phone, which is supported by the operator's civilian satellite. It belongs to the military communication satellite system and belongs to the specific military satellite and frequency band for the opposite connection. Regardless of whether it is for safety or confidentiality, they will definitely be subject to some degree of surveillance. Although Du Jin does not think there is any problem in admitting the relationship between the two, he still wants to take into account Si Qing's daily face when working in the army, so as not to leave an unknown person. Necessary exaggeration or frivolous impression, so Du Jin took the initiative to restrain himself and adopted a more serious and formal tone. As for the content...he believed that the military was absolutely aware of it. The meaning of this, so she did not deliberately cover up anything to avoid unnecessary suspicion. Si Qing on the other end of the phone was silent for a moment. Just when Du Jin was about to end the call because of her, Si Qing said with a very gentle He responded in a tone of voice: "Well... I understand, Mr. Du... Mr. Du Jin, I'm sorry that I'm a little busy at work right now and can't leave." Military academy, let's do this. I'll send someone to pick you up, and we can go to my place of work to discuss specific matters, okay?" Du Jin heard Si Qing's slight discomfort with this sudden serious tone, but asked from the end
"Okay?" He could still feel Si Qing's expectation to meet him. This tacit psychological feeling gave Du Jin no reason to refuse, and in his plan, the technology in that paper was just a touchstone, as long as it was enough Attracting the attention from above is the biggest reward for Du Jin. As for other specific rewards, Du Jin is prepared to give Si Qing a corresponding rise in position or power. Moreover, Du Jin personally felt Si Qing's father's stubbornness, ignorance and selfishness. Finally, he also hoped that this change would at least allow Si Qing to escape her father's control and suppression to a certain extent.
Because of this, he knew in advance some of Si Qing’s work environment, duties and scope of abilities in the army, so that he could provide Si Qing with the best interests for her: “Okay, Captain Si, that person is at the military academy. The east gate is waiting for the people you sent to arrive."
"Okay!" Du Jin then returned to the east gate a little tired. It has to be said that whenever he returns to the living world, he has been running back and forth, but at least this time it was Du Jin's choice and not forced. From this point of view, Du Jin still felt that it was very worthwhile. After waiting for a few minutes, Du Jin saw a dark green jeep driving quickly into his field of vision, and then...and then straight He rushed straight in the direction of Du Jin, and those who didn't know thought he was just a killer who was coming to kill Du Jin, but Du Jin did not dodge, and his intuition told him that the other party did not seem to have any malicious intentions.
Of course, this is also Du Jin's confidence in his physical ability and reaction speed. If someone really hits him, Du Jin will have enough time to avoid the opponent's collision route. Even if the opponent wants to
For the sake of "insurance", the speed is increased, so that the instantaneous speed reaches the point where Du Jin has no time to react. Du Jin can also actively speed up his nerve reaction speed and easily avoid it. Even if he is really affected, in fact, Du Jin Although the bones and body further strengthened by the black blood seal were not completely unscathed, they would not be damaged. Due to various factors, Du Jin did not do anything to avoid it.
Fortunately, Du Jin's worries did not appear. The driver of the jeep seemed to be having fun. After rushing to a place less than a hundred meters away from Du Jin, he stepped on the brakes to let the tires touch the ground. There was a slightly sharp and harsh friction sound, and finally it stopped less than three meters away from Du Jin. Although the distance of three meters is usually not short, in the face of the speed ratio of a car, this distance is probably Not even enough time for the driver to blink.
At this time, he saw through the glass a handsome and immature young soldier sitting in the driver's seat. But to be honest, besides seeing the military uniform and epaulettes, Du Jin could identify the other person's identity. From what he had just done, , there was no trace of military temperament at all, so Du Jin immediately asked Xiao Ai to check the identity of the other party. The result was unknown. The information obtained by Xiao Ai made Du Jin frown slightly: "Master, his name is Yu Wenbin , is the third child of a family named Yu in Xia State, and his father is..." Du Jin knew this simply by listening to Xiao Ai's description. Yu Wenbin is a child of a political family in the Xia Kingdom. Although he is not the eldest son, given the status of his parents, he is definitely not a person who is easy to make enemies. However, Du Jin undoubtedly feels the difference. In such a family, the main power and tradition are in politics. Why do people at this level want to go to the military? Moreover, he looked at the license plate and it was consistent with what Si Qing told him. Although he didn't want to admit it, Yu Wenbin was indeed here to pick up Du Jin.
"receptionist".
"Ha...the current reception staff is really unique. Xiaoqing's army seems to be more tough..." Du Jin complained in his heart Suddenly, Yu Wenbin opened the car door and got out of the car in an arrogant manner. He glanced at Du Jin up and down. He originally wanted to say something sarcastic, but Yu Wenbin found that even though he had been a soldier for several months, he still looked different in appearance. He didn't look much stronger than Du Jin, and he didn't know if it was an illusion. He always felt that looking into the other person's eyes would instinctively show a hint of fear, which made Yu Wenbin dare not say anything sarcastic in his heart. Just like that, Du Jin He and Yu Wenbin looked at each other, but neither of them spoke, forming a strange silence.
At this time, a sentry standing guard at the east gate of the military school noticed something unusual. He walked over and said to the two people, or to Wen Bin to be precise: "Hello, comrade! This is a military education control area. Please explain your purpose of coming and show your Corresponding documents, thank you for your cooperation." Du Jin just left the east gate guard passage with his student ID card. The sentry obviously remembered Du Jin, but Yu Wenbin did not, and his seemingly undisciplined driving style just now, This also caused the sentry's first impression of Wenbin to shift somewhat. Hearing this warning question, Du Jin couldn't help but tilt his head to prevent the smile at the corner of his mouth from being noticed by others, while Yu Wenbin Looking at the glances from passers-by around him, Yu Wenbin was immediately very dissatisfied with the sentinel. He just wanted to ridicule him a few words according to his usual personality, but thinking about his boss's face, Yu Wenbin finally chose to keep a low profile.
He then took out his military officer's ID card from his arms, unfolded it and showed it to the sentry: "I am here to pick up someone under orders. I was just doing the necessary confirmations. You can go back." Continue on duty." The sentry looked at the second lieutenant, military rank and other anti-counterfeiting signs above, then saluted and returned to the duty post. At this time, Yu Wenbin looked at Du Jin in a low tone and said, "Is it Du Jin? I'm here to pick you up according to the order of the deputy brigade, come with me!" After saying that, without waiting for Du Jin's response, Yu Wenbin opened the car door and returned to the driver's seat. Du Jin shrugged helplessly, and he looked in front of him Yu Wenbin was a little puzzled by this hostility that he didn’t know where it came from, but he just
Du Jin didn't pay too much attention to the tenet of "doing more is worse than doing less". He walked to the jeep, opened the door and got into the back seat. As the vehicle started to move, except for the sound of the whistling wind and the sound of the engine outside the window, the two There was not much communication. More than ten minutes later, Du Jin saw through the front window of the car that a military gate that clearly belonged to the military appeared in front of him, with eye-catching golden characters written on it: 176th Brigade.
"176 Brigade, is this where Xiaoqing works? I heard Xiaoqing mentioned before that this seems to be a tank brigade..." Just when Du Jin thought about it, Yu Wenbin didn't He turned around and faced Du Jin, still looking straight ahead, and said in a warning tone: "Du Jin, right? Let me put it bluntly, you are not qualified to pursue a girl as outstanding as Si Qing. I advise you to find a mirror. Show up and get to know yourself, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble!" After hearing this, Du Jin suddenly realized that Yu Wenbin was so resentful and hostile when he saw him. It turned out to be because of Si Qing, and Judging from Yu Wenbin's tone, Du Jin roughly guessed that the other party was probably Si Qing's suitor just like Li Fei from the military academy. Well... to be precise, he should He was a former suitor. Although he didn’t know where Yu Wenbin got the information about his relationship with Si Qing, it was obviously out of date. Now he and Si Qing can be real boyfriend and girlfriend, not the previous ones.
The ambiguity of "still separated by a piece of cellophane". Of course, understanding is understanding, but when it came to Si Qing, Du Jin was not prepared to remain silent, and he immediately asked calmly;
"Oh? Is that so? It seems that you know a lot about Xiaoqing, Second Lieutenant! But the strange thing is that I have not mentioned you to Xiaoqing. It seems that Comrade Second Lieutenant, you may not belong to you. In that part."
"Du Jin, you!!! Okay... Okay, you have the courage. In that case, let's wait and see!" Yu Wenbin mentioned that Du Jin had already fallen in love with him because of his ridicule. The woman called her affectionately, and he immediately turned around and glared at Du Jin. But even though the veins on his hands bulged, Yu Wenbin still resisted the idea of having a real pK with Du Jin on the spot, and just shouted to Du Jin in a voice that was close to a growl. Jin warned. After the car passed the security check at the gate and entered the military garrison and parked, Yu Wenbin opened the door and got out of the car. Before getting off the car, he was ready to point at Du Jin, but he saw a middle-aged man coming from the other side of the jeep. The young man immediately put away his gesture and quickly opened the car door and left.
"Colonel, I brought you here, I can go now!" Yu Wenbin got off the car and said to the middle-aged officer who was walking towards him, but his tone and expression looked much more respectful and serious. Xie Xiao Looking at Yu Wenbin in front of him, he immediately said with a slightly helpless tone: "You! You, Second Lieutenant Yu, go to train with the First Company. I asked you to pick up people, not to quarrel with them!"
"Yes~~~Sir!" After listening to Xie Xiao's rebuke, Yu Wenbin took the order with a long tail. Before leaving, he glanced at Du Jin, his eyes seemed to want to warn Du Jin, but after a while Thinking that he had just seen Du Jin because of the fear in his eyes, in the end he quickly put away his gaze, just glanced at Du Jin's face and moved away. At this time, Xie Xiaocai on the side stepped forward and stretched out to Du Jin. He took action and said with a kind smile: "Du Jin, right? Haha, Captain Si often talks about you to me. We have met several times before. I don't know if you have no impression of Du Jin."
"Of course, Brigadier Xie, during the technical competition and simulated combat with other military academies, you did a good job on the rostrum. I was naturally impressed by you." Xie Xiao nodded, and then raised his head in one direction. Raising his hand to signal, Du Jin followed the opponent's steps and walked together. Xie Xiao looked ahead and said: "I remember that in the simulated battle in 2021, I personally awarded you the honorary certificate of the outstanding young commander. , I had a good impression of you at that time, and I felt that if you could continue to follow the trend at that time, you would have a different world."
"Commander Xie, you are very grateful! I still have many shortcomings. It would be an honor for me if I could get some pointers from you." Xie Xiao waved his hand, then looked at Du Jin and said with emotion. : "Haha... You don't need to compliment me like this. Of course, just call me Uncle Xie in private. I would also like to thank Du Jin for the time you saved Captain Si before. It is not the perseverance of ordinary people to block a gun." Even I would be a little hesitant about the decision I made. After all, if it's not good, it's really gone. Captain Si helped me a lot. She is worth it both to me and to this unit. Our respected people, at this point, please allow me to express my gratitude to you." After saying that, Xie Xiao was about to bow and thank Du Jin. Du Jin quickly shook his head and wanted to persuade Xie Xiao not to do this. After all, it was Si Qing is equivalent to saving yourself
"Wife" instead of considering other factors, but in the face of Xie Xiao's insistence, Du Jin still reluctantly accepted the other party's thanks. After thanking him, Xie Xiao said with a relaxed expression: "Okay, now I have a feeling in my heart The shortcomings have been satisfied. Du Jin must have understood now that most of the officers here, including me, support Captain Si. With Du Jin's relationship with Captain Si, we are also equivalent to
If you need any help in the future, you can communicate with me directly. Of course, this assumes that Du Jin really has feelings for Captain Si, otherwise, we will not agree! "Du Jin naturally stood still and looked into Xie Xiao's eyes. However, this time Du Jin did not use the ability of the blood seal at all. Instead, he looked at the other party with the most ordinary eyes and swore seriously: "Xie Lu. .....Uh, Uncle Xie, don’t worry! I will treat Xiaoqing sincerely, even if it means risking my life, I will not hesitate in the slightest. On this point, I will definitely swear to do it. Xie Xiao then nodded with satisfaction and said: "Okay!" I've seen your sincerity before, but after hearing your current attitude and commitment, Du Jin, I felt relieved, but it wasn't supposed to be me, alas...... ." At this time, Xie Xiao seemed to have thought of something and couldn't help but sigh. He first looked around with his peripheral vision to make sure that no unnecessary people were passing by. Xie Xiao then whispered to Du Jin: "Originally, these should be Captain Si’s parents did it, but... her parents were not kind in the literal sense. Captain Si’s mother was very indifferent and repulsive to her for some special reasons. As for Captain Si's father, hehe...I am also a father. Sometimes I know his purpose for doing something, but whether it is the method or good intentions, it is essentially a kind of respect for Captain Si. Urging and oppressing, of course, I don't have the position or qualification to say too much. If I really want to say it, Captain Si's current passive situation has nothing to do with me and this unit... ....." Du Jin seemed to have heard some secrets about Si Qing and this army, but this also gave Du Jin a rough idea of the reason why Si Qing was forced into a political blind date by his father: "It turns out Did Xiaoqing do something for this army that allowed his father to take advantage of him? Or was this done by Xiaoqing relying on his father's power? No matter what, I will investigate later and get Si Qing away from the influence of her family on her as soon as possible. As for Xiao Qing’s mother... From what Uncle Xie said, it seems that she has another hidden agenda, um, Xiaoqing has never mentioned this matter to me. I'm afraid it's because of some internal pressure that it's inconvenient to talk about it. I didn't mention it until Xiaoqing took the initiative to bring it up to me. "
