Xu Qingyun just thought about it. Seeing Yin Tao's well-behaved appearance, and the relationship between Yang Xu and Yin Tao seemed to be quite good, she didn't think much about it.
During lunch, the whole family sat at a big round table.
Zhang Yuanqing smiled and introduced to Yang Xu's family that all the woodware at home was handmade by his father, including this large round table.
Only then did Yang Xu's family discover the exquisiteness of the wooden table, and they all praised it.
This made Zhang Yuanqing's father, Zhang Shanmin, blush and reveal a reserved smile. He has a relatively introverted personality and is more relaxed when doing carpentry work. He often doesn't say a word in life. The only thing he was lucky about was that his two sons looked like him, but had different personalities.
Zhang Yuanqing's mother, Xia Xiaolan, was relieved to see that her in-laws were getting along well. She was also afraid that her relatives from the county would look down on her own family.
When the two families were having dinner, Zhang Yuanqing took the initiative to bring up the matter of getting the certificate after the new year: "My parents, uncles, and aunts, I think Yang Xu and I are almost the same age. I want to get the certificate first after the new year, and then find a big day to get it." Our wedding has been organized."
Zhang Yuanqing originally regarded marriage as dispensable, so when he was in love with Liu Ting before, he had an indifferent attitude. He clearly knew that she was a scumbag, so he took advantage of her and never touched her.
But for Yang Xu, he was really tempted. Just like Xia Jinyu before, he loved her to the core. He didn't let go until they met again.
He also likes Yang Xu very much now.
Zhang Yuanqing thinks that love means marrying her home, and the two of them face the daily necessities of life together. In this way, no matter how boring life is, it will become sweet.
Zhang Yuanqing longed for the days when he and Yang Xu were truly together.
Yang Cheng and his wife also felt very satisfied when they saw Zhang Yuanqing taking the initiative to mention this matter. They knew that their daughter had a crush on someone else, and the diary was filled with photos of him.
They are afraid that their daughter will be loved too lowly and treated like grass.
Zhang Yuanqing's ability to take the initiative to mention this matter shows that he is not a person who just takes advantage and leaves.
So Yang Cheng smiled: "Yuan Qing, you have a good idea. I think you can get the certificate at any time. After the new year, go to the county to get it first, and then the whole family will have a meal. Regarding the marriage, if it is inconvenient for your parents, we husband and wife The two of you will make arrangements for you."
Zhang Shanmin saw that his eldest son had decided on the marriage on his own. He felt relieved and felt that he had not done enough on his part, so he said: "My father-in-law and my mother-in-law, we don't know much about the customs in the county... This Please tell us in advance what we need to prepare. This betrothal gift..."
When it came to the bride price, he was a little embarrassed. Although the family is relatively well-off now, it is not very wealthy. It is normal for such a good girl to be married off, and how much dowry it would cost.
The couple liked Yang Xu very much and felt that their eldest son could marry such a city girl who was well-educated and respectful to them and others. This is a great thing.
As long as the betrothal gift is not excessive, the patchwork should not look shabby.
Xia Xiaolan also nodded repeatedly: "Yes, we don't know what to do with gold, silver, jade and so on. When our family got married in Huaiqing..."
Saying that, Xia Xiaolan quickly shut up. She took a careful look at Yin Tao and felt a little embarrassed.
When Yin Tao married Zhang Huaiqing, they had a running-water banquet according to the village's rules. There was no one in Yin Tao's family, and they didn't mention the bride price.
At that time, because I was buying a house for Zhang Yuanqing, my family was very tight. I didn't buy much gold, silver, jade or anything like that.
At that time, Xia Xiaolan still looked down on Yin Tao as a village girl. Although she was pretty, what was the use of being pretty?
But since they really got along, Yin Tao, whether as daughter-in-law or goddaughter, has been extremely kind to the old couple. Now I work outside the home, and after my salary is paid, I buy and deliver things to the old couple.
Now that her eldest son is getting married, Xia Xiaolan is afraid of making Yin Tao think too much about the attitude of the old couple.
Yin Tao looked as usual, looking at Zhang Yuanqing and Yang Xu with a smile, her eyes full of sincere blessings.
Xia Xiaolan couldn't help but sigh in her heart, Yin Tao was a kind and good girl, but her second son was not blessed. The old couple can only treat her better in the future and treat her sincerely as their daughter.
Fortunately, Yang Cheng didn't care: "Brother, sister-in-law, there are no betrothal gifts. We only have one daughter, how can we sell it to you? When the two of them got married, they re-established a family. How many of you are there? Daughter, we have many sons. The two families have become one family, so never mention money. As for gold, silver, and jade, let them do it themselves."
Zhang Shanmin waved his hands repeatedly: "This is against the rules, I think we will discuss it again..."
"Brother, please don't change the old customs. They are both within the system and will definitely take the lead in changing the customs. I guess the banquet won't hold many tables."
Yang Cheng is usually stiff and dull, but when his daughter got married, he became more talkative.
When the two families were talking lively, Yang Xu smiled bitterly and stretched out his hand: "Well... you don't want to ask my opinion either?"
"What opinions do you have?" Xu Qingyun responded subconsciously.
As a mother, Xu Qingyun knew how much her daughter liked Zhang Yuanqing. She had been obsessed with it since college. Later, after she graduated, she had no interest in anyone introduced to her by her family.
It took a lot of effort to find one or two that caught his eye, and Xu Qingyun could see the shadow of Zhang Yuanqing in them. She knew that it would definitely not last long.
When you go to others with a standard, it will be difficult to find a suitable one. Because you have defined appropriateness, others can only say that it is appropriate.
Now it seems that the two of them are about to achieve perfection, but Yang Xu himself raises his hand to express his opinion. Xu Qingyun didn't understand at all.
Yang Xu sighed: "My parents, uncles, and aunts, I don't have any objections. I just think that after having a meal today, the two families will know what happened between Yuan Qing and me. As for getting the certificate and the wedding , it will be done two years later. Now is a critical time for Yuanqing's work, and starting a family will still have an impact on him. "
Xu Qingyun frowned: "What impact can it have? I think Yuan Qing will definitely plan well. After you get the certificate, you are husband and wife. It's easy to live in a world of two. We won't force you to have a child for the time being. Besides, , even if you have a child, don’t you also have me and your dad? Your dad will retire early, right, Lao Yang? "
Xu Qingyun turned to look at Yang Cheng. Yang Cheng's old face darkened. After all, he was also a teacher. If he said he would retire, he would retire.
However, feeling the threatening look in his wife's eyes, he immediately gritted his teeth and said, "Yes, at worst, I will retire early and everything about the children will be mine."
Xia Xiaolan also said quickly: "No, no, we can take it with you when the time comes."
Zhang Yuanqing also looked at Yang Xu with a puzzled expression.
But Yang Xu still said: "It's still two years too late. Anyway, no matter what time, I am from Yuanqing. It doesn't matter whether I get the certificate or not, and whether I get a mat or not. Mom and Dad, can you listen to me?" "
Seeing their daughter's persistence, Yang Cheng and Xu Qingyun were a little puzzled, but they knew that their daughter would not lose her temper for no reason, so they hesitated and said nothing more.
