Similar to the previous response, the other party still seemed not to explain anything to him this time. He just shook his head and sighed, and finally said something in a complicated tone: "Hey, you know, if those two guys really accept you, If they really treat you as a companion and teammate, then they will never come to you to express their gratitude."
"this……"
After hearing this, the answer is revealed, and Chen Xiaoyao's words are really profound. If you recall carefully, you will find that although senior people often helped each other when performing tasks in the past, they rarely thanked each other, even for saving lives. Well, everyone has never expressed anything. The typical example is He Fei. First of all, it is certain that college students have extraordinary abilities. In many cases, they find their way out of missions. This is the reality. However, the strange thing is that every time they return to the train after a mission, everyone knows it. Who deserves the credit, but no one has ever thanked He Fei. This is true for He Fei, and the same is true for other senior people. It seems weird and surprising, but the real answer comes from trust, from among senior people. Mutual trust has already been established!
Yes, there is mutual trust and interdependence. It is precisely because everyone has known each other for a long time that senior people have established a partnership in which they can trust each other. The relationship bond comes from both the accumulation of time and He Fei Personality charm belongs to the team cohesion built under He Fei's personal cultivation. In other words, it is easy for a newcomer to join the team. However, if you want to truly integrate into the team, truly integrate into the collective, and even be completely absorbed and accepted by all the senior members, The process is far from easy.
………
When it comes to cohesion, you can't get around He Fei, the team leader. I have to say that He Fei's charisma is indeed extraordinary. He has done a lot of things. He is the one who links everyone together. He is the one who uses his time to wipe out He was the one who personally unified this loose team that had difficulty trusting each other after all the differences among the members were resolved. It was also he who led everyone to persevere until now.
how so?
Why go to great lengths to unite everyone?
The reason is extremely simple, because this is a cursed space, and the dangers here are comparable to hell. He Fei understands that it is impossible for a single person to survive for too long in this place where one may lose his life at any time. If the members do not trust each other, it will be difficult to persevere. , the key lies in unity, and unity is the only best way to effectively resist danger. The word "unity" is easy to say, but in fact it is extremely difficult to do. After all, the train members are all forced to come here by the curse, and they are not mutually exclusive. We know each other, let alone trust each other? The most difficult thing to achieve between people is trust, which has been clearly shown in many movies and TV shows or in reality.
As the so-called superficial brothers, they usually enjoy calling themselves brothers and sisters, but once a disaster strikes, it is not uncommon for them to be wary of betraying each other. When a crisis comes, not many teams can trust each other, but He Fei miraculously did it. He set an example by leading by example. Whenever danger comes, he will do his best to protect and rescue those teammates he recognizes. Friendship takes time to accumulate, and so does trust. As the acquaintance grows longer, and as time goes by, everyone gradually knows to follow He Fei. You can be completely assured that the other party will not betray you, will not cheat you, and will not use you as a stepping stone. Under his leadership, you can safely leave your back to him and do what you should do. He Fei is like this, The same kind of trust was cultivated among other senior members. In the end, a team that was both cohesive and trusting was born. The senior members all formed a partnership. They all knew that if they were in danger, other partners would do their best. Save yourself, and vice versa, and this is He Fei's unique personality charm, and this is also why Ye Wei chose this person as his successor.
Since we are partners, it is basically unnecessary for partners to say 'thank you' to each other.
To give a real example, for example, in the last "Undead Pursuit" mission, Chen Xiaoyao risked his life the whole time to protect Peng Hu and Cheng Ying. In order to protect the two of them, Chen Daoshi once stayed in the hospital and refused to run away. Knowing that the beast was about to come, he bravely stood in front of the operating room. This move could be described as loyalty. Unexpectedly, after returning, the two of them never thanked him from beginning to end. Chen Xiaoyao himself was equally unfazed by this. The reason is easy to understand, because he knows in his heart that if he is in danger, the two of them will also save themselves at all costs.
This is a partner, this is a true teammate, and this is what Chen Xiaoyao said above.
After hearing this, Li Tianheng understood, completely understood. Maybe he was a little confused at first, but so what? As a person who is well versed in human affairs, he roughly understood what the other party meant after just some reflection and contemplation.
Unfortunately……
It is true that partners trust each other and depend on each other, but senior people cannot easily accept newcomers who are not familiar with them. Even if a newcomer does something beneficial to the team, it will only increase the senior person's personal evaluation. , it still takes a period of contact and observation to gain complete trust. Since we are not planning to accept new people for the time being, out of politeness, we will definitely come here to express our gratitude at this time, just like Peng Hu and Cheng Ying did just now.
"That's it, that's it. No wonder, no wonder..."
With a look of sudden enlightenment and muttering to himself, Li Tianheng figured out the meaning of Chen Xiaoyao's words, and at the same time also understood the inexplicable instructions He Fei casually gave before leaving yesterday:
"Oh, by the way, I hope you can gain recognition from other members as soon as possible."
It turned out that this was what the other party meant. At first, he just regarded it as a word of encouragement. He never thought that it would be like this. If Chen Xiaoyao hadn't reminded him intentionally just now...
For a while, Li Tianheng just sat silently on the sofa. Seeing this, Chen Xiaoyao did not disturb him, but stood up and walked to the kitchen. Not long after, he returned to the living room with a bottle of juice, pacing back while looking up and drinking. But at this moment...
Hooray!
Suddenly, Li Tianheng, who had been silent for a long time, suddenly stood up and jumped out of his seat. Because the movement was so sudden, Chen Xiaoyao was startled. The juice that he had not swallowed immediately spurted out on the spot!
"puff!"
"Cough! Cough! Cough! I...fuck you! What's wrong with you? Cough!"
Sure enough, after being choked by Leng Buding, Chen Taoist was immediately furious. He coughed and shouted at Li Tianheng. Unfortunately, Li Tianheng didn't pay attention. Instead, he raised his head and thanked him with a solemn tone: "I understand. Thank you Chen Ge for coming to tell me." So much, I know what to do.”
After personally experiencing a supernatural mission, Li Tianheng fully understood how difficult it was to survive in the cursed space for a long time. He didn't want to die, so integrating into the team as soon as possible and gaining recognition from everyone was the first key. Yes, recognition can only be obtained by senior people After recognizing your character and value, senior people will be willing to save you once you are in danger. Otherwise, you will undoubtedly end up like the Hong Kong man named Huang Tianxiang. The man with glasses deliberately tricked him to death!
Yes, during the mission, Li Tianheng received a call from Cheng Ying. On the phone, Li Tianheng explained Zhao Ping's request in a cold tone. It is conceivable that he did not dare to disobey Cheng Ying's order, so he had to follow the request. He started to lie, and made up lies when he received a call from Huang Tianxiang asking about it. Although he didn't know what happened to Huang Tianxiang, after the mission was over and he returned to the train, when he searched for a long time but couldn't find Huang Tianxiang, he believed it now. The other party had died in the mission world and it was confirmed that Huang Tianxiang's death was closely related to Zhao Ping.
A newcomer who is not recognized by the seniors will often end up badly. Even if most people have no ill intentions towards you, they will not take risks to save you, not to mention that there is a man with glasses in the team who seems to have good intentions towards the newcomer. .
………
"I understand. Thank you Chen Ge for telling me so much. I know what to do."
After listening to Li Tianheng's solemn thank you, Chen Xiaoyao smiled, immediately grinned and waved his hand in response: "Hey, there's no need to thank you, Brother Li, to be honest, I'm very optimistic about you, regardless of how others think of you, at least for me personally. I have already regarded you as a buddy, and your fierce drive to never let go of the chain at critical moments is indeed beyond the reach of ordinary people. Of course, the above is only one aspect. As for the other aspect, I feel that you and I were once the same person. There are some similarities, bro.”
For some reason, when Chen Xiaoyao mentioned his former buddy, Chen Xiaoyao's smiling face changed slightly, and he inadvertently showed a trace of loss, a fleeting and obscure loss.
Li Tianheng was very happy to learn that besides He Fei, another senior member of the team had recognized him face to face. After all, in his personal impression, both He Fei and Chen Xiaoyao were both very strong and extraordinary, and they were able to obtain both of them one after another. How could he not be happy if he was recognized? How to be unhappy? only……
What does the end of Chen Xiaoyao's words mean? Why do you say that you resemble one of his friends?
"Um, who is your friend?"
Listening to the glitchy young man's curious questions, Chen Xiaoyao did not answer. Instead, he changed the subject and reached into his pocket. Under the gaze of Li Tianheng's eyes, which were getting wider and wider, he took out a box of game cards. A box called "Monopoly" 'Fun games!
Ignoring the problem, the young man was dumbfounded and shook the paper box in his hand. Taoist Chen showed a mean smile and asked: "Forget it, let's not talk about the past. Come on, come on. Pindao, here is a box of 'Monopoly'. You can do it now." Follow me to find He Fei, I have nothing to do anyway, let’s have a game between the three of us!”
"Eh? What kind of look are you looking at? Why are you looking at me like that? Without further ado, just tell me whether you are going or not? If you don't go, you won't give me Chen Xiaoyao face!"
"Ah, don't, don't, don't, don't, brother Chen, I'm going! I'm going!"
