Yes, this is pua in love, or other crimes in love.
For another example, most people don't like going to school or working, but they are still forced to do so. Moreover, schools and work units obviously restrict personal freedom and development in many aspects. However, when they are in it, people will unknowingly feel bad about the school and work unit. Create a sense of awe.
Then when they violate the rules of the school or the unit and receive criticism or other punishments, they will not think that there is anything wrong with this. They will only think that they should be punished in this way, which is natural.
From this, if the original meaning of Stockholm can be extended and given a broader definition, it means that no matter whether it is forced by the outside world or by oneself, as long as it is forced to do a certain behavior or be treated in a certain way, and the inner heart I don't think there is anything wrong, but I take it for granted. This kind of mentality is a manifestation of Stockholm syndrome. Read the book
Chen Huaian, who was imprisoned in the basement, suffered inhuman torture every day.
During the day, she had to write her memoirs according to Wen Zhong's instructions. From the time I can remember until I got married to Wen Zhong, everything I experienced, no matter whether it was right or wrong, good or ugly, painful or happy, as long as I still have memories, I must write it down in detail.
Including everyone who appears in her life and has an impression, how she met this person, what happened to each other, why there was no contact in the end, or the reason why she still maintained contact, she must write it down.
At night, Wen Zhong would come to the basement, sit on the bed, and let Chen Huaian kneel on the ground.
Then, Wen Zhong flipped through the memoirs page by page in chronological order. Once a man's name appeared, or a sentence seemed to refer to something, he would stop and ask Chen Huaian to explain his relationship with this person, or the sentence. What is the meaning behind it.
Sometimes Chen Huaian cannot answer some questions because they are old or have grammatical errors. Some of the content deviated from what Wen Zhong knew, or Wen Zhong had heard of something that Chen Huaian did not mention in his memoirs. Once these situations occur, Wen Zhong will violently attack Chen Huaian who is kneeling on the ground.
Initially, in order not to leave any scars on Chen Huaian's body, Wen Zhong also hit Chen Huaian's body very selectively, such as on his fingers and knees, or with a stick wrapped in a towel, a rubber rod, or a book as a cushion.
But as time went by, Wen Zhong discovered that his father-in-law and his mother-in-law had no doubts about Chen Huaian's "lost contact", and they also had no doubts about the lies he reported to them every once in a while that "Chen Huaian would still occasionally run out to play suddenly." After there was no suspicion, the violence against Chen Huaian began to become unscrupulous.
Regarding the events in his memoirs, Wen Zhong also began to confuse right and wrong.
For example, a former female colleague of Chen Huaian complained to her that her boyfriend was very selfish and always only considered herself and not her.
The female colleague and her boyfriend are both doctors, and their hometowns are in different counties under the jurisdiction of Qinghe City. During the Chinese New Year, the hospital distributed a lot of oil, rice, and fruits to employees as New Year's benefits. The female colleague successfully arranged a temporary shift, so she wanted to take these new year's goods back to her hometown to celebrate the New Year, which will definitely make her parents happy. Since she didn't have a car, she asked her boyfriend who had a car to take her back and then drive back to his home.
At that time, not many people could own a private car. The boyfriend refused the female colleague's request because he had to rush home for dinner and because they had already agreed that he would go to her house to pay New Year's greetings on the second day of the new year.
It was the Spring Festival travel season, and it was impossible to buy tickets for various means of transportation, not to mention that she had to carry large and small bags of New Year's goods. Helpless, the female colleague could only ask her old father to drive her family's three-wheeled motorcycle to pick her up.
After Chen Huaian heard about this, he tactfully advised the female colleague to carefully consider whether this man was worthy of her lifelong trust.
When Wen Zhong saw this, he immediately became furious and asked, "What's wrong with this man?" Why do you want to break them up? This female colleague suddenly changed her mind and even bothered her old father to drive a tricycle to pick her up all the way. Does she think she is a princess? After causing so much trouble to her boyfriend and father, she actually had the nerve to tell her about it?
Chen Huaian was speechless and unable to argue.
Then, Wen Zhong said to Chen Huaian with a frosty face, "What are your three views?"
There is a problem. Not only do you not distinguish between right and wrong, but you are also willing to beat the two couples. Have you ever heard of the saying "I would rather tear down a temple than a marriage?" Why do you still do this if you have heard about it? You have a very bad conscience and must be punished and have to reflect deeply until you know where you went wrong.
Chen Huaian had a cousin with whom he had been dating for four or five years. Because my cousin was older and urged by his parents, he also wanted to get married, so he communicated to the woman about getting married. However, after several conversations, his girlfriend refused for various reasons. After more than half a year, my cousin couldn't bear it anymore and broke up with his girlfriend.
In his memoirs, Chen Huaian agreed with his cousin's behavior and believed that his cousin had tried his best and might not have met the right person.
Wen Zhong was equally furious, saying that his cousin was obviously forcing the marriage indiscriminately, but you actually think there is nothing wrong with his behavior?
Your cousin probably doesn't really like this person. If he really does, what can he do if he waits a few more years? It doesn't matter even if you don't marry this girl in the end. When you love someone, you shouldn't worry about it. Even if you give everything for the other person, it is natural, let alone just a few years of youth?
Chen Huaian was also speechless, and under Wen Zhong's order, he deeply analyzed the problems at the root of his thoughts and wrote a self-examination material of no less than 5,000 words. Of course, you also have to accept various physical punishments, that is, severe beatings.
Chen Huaian's thoughts and perceptions changed quietly and unknowingly, and some views that were completely inconsistent with her previous persona gradually began to appear in her memoirs.
For example, the person Chen Huaian and Wen Zhong were talking to before had little money in the short term due to business failure. On Chen Huaian's birthday, they only gave him a relatively simple gift.
Chen Huaian immediately wrote in his memoirs, "What does it have to do with me if his business fails?" I was able to give very expensive gifts before, but because his business failed, did he have to drag me in to pay for him? Why should I bear the mistakes he made? This shows that this man doesn't really care about me.
At least, when he didn't have much money, he didn't think that he couldn't make me unhappy or affect my quality of life. No money? If he has no money, he can borrow it or sell his kidney. These are all solutions to the problem. Did he not think of it or was he unwilling?
During a date, the partner was late for more than half an hour due to business matters. Chen Huaian also wrote in his memoirs, thinking about it now, I should not have forgiven him for being late for the date with me. This was obviously a sign of disrespect for him at that time. Dating is not important to him. At least in his opinion, dating is not as important as business. It’s a shame that I foolishly talked to him for so long.
Whenever he saw opinions similar to this, Wen Zhong would praise Chen Huaian and add extra meals that night to keep Chen Huaian full.
A few months later, Chen Huaian's memoirs were finally completed. Her original thoughts and perceptions have also changed significantly, but for Yu Wenzhong, this is just the beginning.
Next, Wen Zhong passed Shiji and sent another woman, a Vietnamese who had entered the country illegally, into the basement. This girl just wanted to work in China. She never thought she would be sent to such a devil's cave until she died.
Wen Zhonghui often raped the girl in front of Chen Huaian. Of course, as time went by, and later on, Wen Zhong had a relationship with this girl, and I don’t know if it could still be considered sexual intercourse. In short, it didn't take long for this girl to take the initiative to strip naked whenever she saw Wen Zhong in order to feed herself and avoid being beaten. She would also try her best to cater to Wen Zhong when she had sex with him.
Chen Huaian went from being shocked and crying at first, to gradually getting used to it, and finally became hostile to the girl. Under Wen Zhong's instigation and guidance, he finally killed the girl.
Wen Zhong's method of provoking the two of them was very simple. First, he would question the two of them separately every night, asking them to expose each other, mainly to reveal whether the other party had made any dissatisfied remarks against Wen Zhong during the day, or whether Words and actions that indicate a desire to escape.
But Wen Zhong soon discovered that Chen Huaian seemed to have nothing to expose, so he often only gave Vietnamese girls food, but often gave Chen Huaian severe beatings. Wen Zhong told Chen
Huai'an, the reason is very simple, it's just that Vietnamese girls are "better" than her and are "more trouble-free" than her when it comes to having sex.
At the same time, Wen Zhong also hinted to Chen Huaian through Shi Ji: If you can't compete with your opponents, let them disappear. This is also a fundamental solution to the problem.
After several days of ideological struggle, Chen Huaian finally strangled the girl to death with a wire one day. That night, when Wen Zhong came to the basement, he showed no anger at the murdered girl, which made Chen Huaian, who was uneasy and shivering, feel at ease.
But looking at the girl's body, Wen Zhong fell into distress and asked Chen Huaian, what should I do with this body? It can't just be left here to stink and rot, right?
Chen Huaian looked confused and said that she really hadn't thought about how to do this.
Wen Zhong smiled and said, you see, at this critical moment, you still have to rely on me to make decisions for you. Then, he asked Shi Ji to bring in a large amount of wood, and quickly put together a large "butchering table" in the basement.
Finally, Wen Zhong pointed to the butchering table and the pile of knives on the table, and said that it would not be easy to move a whole body out. You should chop the body into pieces and leave the rest to Shi Ji. You killed the person, and you have to do the dismemberment yourself.
