Su Aimin looked at his elder brother, and when he said this, his tone was a little cold, "Brother, I don't care what you think, and you don't need to give me any other reasons. You only need to answer me one question, Dad. Is it better for my mother to live here, or to live in the capital?"
Su Aiguo fell silent. Of course he knew that his parents would be better off living with the third child's family, but... he was the eldest son.
Li Xiulian recovered from her daze and quickly apologized to Su Aimin, "I'm sorry, third brother, you know your eldest brother doesn't mean to blame you, he is just too anxious. What you said..."
She didn't know what to say. Which family in this village didn't live with their eldest son? When Lao San's family suddenly said this, she didn't know what to do.
Both Zhang Xinlan and Su Aidang were deceived, so why did the boss and the third boss get into a fight? So if they fight, will there be any issue about their second wife? What should they say?
The couple looked at each other, having no idea.
Su Congjun looked around, thought for a while and said, "I think it depends on my grandma's own opinion on this matter. If they want to go, they can go. If they don't want to go, it doesn't matter."
"You're right about joining the army." Wen Sisi nodded, "Grandma should make her own choice."
"Dad, do you think so?" Su Congjun asked Su Aiguo.
Su Aiguo nodded muffledly.
Seeing everyone's eyes turned over, Wu Guixiang said in a deep voice: "Lao San and the others mentioned this matter a long time ago, but your father and I never agreed."
Su Dalin, who was silent, glanced at his wife. It was clear that she didn't agree, but he had no objection.
"Third brother, although your eldest brother spoke a little too hastily just now, it is still the same principle." Wu Guixiang said seriously to Su Aimin, "Looking across the country, there is no such thing as a parent living with his younger son. It’s a serious matter, I think it’s better to forget it.”
In the past, she was always worried and wanted to stay with Yunyun all the time, but now that Yunyun is busy with work and away from home for a long time, there is no need for the old couple to live so far away, and she really can't let go of her at home.
"Mom, isn't it the same as which son you live with?" Su Aimin didn't understand. Is this tradition so important? It's not something that goes against our ancestors.
"It's different." Wu Guixiang insisted.
"Nai, I have something to say." Su Congwu suddenly looked at her, "Have you ever thought about something?"
"What?"
Su Congwu looked at the uncle's family and said, "The eldest brother is working as a worker in the city now and will definitely not come back to the village. In the future, he and his sister-in-law will definitely take the uncle and aunt to live in the city."
"The eldest uncle and aunt have only one child, the eldest brother, and the eldest sister-in-law has only one daughter. From now on, the two of them, not to mention their own children, will have to take care of four elderly people in the two families. If you and me are added to the mix, then... "
Su Congwu didn't finish what he said, but everyone understood the meaning.
Su Congjun and Wen Sisi are both only children. When their parents get older, the pressure will be on them and they have to take care of their children. If Wu Guixiang and Su Dalin are added to the mix, you can imagine the burden.
Wu Guixiang was stunned. She had never thought of this problem.
Yes, if she and her wife follow the boss's family, how will they live in the army and Sisi?
She always felt that she was in good health and could still move around, but she never thought that if she became old and unable to move in a few years, she would become a burden to others.
In fact, what Su Congwu said was also what Su Qingyun wanted to say, but her grandpa must have felt uncomfortable hearing this, so she didn't speak. Unexpectedly, her third brother directly exposed this realistic factor.
Su Aiguo and Li Xiulian were also stunned. If that were the case...
"Congwu, what are you talking about?" Su Congjun glared at his brother, "Sisi and I can take care of him."
"Brother, there are some things that are not just talk." Su Congwu smiled, and then said, "Actually, grandma can live with us. Shuhui and I are both working, and she has older sisters and younger brothers at home, so we don't need to be too much. Don’t worry, I also have my brother here, so it’s the most suitable thing.”
"Yes, yes, grandma lived with us." Wu Shuhui nodded like a chicken pecking at rice.
Live with the second roommate?
The proposal of this idea made everyone startled again, but after thinking about it carefully, it seems that it is indeed okay.
Su Aidang nodded and expressed his attitude, "I think the idea of joining the military is a good one. Mom and dad, if you live with our second wife, Xinlan and I will take good care of you."
If the eldest brother's house is not available, their second wife will definitely have to carry it. If they go to the third brother's house instead of them, won't his Su Ai Party become a joke?
"Really Xinlan?" He looked at Zhang Xinlan.
Zhang Xinlan hesitated for a moment, then nodded.
If she was still living the same life as before, she would definitely not agree to it, but now that life is getting better and better, she has no objection even if she is raising her parents. Zhang Xinlan has to admit that in the past few years, it was her father-in-law and mother-in-law who took care of her. Those who support this family should be filial to them.
Moreover, she also had the same idea as Su Aidang. If her parents went to the third child's house, wouldn't it mean that they were too useless?
Everyone looked around. Wu Guixiang had a headache. This was originally a dispute between the elder's family and the third elder's family. Why did the second elder's family join in now?
Su Aimin looked at Su Aidang and Zhang Xinlan, "Second brother and second sister-in-law, won't you follow Congwu into the city in the future?"
"Also, when you come back from Wen in the future, he is an officer and will not stay in our village. He will definitely pick you up. Will your parents also come with you?"
"I won't leave." Wu Guixiang objected directly. If she followed Congwen and the others, what was the difference between leaving with Lao San and his family?
"Anyway, our family will basically never stay in the village in the future. It's our choice whether we have customs or not."
Zhang Xinlan fell into deep thought after listening to Su Aimin's words. If she comes back from Congwen...
She and Su Aiguo looked at each other and said nothing.
The family fought over and over again, but to no avail for a long time.
Su Qingyun spoke again, "Nai, so think about it carefully. It's best to live with us."
"I'm busy with work right now and I'm often away from home. Only my parents are here. If you and I go to the capital, you can take care of each other."
Wu Guixiang's expression softened.
Su Qingyun was overjoyed when he saw this, and continued: "If I can go home during the holidays, I can see you first. This time, it is because I have more holidays that I can come back here. If I don't have much time in the future, how can I come back to see you? He Ye? I am not a monkey, I can jump far away."
Wu Guixiang's expression became even more hesitant.
"Nai, just promise." Su Qingyun hugged her arm and said coquettishly, "Promise, promise."
"Okay, the kids have already talked about this." Su Dalin finally said, "Let's go."
Wu Guixiang was silent for a long time and finally nodded, "Okay, let's go to the capital!"
"Great!" Su Qingyun cheered.
Su Aimin and Qin Ying also breathed a sigh of relief.
