No one is perfect, no one can do everything.
Even if he is a god, there are times when he does not have enough magic power.
This is especially true for people.
After two people have been together for a period of time, even the best people will have shortcomings.
Similarly, no matter how bad a person is, he still has advantages.
In his previous life, Gu Xu had always wondered whether two complementary people should stay together longer, or two people with common strengths should stay together longer.
Later, Gu Xu figured out this problem. Only two people who complement each other, can tolerate each other, and have a common goal can stay together for a long time.
Later, he expanded this relationship to his own interpersonal circle, but he failed to find the love of his life.
In fact, after he was rejected by Hua Jingjing, it was not because of emotional injury that he did not look for the next one.
Rather, he hopes that his next one will be "a pair of people for life after life."
Sometimes, when you are with someone, you will feel that even after a lifetime, it is not enough, and this becomes life after life.
And it is not that easy to reach this level.
Therefore, he was alone.
To do this, you must first learn to complement each other.
Gu Xu has always believed that two people should learn to complement each other when they are together.
If I can do it and you can't, I can do what you can't do and you can rest.
You can do it and I can't, so you can do what I can't do and I can rest.
A person's energy is limited.
Only by resting well can you have time to face greater difficulties, and have the opportunity to learn and supplement what you don't know, and make yourself stronger!
Simply put, two people fighting are much stronger than one.
Everyone has advantages and disadvantages.
Some people are talented in certain areas. With just a little effort, they can achieve results that others may not be able to achieve in their lifetime.
At this time, we must learn to complement each other and cooperate.
Let your strengths make up for the other person's weaknesses.
However, in reality, when many people are together and see each other's shortcomings, whether they are friends or lovers, they may say, why are you so stupid? Why can't you do that?
No matter what the relationship is, when one person speaks to the other person in such a contemptuous and reproachful tone, it undoubtedly hurts the other person's heart.
But the problem came again.
This is when one person knows it and the other person doesn't, it can be like this.
What if neither of them knows how to do it?
This is related to two people's outlook on life, ideology, attitude towards life, and other issues.
Should two people give up together, or two people should make progress together.
This requires two people to decide together.
If two people decide to study together, they may make progress together.
In the process of learning, you will definitely encounter many problems, which requires two people to divide the work and cooperate.
You learn the parts that you are good at, and I learn the parts that I am good at. In the end, we synthesize it and study it together.
Life requires cooperation, falling in love also requires cooperation, and marriage requires cooperation even more.
Only when two people cooperate happily can a marriage be happy.
Some people say that falling in love is romance, and marriage is just daily necessities.
In fact, this is the most basic beginning of cooperation.
Gu Xu was busy and lonely in his previous life.
Every time he came home from get off work, it was empty and the feeling of loneliness was indescribable.
Several times, he came home so tired that he couldn't speak. He lay in bed and was very hungry. He didn't want to eat takeout, but just wanted a hot meal.
You don’t need to be a five-star hotel chef, just keep it simple.
But such a thing, Gu Xu felt at the time, was more difficult than reaching the sky.
Several times, after entertaining clients, he came home in the middle of the night, drank too much, fell on the bed, and fell asleep.
I slept until midnight, feeling unbearably thirsty and wanting to drink some water, but unfortunately, all the mineral water and drinks at home were finished.
At that time, he had long forgotten who Hua Jingjing was, and he really wanted to find someone to cooperate with.
But no matter how hard he looked, he couldn't find it.
Later, a friend around him told him that if he couldn't find anyone to cooperate with, he could find someone to "partner" with him.
That is to say, if you can't find the person you love to marry, then you will find someone to live with.
At the time, he didn't quite understand what it meant to live together. Later, he finally understood.
He was also very confused at the time. If you want to find someone to cooperate with but can't find one, if you find someone to partner with you, will they be willing to partner with you?
To put it more bluntly, is she willing to serve you a delicious meal when you are hungry?
Is she willing to wash your stinky socks when you can't find them to wear, or clean your bathroom when you're drunk and vomiting?
If, no, he just wants you to hand her your wallet when she goes to the mall, then your role is just a wallet.
Therefore, when people around him tried to persuade him, he still insisted on his point of view.
However, he didn't know what words to use to describe it.
He felt that he would rather die alone in this life than "partner"!
Later, he heard a word called "not giving in".
When he heard the word, he felt that this was what he wanted.
Therefore, no matter how hungry and tired he was, in the end he did not choose to "partner", but chose to "not give in".
And later, he heard that some of the people who had told him to live together told him that they could no longer live together.
He was glad that he was right.
In his previous life, he had not found such a person.
In this life, he believed that his little daughter-in-law would definitely be able to do it.
He was deeply touched by what his little wife said today.
This can reflect her outlook on life from the side.
She must also advocate making amends.
He believed that in the days to come, if they encountered difficulties, there was no doubt that his wife would definitely spend them with him.
She will use his strengths to make up for her own shortcomings.
Instead of saying why you are so useless.
It seems that from the time he met his daughter-in-law until now, she has always been encouraging to him.
What a nice little wife!
Gu Xu thought, the corners of his mouth raised slightly, feeling very proud in his heart.
The night is getting darker and darker. On the street, street lamps illuminate the paths of pedestrians, stretching their shadows very long.
When Gu Xu returned home, he frowned slightly and saw that the lights were on at home.
This was the first time in a long time that he had gone home, and the house was not dark.
"Dad!" Gu Xu called several times, but no one responded.
Gu Xu walked around the house.
No one.
Gu Xu frowned slightly, where had he gone? He forgot to turn off the light.
He looked at the shoe rack at the door. Gu Dahai's leather shoes were lying quietly on the rack, and he stopped picking up his slippers.
Gu Xu opened the door, stood in the yard and shouted: "Dad, Gu Dahai, where have you been!"
According to Gu Xu's judgment, Gu Dahai was probably in the yard. He thought he would be back after a while, so he forgot to turn off the lights.
