Ruan Xingzhu had no choice but to secretly give his father-in-law something to eat when he was hungry. This quickly earned her recognition and praise from the villagers.
Although Ruan Xingzhu successfully allowed her father-in-law to escape the fate of domestic violence by force, she herself was deeply trapped in it and "could not extricate herself." The main reason is that Wen Da is too rich.
Therefore, such a strange phenomenon often occurs in the home of local tycoon Wen Da: every night, neighbors will hear various sounds of beating women and children from Wen Da's house, as well as various insults from drunk Wen Da. Voice. But during the day, Ruan Xingzhu, who was bruised and bruised, looked like a normal person, smiling and greeting everyone she met when she went out.
After sobering up, Wen Da would occasionally touch the wounds and scars of his wife and children, saying that it must be very painful.
The methods and means of domestic violence, with Wenda's determined innovation, are constantly being updated, and new methods and means are emerging one after another.
Fists, feet, and sticks are just staple food, such as rice and white noodles. After Ruan Xingzhu experienced the above-mentioned smashing of the head with a water ladle, poking the eye with a broom, and poking the temple with a knife several times, it gradually became a "common meal" and must appear on the dining table every now and then. A "home-cooked dish"; smashing the head with a wine bottle, slapping the face with a belt, grabbing the hair and covering the head in a water tank and bucket, hanging the person up and smoking it with a thorny plant cane, burning the hands and feet with cigarette butts, etc. , these are all "nutritional packages" that appear occasionally.
In addition to calling Wen Zhong and Shi Ji one a "cheat" and the other a "troller", he also called Ruan Xingzhu a "broom star". The whole family is dead but you are not dead. What are you if you are not a broom star? Obviously, your whole family was killed by you.
Villagers sometimes even feel surprised as to how Wenda's wife and children survived in such an environment.
Therefore, when they met Ruan Xingzhu on the road, they would tell her in a roundabout way that Wenda's two ex-wives had "ran away". They deliberately emphasized the word "run" and then added that you don't have children anyway.
Ruan Xingzhu was quick to understand and immediately understood what these kind people meant, but he said, this is my home. Where else can I go besides here?
Sometimes, when faced with some female neighbors who deliberately talk to her about similar topics, she will also say that even if she finds someone to remarry, I probably won’t know him. What if he doesn’t have a problem with beating people, but has sex .Wouldn’t it be worse to have a sadistic hobby?
Some people chatted with her and told her the address of the local police station.
At that time, domestic violence was not yet included in the Criminal Code, and there was not even a term for “domestic violence”. For most of these "family disputes", the police can only mediate and resolve them, and at most they can only "intimidate" the perpetrators.
This suggestion from the neighbors only treats the symptoms but not the root cause.
Ruan Xingzhu didn't understand this, but said that her men were playing tricks on her and the children.
Well, since you, the one who was beaten, have said this, what opinions can we, the onlookers, have? As long as you enjoy this state yourself.
There are also some neighbors who have a good relationship with Wen Da. During the day, when Wen Da is not drinking or sober, they will remind him not to forget why your first Vietnamese wife ran away.
Wen Da initially said hypocritically that he didn't want to do this, and he also wanted to quit drinking, but quitting drinking was too difficult, and he probably wouldn't be able to quit drinking even if he gave up women.
The neighbors said that whether you beat your wife and children seems to have little to do with whether you drink or not. You seemed to have the habit of beating your wife and children before you stopped drinking. The only difference is that the fight will be more severe after you drink.
Wen Da said nonchalantly that he couldn't be blamed. There were a lot of shrapnel in his body and it hurt when it was rainy, which made him want to hit someone.
The neighbors scoffed, saying that although we have a lot of rain here, it doesn't rain every day.
Wen Da was speechless.
Later, he simply made it clear, saying that if she wanted to run away, she could run away. At worst, I would find another one, and it would only cost a few thousand dollars.
In other words, that woman was smart. If she wanted to run away, she would have run away long ago. She just couldn't bear the money in my pocket. She knew that even if she found another one, she might not be able to find another rich man like me.
The neighbors finally figured it out. Wen Da relied on his wealth to do whatever he wanted with women and was unscrupulous. The reason why he let Ruan Xingzhu walk outside all day long was because he didn't care whether she would run away, and he even firmly believed that she wouldn't run away. This is completely different from his attitude towards his first Vietnamese wife before he became a rich man.
Combined with Ruan Xingzhu's reply to the villagers' "suggestions" and the fact that she is still staying with Wenda, the villagers quickly came to a conclusion: to successfully tie a woman's heart, it is still impossible. Instead of putting iron chains on her hands and feet, she had to hang a gold chain around her neck. As long as a gold chain hangs around her neck, she doesn't seem to care if her hands and feet are covered with iron chains.
But the kind-hearted neighbors still seemed unwilling to "give up treatment" for Wenda, saying that you don't have to care about the woman, and you can even change it, but where is the child? How can you do this to two children who are so young?
Wen Da still didn't care, saying that these two bastards were eating me, wearing me, and using me. What would happen if I beat them a few times?
He would even say succinctly and concisely that this is my family matter, thank you for your concern.
This is nothing to talk about.
There is no doubt that the well-intentioned suggestions put forward by some villagers and neighbors were ignored by Wen Da. He still goes his own way.
Before Wen Da became successful, because he habitually beat his father, the local village committee and police station tried to "find a way" to send him to prison. However, considering the livelihood problems of his family, one old and two young children, the plan was ultimately aborted. In the belly. This shows that there was no shortage of "chivalrous people" in the village at that time who saw injustice on the road.
After that, Wen Da no longer blatantly beat his father with force, but adopted a more "soft" "non-violent method" of not giving him food, and Ruan Xingzhu secretly gave food to the old man, which made Wen Da's father-abusive behavior worse. It doesn't seem that "unbearable" anymore.
More importantly, after becoming successful, Wenda not only repaid the wages of the villagers previously employed to work in Chashu Mountain in one go, but the single wages paid were obviously increasing year by year, and the number of laborers hired was also increasing. This It seems to be the "dazzling light" that covers up all the criticisms about him.
Get rich first and then get rich, and finally everyone will get rich together. This is the situation that the village committee wants more in this small mountain village. For this reason, Wenda even won the honorary title of "Model Worker" in the county.
As for beating the wife and children, Ren Wenda also said that that is his housework. This is a mountain nest, not a seaside. It doesn't matter if there are so many and so lenient.
Besides, great leaders have said that no one is perfect and no one can make mistakes. We can't just focus on people's shortcomings, we have to look at them in two, we have to look at the advantages.
A man who was blasted three times by landmines and was left lame and blind became one of the richest households in the village and created many jobs. We cannot see such great advantages, but we only look at them in trivial matters. Housework, aren’t we blind? It’s just beating your wife and children. How many men in the village have never done this? Why should we keep an eye on people with disabilities? When word spread, they thought we were discriminating against people with disabilities.
Therefore, after long-term persuasion failed, both the kind-hearted villagers and the original "chivalrous men" seemed to be increasingly blind to Wenda's excessive behavior.
Especially for the "chivalrous man" back then, it was unavoidable that he felt a little frightened when he recalled that he actually had the idea of "finding a way" to send Wen Da to prison. This is illegal. How can we do this? ap.
Over time, Wen Da's abuse of the women, children and children of the family gradually became a daily routine, making the villagers accustomed to it.
Several neighbors who lived next door to Wen Da's house did not have clocks at home at that time. The way to tell time at night was to listen to the movements of Wen Da's house.
Various sounds of hitting people's bodies, Wen Da's insults, and the cries of women and children could be heard, which meant that Wen Da had finished eating and drinking, which meant it should be around eight o'clock in the night. When all the sounds stopped, it meant that Wen Da had finished spanking his wife and children. It should be around nine o'clock at night. At this point, it’s time for our family to wash up and go to bed.
Of course, from the beginning to the end of the year, there are occasionally a few days when there is no movement at Wenda's house. This means Wenda went to the county
Or discussing tea sales and purchase business with people in Qinghe City. If this is the case, the women and children who leave Wenda's house on the second day will look particularly energetic, and the smiles on their faces will obviously be particularly sweet.
Just when the abnormal became normal, everything seemed to integrate into the natural laws like the sun rising in the east and setting in the west, becoming an alternative "landscape" in the village and a part of people's daily life, a person who surprised everyone suddenly appeared.
On Shi Ji's birthday, his biological mother Li Yuzhen showed up with a birthday cake and gave Shi Ji 1 yuan.
Neighbors said that Li Yuzhen might have wanted to turn back, but since Wen Da already had Ruan Xingzhu, it was obviously too late for Li Yuzhen to turn back.
Li Yuzhen also knew that her appearance was untimely, but she didn't say much. She just asked Shi Ji if he wanted to follow her. Wen Da did not embarrass the mother and son, and told Shi Ji that he would stay or leave voluntarily.
Shi Ji looked at Wenda, then at Li Yuzhen, and finally asked her: "When mom comes back, are you looking for dad or me?"
At that time, Wen Da was present, so Ruan Xingzhu naturally left early with an excuse to avoid embarrassment.
Li Yuzhen didn't expect that a ten-year-old child would ask such a question. He glanced at Wen Da and said to Shi Ji, "Of course Mom is here to see you."
Shi Ji didn't believe it: "Then why did mom leave me behind?"
