Li Yuzhen wanted to say, I came to see you two, but Wen Da was present, and she didn't want Wen Da to be too proud, so she just said that she came to see Shi Ji. Who knew that the young Shi Ji didn't believe it at all.
After Li Yuzhen returned to Vietnam, his life was not satisfactory.
When a villager from "Landi Village" visited a relative's house in Vietnam, he encountered Li Yuzhen carrying a child on his back. His clothes were in tatters and he looked sallow and thin.
The two of them knew each other, and after an awkward greeting and a few awkward conversations, the villager accidentally said, "Wen Laizi is now the leader in getting rich in the village," which was a perfect way to talk to death.
If there is anything in this world that is more terrifying than being beaten and scolded every day, the "disease of poverty" is undoubtedly one of them.
However, the "poverty disease" of Li Yuzhen and Ruan Xingzhu is not unique to them individually, but is a collective disease endowed by their country.
When Li Yuzhen married her first husband named Shi, she gave birth to two children, the eldest was a girl and the younger was Shi Ji.
The girl had a high fever when she was three or four years old. Due to lack of timely treatment, she developed severe cerebral palsy.
Under normal circumstances, general fever will not cause cerebral palsy, unless when the body temperature rises above 40 degrees, high fever or ultra-high fever may cause abnormal discharge of the cerebral cortex. If it is not controlled in time and effectively, If the cerebral cortex is in a state of ischemia and hypoxia for a long time, it will cause obvious damage to the cerebral cortex and white matter, which may lead to cerebral palsy.
Cerebral palsy is also divided into mild and severe cases. Mild cases of cerebral palsy only have some behavioral difficulties and can mostly be distinguished in language. Such patients can basically live a normal life after treatment. Severe cerebral palsy will cause various obstacles, such as communication impairment, cognitive impairment, and language impairment. Such patients cannot take care of themselves and require careful care.
Such a girl with cerebral palsy who needs careful care naturally involves the normal use of the family's labor force, and raising the girl is destined to be an investment without "return" and endless daily consumption.
So, when the girl was five or six years old, her grandfather and father carried her in a basket while going out to work. They passed by a river and "accidentally" let her slip out of the basket and fell into the river, where she drowned. .
Half a year later, while doing part-time work building a house for others, the husband named Shi fell from the roof and became paralyzed in the lower half of his body. Families that were not already wealthy were even worse off.
Li Yuzhen decisively took Shi Ji and ran away from home.
In the beginning, in order to escape the "disease of poverty", he took Shi Ji across the border to marry a lame man who was blind in one eye. Perhaps because he ate too much every day at Wenda's house, Li Yuzhen almost forgot how terrible the "disease of poverty" was.
Therefore, "full and warm, thinking and drinking," or in other words, on the basis of satisfying the physiological needs of food and clothing, Li Yuzhen had higher safety needs, and therefore became resistant to Wenda's frequent fists and kicks. This results in escape behavior.
But when he returned to his hometown and relived the horror of the "poverty disease", Li Yuzhen suddenly realized that compared with the "poverty disease", being punched and kicked seemed nothing to mention. After all, the "disease of poverty" is more terrible than death.
Li Yuzhen's third husband's surname was Hai, and they gave birth to twin boys.
When the couple went out to work, they left their two children under one year old at home to be looked after by their grandparents. The two children can't walk yet, they can only crawl.
The houses they live in have rammed earth walls and thatched roofs. Once a wood fire is lit in a simple kitchen, the choking smoke will quickly fill the entire house. Therefore, when the weather is nice, they will set up pots and cook directly in the yard.
Grandma set up a large pot in the yard, boiled a large pot of water, and prepared to boil rice noodles for eating. At the same time, she placed the two sleeping children on a large rattan-backed chair with armrests next to the iron pot.
During this period, grandma went to move firewood outside the courtyard gate, met a neighbor, and exchanged a few words. After waking up, the two children crawled around on their back chairs and fell into a pot of boiling water.
The two children were crying loudly. The grandma hurriedly returned to the courtyard and took out the child, but it was too late. Both children had their skin peeled off. One of them choked a lot of boiling water in his mouth because he was crying, and his esophagus was burned. The other one was burnt and raw
genitals.
After the couple came back after hearing the news, Li Yuzhen's husband went crazy.
On the way to the city hospital, due to the rugged mountain road and lack of transportation, the treatment time was greatly delayed. The child whose esophagus was burned died halfway. Another child was also dying when he was sent to the hospital. The child whose life was later saved was named Hailang.
After the couple returned home, the husband was furious for a while. While the child's grandmother was crying and boiling water, he picked up the pot of scalding boiling water, opened his mother's mouth, and poured it down on the child's grandmother's chin. They were all burnt.
Then, the husband ran out alone. When local police found him, he was already a corpse. Next to the body was an opened pesticide bottle, which was empty.
That night, the child's grandfather pulled a rope to hang himself at home, but because the rope was not strong enough, it suddenly broke and saved his life.
After all these things happened, not long after taking Hailang back from the hospital, Li Yuzhen met Wen Da's neighbor.
Wen Da's neighbors only said, "Wen Zizi is now the leader in getting rich in the village," but did not say that Wen Zizi now has a new wife. This made Li Yu really think that Wen Da was still an old bachelor.
Therefore, Li Yuzhen, who had weighed for a long time, decided to abandon his children in Vietnam again and come to Wenda instead.
This time, although she could take the child away, she did not because she knew that Wen Da would most likely not accept the waves.
At the beginning, we were all in the same boat, each with his or her own fault, and they confessed before marriage, accepted each other, and lived together. But you, Li Yuzhen, disappeared for a few years, but somehow you brought him a "oil bottle" for Wen Da. What do you mean? When Ta Wenda is a "oil bottle" collection station, professionally recycling "oil bottles" for free?
Ever since, Li Yuzhen, who suddenly appeared alone, faced such an embarrassing scene. Fortunately, she still has a son here in Wenda, who can be used as a shield to resolve the embarrassment.
The birthday cake originally planned for Shi Ji was just "a step" or a "bridge" for Li Yuzhen to go to Wenda, but now it has become her best prop to resolve the embarrassment - I really came to see my son, no? Come to Wenda, this cake is the proof.
Whether he left Shi Ji here with Wenda and then ran back to Vietnam alone, or now he abandoned the waves in Vietnam again, it is enough to show that Li Yuzhen is not a qualified mother. If it was understandable to leave Wendashang in the middle, it is completely contemptible for her to abandon her husband named Shi first and then to abandon Hailang.
There is no doubt that this is a woman who does not have a lot of motherly love for her children, and she is also an out-and-out stupid woman. But the root cause of her stupidity seems to be the "sickness of poverty." I have to say that the "poverty disease" is really terrible.
Compared to the wavering and stupid Li Yuzhen, Ruan Xingzhu is much "smarter" than her. I have truly achieved "You hear the lame man abusing me a thousand times, and I will always treat you like my first love." No matter how you hear the lame man torture me and hit me, I will always "love you and want you to follow you" and "will never leave you, my dear." Keep it for life."
It can be seen that Ruan Xingzhu has never forgotten how terrible the "disease of poverty" is. But the irony is that the root cause of Ruan Xingzhu's "firm will" to follow Wenda seems to still be the "sickness of poverty." It was the terrible memory brought to her by the "poor disease" that made her rather "have her hands and feet in chains" than go through it again.
When Li Yuzhen was "beaten away" by Wen Da, Wen Da's tea tree mountain had not yet produced anything, and he still owed a lot of debt. This may be the reason why Li Yuzhen ruthlessly abandoned Shiji and stayed away from Wen Da. From the perspective of "Houheixue", Li Yuzhen's move can be regarded as "a strong man cuts off his wrist and abandons his car to save his commander."
But now that Wenda has become "developed", from the perspective of "knowing people and observing situations", there is no doubt that Li Yuzhen is another person with no "vision".
No matter from which angle you look at it, Li Yuzhen is a veritable fool, a fool made by the "disease of poverty".
But people like her seem to be the most ordinary among all living beings. Believing in what you can see in front of you and caring about what you can reach out and touch seems to be a normal reaction of normal people. After all, no one
Whether you are a "strategist" or a "strategy expert", who would dare to risk your life on an illusory future?
After hearing that Wenda had become the leader in getting rich in the village, Li Yuzhen suddenly appeared, which naturally made people understand what "Sima Zhao's heart is known to everyone". Even her ten-year-old biological son could see it. What my mother meant by "coming to find myself" was "ulterior motives".
But she herself still insists on playing out the drama of "finding her son".
After hearing Shi Ji's question, Li Yuzhen touched his son's head and said, "Mom is just going on a long trip. Besides, leaving you with dad is also to make your life better."
Shi Ji was silent for a moment, but the next sentence completely rendered Li Yuzhen speechless.
"Then mom is taking me away now to make my life better than at dad's place?"
Li Yuzhen's stupidity was once again exposed. She was smart enough to use Shi Ji as a shield, but now she just picked up a stone and shot herself in the foot.
"Come to pick up Shi Ji", Li Yuzhen was just talking casually to cover up his embarrassment. She is now living like a mud Buddha crossing the river, unable to protect herself, and she has never thought about how to settle Shiji, let alone make Shiji "live a better life than with her father."
