[Chapter 181] I will wait for you, always will. Unfortunately, Wen Song’s wishful thinking did not come true. The assistant hesitated for a moment, but still closed the door on him just now.
"Bang open" the door and walked to Wen Song and said: "Dean, I received an unfamiliar email in my hand. The content is... It is aimed at you, and according to my I understand that many people in the hospital have also received the same message. There is no way to block the message. I can only activate the signal isolation system immediately to prevent some people from spreading it to the outside world." Then, the assistant handed over the mobile phone. After Wen Song sat down and looked at it for a few times, he put his phone on the table, feeling a little excited.
"Retort": "This is a naked frame-up, a frame-up! How could I have done these things, how could it be possible..." In fact, Wen Wensong at this time My heart was full of confusion and panic about the evidence being grasped by others: "I have already handled these matters myself, and the relevant people have also issued a gag order. How did the person who sent the message get it? Damn it! Someone must have betrayed Me." The assistant on the side looked at Wen Song's mobile phone that he slapped hard on the table. He was speechless and distressed in his heart: "My mobile phone! I just changed it to the latest model not long ago. You are angry because you are angry. What is wrong with my mobile phone? I have to get it back quickly to see if nothing was broken. I'm so unlucky today!" But seeing the scrutinizing look Wen Song looked at him, the assistant no longer had any thoughts about the phone and quickly explained to himself: "House... Dean, you know me! In the past few years that I have been with you, I have used your power to do some small favors for myself. , but it is absolutely impossible to sell any of your information! What’s more, I have never heard of the content in this email, how could it be possible... ." Expressing his basic meaning, and then thinking about the gentle words in the email about persecuting others and sending them to jail unjustly, the assistant didn't even have the courage to say any more. He just stood there tremblingly, fearing that he would be imprisoned. as
The "scapegoat" was abandoned. From this detail, it can be seen that Du Jin's psychological attack methods have begun to work. Trust, which should be the most basic and core element in team building, often becomes the most extravagant idea. It has also become the root cause of many problems.
If you, as a leader, do not gain the trust of your team members, no matter how brilliant the leader’s ideas, rich and brilliant experience, the team members will not accept it from their hearts, let alone have the desire to fight with them. Willingness, they will show a passive state at work, and criticism and praise will not have much impact. After all, everyone is afraid that they will become the next implicated target. If they do not consider how to leave as soon as possible, they are conscientious and conscientious. How could they do so? Are you willing to sacrifice your own life for a boss who has betrayed his subordinates' precedent?
Generally speaking, at the beginning, the trust intensity of subordinates in their superiors is often higher than the trust intensity of superiors in subordinates. This is related to the relationship between position and power. Subordinates will subconsciously have a certain degree of trust in the actions of their superiors.
But precisely because of this, many leaders believe that it is natural for them to be trusted, but believe that the trust they have in their subordinates must be something that their subordinates must strive for.
"Benefits" or
"Scarce goods", so through various
"Testing" allows team members to compete for their trust. As everyone knows, subordinates' trust in their superiors will change quickly. If they are not aware that this trust has weakened or even disappeared, it will be tantamount to destruction of team building. , let alone a shared vision and strategic goals.
To build a high-performance team, the most important thing for leaders from beginning to end is trust. Only trust can produce understanding, understanding of people, understanding of goals, understanding of problems... Without understanding, team members are just alone. Individuals, there is a lack of connection between them, and the connections they make are rigid and process-based, unable to create
"Chemical effects" affect trust in superiors not because of the outrageous things they have done, but in some daily behaviors that gradually disappoint subordinates. Even when they work together, their hearts become farther and farther apart.
Not to mention that Wen Song has done more than just find
It's so easy for "scapegoat" to avoid risks. According to the information in the report letter, many of Wen Song's scientific research achievements were stolen. Some of the stolen persons were even framed as sinners, and they could only watch as Wen Song relied on himself. He worked hard all his life to become famous, but he could only be ruined and even bear unwarranted charges for it.
In fact, even the evidence against Wen Song focused on his rise. Since he reached the position of dean, except for some power and wealth transactions, he has not touched the previous matters. If It wasn't that the interests behind Du Jin and Si Qing's research paper were so great that Wen Song had to be tempted, nor would he intercept Si Qing's paper for approval and engage in reverse research and development himself.
But no matter what, now he has to pay the price for the crimes he committed. In fact, Du Jin was not blinded by hatred. He did not choose to send these evidence to the media and ordinary people in society. After all, he was gentle. Song is the dean of the research institute in his position, and he has a certain reputation in the scientific research community of Xia State and even in the world's scientific research community. If this kind of thing is fully exposed to the public, and even reported by overseas media, it will not only be a mild song. If a person's fame and wealth are in question, it will cause a huge blow to Xia Guo's international image.
Especially now, many Xiaguo students who are going abroad for further studies stay abroad either actively or passively because they are afraid that the domestic environment and salary cannot meet their development and life needs. If such a scandal occurs in this case, the impact will be The consequences would definitely be detrimental to Xia State. Considering these factors, Du Jin rationally sent the message to specific groups of people, ensuring that it could influence and intervene on Wen Song while minimizing the impact as much as possible.
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Wen Song came to Zhan Zhan Weiwei's assistant and couldn't help stroking his forehead. He also knew that now was not the time for Qiu Hou to hold him accountable. After thinking for a moment, he ordered the assistant: "What did you do in blocking the information?" Very good, now you only need to worry about the reverse research, I will let others do the rest. Remember, as long as you are firmly on my side, I can consider putting your name on that paper. .”
"Yes, yes! I will definitely do my best." After answering excitedly, the assistant opened the door and left, leaving only Wen Song alone in the office. After a moment of silence, he did not sit still and wait for death. , but picked up the work phone on the table and started
"Send troops and dispatch generals" is obvious, and it is still a bit far-fetched for Du Jin to completely overthrow Wen Song by reporting.
Fortunately, Du Jin didn't relax either. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Uh, okay, at this time, Du Jin couldn't bear to wake up Si Qing who was sleeping on his shoulder. Looking at his girlfriend's beautiful sleeping face and relaxed expression, Du Jin didn't care about the slight numbness on his shoulder. She felt that she didn't want to risk disturbing Si Qing and let her lie down on the sofa. She just kept her original position and quietly waited for Si Qing's rest to end. Du Jin's good figure was also at this time It came in handy, and after waiting for more than an hour, he didn't feel any obvious sleepiness.
But at this moment, Si Qing's expression suddenly changed drastically, as if she had dreamed of something bad, or dreamed of something that she did not want to recall. Du Jin did not wake her up immediately, but held her tightly The next second he held Si Qing's hand, Si Qing murmured unconsciously: "No! I don't want it, I don't want it..." Listen. Si Qing's fragile and helpless tone, Du Jin immediately poured her into his arms, hoping to bring her some sense of security as much as possible. He did not try to use the ability of the black blood seal to tentatively explore Si Qing's dream. What happened, Du Jin can't have the slightest connection between Si Qing and the blood mark, let alone enter Si Qing's consciousness through the blood mark. After all, dreams are the deep manifestation of the subconscious.
The conscious, subconscious and subconscious minds together constitute the spiritual realm of human beings. Consciousness is a psychological activity that manifests externally, preconsciousness is a psychological activity that enters consciousness, and subconsciousness is a suppressed mental activity that cannot enter consciousness because it has been consciously suppressed by people who are bound by the thoughts of various aspects of society and family.
Du Jin's chest did have a big effect. He could feel Si Qing's emotions slowly calm down. After all, the movement of holding her in his arms was a bit big. After a while, Si Qing opened his eyes in confusion. , and as soon as she opened her eyes, she felt that she was wrapped in a kind of warmth. Although it was not very soft, it gave her a much greater sense of security than the small self-defense pistol she carried with her. Si Qing also knew that this was Du Jin's arms. Apart from the momentary panic and shyness, she felt more at peace, so she continued to pretend not to wake up and wanted to hide in Du Jin's arms for a while.
Du Jin naturally noticed Si Qing's awakening, but seeing that she had no reaction, he didn't push Si Qing away like a straight man. With Nuan Yu in his arms, Du Jin couldn't bear to give up on this kind of experience. In this way, the two of them hugged each other quietly, enjoying this shy, peaceful and quiet time. After about ten minutes, Si Qing's phone rang, breaking the quiet atmosphere. At this time, Si Qing She could only leave Du Jin's arms with some embarrassment, stood up and picked up the very retro-style button phone on the desk. She did not avoid Du Jin, but walked directly to him to answer the call. After the call was made, a somewhat serious voice came out: "Hello, Captain Si! As far as the report information I got from here, Captain Si, you took away the data card an hour and a half ago. According to the normal procedure, , let me check on your progress, Captain Si." Looking at the notes on the screen of some small mobile phones,
From the name "Major Zhao", Du Jin roughly guessed that this was someone at the level of Si Qing's superior. Then Si Qing turned to look at Du Jin, tilted his head a little and blinked, wanting to confirm Du Jin progress, Du Jin immediately made a
The "oK" gesture indicated that he had completed the program adaptation and writing correction. Si Qing immediately smiled and counted his thumbs at Du Jin, and then replied to Major Zhao on the other end of the phone: "Major, I have A professional who is trustworthy and entrusted has completed the adaptation and correction of the program, and now it is only necessary to test the completion in the comprehensive architecture system.”
"Professionals? Have they been approved and licensed?" Si Qing pursed her lips, seeming to be dissatisfied for Du Jin, but she did not bring her emotions to her tone, but replied in a calm tone: "This There is a professional named Du Jin. His abilities and background have been recognized by Elder Ji and Grand Elder. Although he has not received approval and permission from the Scientific Research Department, there is no risk or hidden danger of leakage." The person on the other end of the phone was silent. After a while, he said in a helpless tone: "Captain Si, it seems that you are still not following the rules as always. If there is a leak or other risks, are you willing to bear joint liability?"
"I am willing to bear all the risks involved in Mr. Du Jin's participation." Si Qing responded without any hesitation. The other party seemed to be surprised by Si Qing's promise so quickly. After all, based on his understanding, Si Qing was not usually like this. Firmly supporting someone, he also had some guesses about Du Jin's identity. Then there was the sound of rustling writing on the phone. After waiting for a moment, Major Zhao said in a formulaic tone: "Okay, Captain Si, what are you talking about?" I will investigate this Comrade Du Jin. Since you, Captain Si, are willing to take the risk, I would like to ask you, Captain Si, to accompany Comrade Du Jin to the R&D base for program proofreading. I will arrange for the corresponding personnel to pick you up. .”
"Okay!" Si Qing hung up the phone very simply. At this time, Du Jincai shook his head and said helplessly to Si Qing: "Xiao Qing, didn't I say that this procedure will be carried out in your name, Xiao Qing? Hand it over?"
"No! Xiao Jin, I don't want to risk living up to your expectations by fighting for ownership." After saying that, Si Qing stretched out his finger and tapped his forehead lightly, and then said in a confident tone: "And "Although I can't match your network processing capabilities, Xiaoqing, I'm not a useless vase! With my intelligence, I don't need you, Xiaojin, to blindly use your own things to support me." Du Jin also took advantage of this. The topic responded jokingly: "That's not possible. After all, I have to come up with a gift worthy of my Xiaoqing. Otherwise, how can I get the approval of Xiaoqing's family?" After hearing this, Si Qing's expression After a moment of concentration, she slightly lowered her head and whispered to herself: "Do you get the approval of my parents... Xiaojin, I'm afraid it's difficult. ." This emotion quickly disappeared from Si Qing's face. She then raised her head with a bright smile and said in a slightly cheerful voice: "Yes, yes, that's true, okay. Well, let’s prepare the relevant information. Although Major Zhao is a little more serious, he is indeed more efficient in doing things. The people he sent should arrive soon, so let’s hurry up and prepare!”
"Hmm... Okay." Du Jin naturally noticed Si Qing's emotional changes just now. This did not require the help of the black blood seal, just relying on Du Jin's enhanced senses. It can be noticed, not to mention that sign language and lip reading are one of the common skills in military academies. Du Jin has naturally put a lot of effort into these two aspects. Although Si Qing's lowering his head caused some trouble for Du Jin's recognition, but He can still distinguish some of them
The word "parents" reminds me of what Si Qing murmured in his sleep just now: "No! I don't want it, I don't want it..." Through these, Du Jin naturally Du Jin was aware of the increasingly tense relationship between Si Qing and her family. Previously, Du Jin learned about the tense relationship between Si Qing and her parents through some of Si Qing's usual words. Later, the relationship between Du Jin and Si Qing also As we became friends, we also learned through heart-to-heart talks that Si Qing's father was forced to marry. Moreover, he was very stubborn about the direction of Si Qing's military career. He insisted that Si Qing could only take a civilian position in logistics and then find a good candidate with him. When you get married, you don't even need to talk about love, and then you can raise your husband and raise your children.
To be honest, if Du Jin hadn't been worried about Si Qing's biological father, and hearing this tradition, paranoia, and extreme selfishness, he would have just punched the man and let him go.
"Changing one's past mistakes" is what the two families in the old Xia Kingdom emphasized.
"A well-matched family" means that the children's marriage is fully controlled by their parents, regardless of the feelings of the parties involved. In many eras, daughters have become tools for powerful men to cling to each other. Marriage between nobles is deeply touching, and love from the heart is often not enough. have to.
Judging from the actual situation, parents' appointment of matchmakers played an important role in the development of marriage in ancient China. However, because of its extremely coercive meaning, it led to the separation of many people who truly loved each other, eradicated individual wishes, and created many love tragedies. These points are undeniable, not to mention that in modern society, the world has undergone earth-shaking changes, and ideological concepts have also undergone great changes. The vulgar ideas of the past have been abandoned. Modern society advocates free love and respects the individuals of both parties. wishes, parents should not
"Sale of marriage" to enslave their children. Of course, Du Jin is also a child. He knows that as a parent, he naturally does not want his children to have unhappy marriages in the future. As a person with rich life experience, he must have experienced and seen much more than young children. Yes, there is some truth in the wisdom of judging people, so if it is difficult for parents to completely withdraw from their children's love, they can't help but feel itchy for it.
"To make suggestions and discuss the pros and cons", parents are of course concerned about the good of their children, and cannot deny their good intentions. On the premise that the parties pay attention to the use of their independent rights in marriage, listen to the friendly suggestions of relatives and friends, and do not classify all their opinions as
"Interference" is the answer. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Especially now that Du Jin and Si Qing have established a relationship, although there is no substantial relationship.
"Established", but the two people's hearts were already tightly linked together. At this time, thinking of Si Qing's father's confusing operation, Du Jin felt a burst of anger. Although he did not know the specific position of Si Qing's father, but It's definitely not low, otherwise there are many second-generation officers in the military academy. Seeing that Si Qing rarely dares to stand out, of course, this is related to Si Qing's own excellence and the reputation of the school, but there is no way to avoid it. Si Qing's parents are definitely not ordinary people.
And Du Jin never believed that since she had established a relationship with Si Qing, her father would not know anything about it. From this, Du Jin could only think of one possibility, and that was Si Qing's parents. No, Si Qing was interested in her mother. There were not many complaints, it was just a dull relationship, which meant that her father did not look down on Du Jin at all. After learning that his daughter was free to love in school, he began to use various methods to force his daughter to surrender and accept him. positions and marital arrangements.
"I understand that I don't like me. After all, it is really hard for Si Qing to follow an ordinary person for her whole life. But now I want to start quickly through various methods. On the one hand, I want to speed up the possible invasion of blood seal as soon as possible. The scientific and technological strength of the Zhongxia Kingdom in this world, after all, some technologies can only be used by me when I reach a certain position. If I come up with technologies such as controllable nuclear fusion now, even if I am not sliced, I will definitely be taken away by others. Go to the fruit, Wen Wen and praise that old thief is the best example. But on the other hand, I just want to be worthy of the status and family of my boss, so I want to climb to a higher position. You don't want to see me or think I'm nothing. Potential doesn't matter, but you don't talk to me about anything, and you unilaterally put all the pressure on Si Qing, letting her satisfy your desire for control, and even do some transactions. This kind of father really makes people speechless!" Thinking of this! Du Jin looked at Si Qing who was putting away his computer. What was growing in his heart was not resentment or complaint against her father, but resentment towards himself now.
"Incompetence" and
"Humble" anger and helplessness, looking at Si Qing's moving profile, already feeling the peace of mind and tenderness that Si Qing brought to him in his arms just now, Du Jin instinctively said to Si Qing: "Xiao Qing, I... ... You believe me, I won't let you bear all the pressure alone, I will definitely get to a position worthy of you, Xiao Qing, and worthy of other people's hearts as soon as possible." Si Qing was stunned for a moment, as if she was a little surprised that Du Jin realized the reality of his situation, but this time she did not persuade Du Jin. She just nodded firmly towards Du Jin with an extremely bright and trusting smile. : "Xiaojin, don't worry! I will wait for you, always will!".
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