Jiang Chenghao looked up and heard Xu Xiaoxiao say: "Just let the past stay in your heart."
"But...shouldn't we forget the past before we can start over?"
Xu Xiaoxiao shook his head and said: "This is not absolute. For some people, past memories have become a part of their lives. They are bones connected to flesh. If you let them remove them, it will be difficult to calm down." The life that came down here was a bloody mess."
Xu Xiaoxiao's words really spoke to Jiang Chenghao's heart.
Jiang Chenghao and Liu Xin'ai have known each other for many years, and the word "Liu Xin'ai" has long been integrated into every aspect of his life.
Want to completely eliminate the traces of Liu Xin'ai?
That's almost like erasing his memory!
Because he couldn't do it, Jiang Chenghao was very distressed.
But now, someone told him calmly that he didn't have to forget...
Jiang Chenghao felt his tense nerves relax a little.
And Xu Xiaoxiao continued: "Let the memories of the past and the present life not disturb each other and balance each other, then your heart will return to peace."
Jiang Chenghao tried hard to keep these words in his heart.
Savor it again.
Then, he sighed and said, "It sounds like it will be difficult."
To an outsider, this isn't difficult.
It means to seal up a piece of the past and let it stay in the corner of memory obediently, without coming out to cause trouble.
But for the person involved... wanting to do this is tantamount to conquering Mount Everest.
As the person who made the suggestion, Xu Xiaoxiao also wanted to provide Jiang Chenghao with practical methods.
So……
Xu Xiaoxiao thought of something, and she suggested: "Do something you like, oh, besides work."
Jiang Chenghao asked puzzledly: "Why should work be excluded?"
"Work can take up most of your time, but you can't find spiritual satisfaction, and your heart is still numb."
Jiang Chenghao deeply agreed with this statement.
During the recent period, Jiang Chenghao had been very exhausted from his work.
But he didn't feel relaxed at all. Whenever he thought of Liu Xinai, he still felt tight in his chest.
If you don't have to work to numb yourself...
Jiang Chenghao looked at Xu Xiaoxiao and asked earnestly: "Then what should I do?"
"Well...find something you really like and are willing to put your energy and effort into."
After Xu Xiaoxiao finished speaking, he felt that this statement might still be a bit empty, so he gave a few more specific examples:
"For example, you can do charity, not just attend charity banquets, but go to places in need and do your part to help local people."
"Another example is cultivating a brand new hobby and experiencing the fun through continuous study."
"Oh, you can also keep a pet. There is no limit on the breed, as long as it can make you experience a different side of life."
Xu Xiaoxiao is a person with ideas.
The suggestions she gave were all things Jiang Chenghao had never thought of.
And, it’s not hard to do either.
I believe these different experiences will help Jiang Chenghao open up new opportunities.
When he sees a new and vast world, maybe he won't be depressed because of any obstacles that he can't get over!
Thinking of these, Jiang Chenghao felt like he had hope again!
His mood also relaxed, and once he relaxed, he felt that he should thank Xu Xiaoxiao.
Looking up at the woman in front of him, Jiang Chenghao said sincerely: "You are really an excellent psychologist!"
Such affirmation made it difficult for Xu Xiaoxiao to be unhappy.
But in order to maintain a professional image, she tried hard to suppress her happy mood and responded calmly: "It's okay."
"But I'm curious, have you ever been in love?"
Jiang Chenghao's words almost didn't let Xu Xiaoxiao break his defense!
Her eyes uneasily avoided Jiang Chenghao, and then she said: "We haven't...formally talked about it."
In order to save some face, Xu Xiaoxiao made a little addition.
But this supplement is really an ineffective supplement...
Jiang Chenghao filtered them out directly.
However, Jiang Chenghao still praised Xu Xiaoxiao: "Even if you have no experience, you can still speak to others' hearts and make people resonate. It shows that you are very capable!"
Jiang Chenghao was praising Xu Xiaoxiao.
But Xu Xiaoxiao kept repeating one sentence in his mind: No experience, no experience, no experience...
No, she has no experience, what's wrong! ! !
Who are you provoking? ?
Xu Xiaoxiao completely broke her defense!
She asked as if she was convulsed: "Do those who study astronomy have to go to the sky? Those who study geology, must they go to the center of the earth? Those who study prehistoric beasts must have seen those monsters? It is enough to see that experience is not absolute! Yes or no, No effect!"
When Xu Xiaoxiao said this, he was very energetic.
It seems that I am using all my strength to break a prejudice.
But Jiang Chenghao was confused.
He blinked and then asked: "Those examples you just gave..."
"What's wrong, is there a problem!?"
"Of course it's no problem, I just discovered a pattern."
law! ?
Xu Xiaoxiao frowned, and then listened to Jiang Chenghao say: "The example you gave is either going to heaven, going to the earth, or being a scourge, it seems to be saying..."
Love is as difficult as heaven and earth, and it is also like a scourge that makes people shy away.
Jiang Chenghao thought silently in his heart, but did not say it out loud.
Seeing that he fell silent, Xu Xiaoxiao couldn't help but ask: "What's it like? Why didn't you finish what you said?"
"It's nothing, just my random thoughts, not worth mentioning."
Jiang Chenghao looked at Xu Xiaoxiao with gentle eyes, and then changed the topic: "Xu Xiaoxiao, thank you."
Xu Xiaoxiao originally wanted to ask further.
As a result, Jiang Chenghao's thank you caught her off guard.
She blinked and asked, "Why are you thanking me?"
"Because you helped me answer my questions and chatted with you, I felt a lot more relaxed."
Jiang Chenghao's recent life has been really depressing.
He also pessimistically thought that he might continue to be like this.
But today, he met Xu Xiaoxiao
And felt the hope Xu Xiaoxiao brought to him.
Xu Xiaoxiao could see Jiang Chenghao's relaxation.
She was very happy that she could help him.
But I don't know why...
Xu Xiaoxiao suddenly became sensitive like a hedgehog.
Just like now, it was obviously a normal thank you, but she elicited a different feeling: "Are you treating me as a control group?"
Jiang Chenghao was stunned: "What control group?"
"After all, you have someone you like, but I don't even have someone I like. This is the contrast."
Jiang Chenghao, who understood, shook his head and said seriously: "The relationship between you and me is not one of contrast, but envy. I envy you very much."
