Although the instructor's words deliberately emphasized the seriousness of the incident, they were not too exaggerated. Although college students in this era are rich, it does not mean they have a gold medal to avoid death.
No matter how good your academic performance is, if there is a punishment in your personal file, you will basically miss out on a good employer when you are assigned to graduate. Even if an employer wants you, I am afraid it will only be the kind of employer that no one likes. Reluctantly accepted.
And in the subsequent career, that punishment will continue to exert its influence and become a lingering stain in your life. Every time you are about to succeed, it becomes the ant nest that breaks the bank.
The instructor also cherishes talents. It is not easy for an outstanding college student like Yu Changxi to come out of a remote country. Don't waste years of hard work because of these unworthy impulses.
Coming out of the instructor's office, Yu Changxi followed Yu Changle with his head lowered, not daring to say a word.
In fact, Yu Changle was not as angry as he imagined, but more out of curiosity. As a close brother, Sister Mo Ruo, she knew best what kind of temper Yu Changxi had. If he took the initiative to provoke and bully others, she would definitely not believe it.
Instead of her asking aggressive questions, she should let him say what he wanted to say when he wanted to.
After all, Yu Changxi was not as calm as Yu Changle. Seeing that Yu Changle had been sullen and silent, he couldn't help himself.
"Sister, I'm sorry, I didn't perform well in school, let you down, and embarrassed you."
He felt ashamed when he thought that Yu Changle traveled to and from Yangcheng, thousands of miles away, by himself in order to support his family, and yet he was so ignorant and caused trouble in an ivory tower like a greenhouse.
Yu Changle stopped and looked back, his expression more relaxed than he expected.
"Changxi, you don't need to apologize to me. Apart from you, the only person who knows me in your school is Lu Yuting, so if you don't behave well, you won't embarrass me, you can only embarrass yourself."
"As for whether you are disappointed or not, it depends on the reason why you had a conflict with your classmates. As long as you are not actively bullying others, my sister is willing to listen to you about other reasons and analyze them with you to see if there is anything better. Good solution.”
"But Changxi, you have to remember that not everyone has the obligation to trust you, understand you, and give you a chance to explain like me, such as your instructor and other students. Of course you don't have to care about others looking at you. eyes, but if you care, then you should weigh the weight of what is important before doing something."
Ever since Yu Changxi reported to the university, Yu Changle hadn't told him as many great truths as he did today for a long time.
The reason is, firstly, it must be because everyone does not live together and everyone is busy in his own way, and secondly, it is also because Yu Changle deliberately let go and let Yu Changxi grow up on his own.
She knew that Yu Changxi had a pure nature and had many advantages, but the things he lacked were also obvious. His isolated and backward growth environment and his experience of growing up under the influence of others had a huge impact on him.
Take the fight she encountered by chance this time as an example. Yu Changxi's first reaction was not to explain to her the reason for the fight. Instead, he subconsciously thought that he had done something wrong, and then apologized to Yu Changle.
But did he really do something wrong? Yu Changle, who didn't know the answer, thought it might not be so.
Even Yu Changle can think of many valid reasons for fighting, such as protecting the weak, resisting bullying, defending dignity...
But Yu Changxi didn't seem to think that his reason for fighting was legitimate or not, and whether the fight should be fought or not.
If this fight should be fought, why should he apologize?
To put it bluntly, Yu Changle felt that he lacked the ability to think independently. He often acted based on people's faces and judged whether he was doing the right thing based on the other person's reaction. However, he did not form a full understanding of his own behavior, nor did he act based on other people's reactions. One angle reveals his lack of confidence.
But she couldn't say these words directly, which was a heavy blow to Yu Changxi's lack of self-confidence. She chose to use a method that was more suitable for him and reasoned with him in a persuasive way.
She emphasized to Yu Changxi the existence of his "self" and that the first starting point for everything he did should be to consider the impact it would have on himself, rather than caring too much about other people's opinions.
She tactfully told Yu Changxi to look at the essence through phenomena, explore the root causes of things, learn to judge the right and wrong of things from their essence, and have their own insistence on what is right.
These seemingly mature principles are all lessons learned from her own experience in wading out of pits in her previous life. But now she seems to think that it is a kind of weakness for people to be too good at introspecting themselves.
Yu Changxi listened very carefully. His sister's words were gentle but serious. He couldn't help but start to think about the question Yu Changle asked him.
After a long time, Yu Changxi said solemnly:
"Sister, I have thought about it carefully. This conflict with my classmates was to safeguard Tugen's dignity and resist their bullying, so I think it was not wrong for me to stand up. What was wrong was that the method I took was wrong, and I used violence to It is not advisable to control violence.”
Yu Changle also responded seriously: "Sister, I believe in your judgment. Since you think there is nothing wrong with you standing up to stop their bullying, then believe in yourself and stick to the right stance next time. All that needs to be changed is the way. .”
"Smart people should use smart methods to solve problems. Otherwise, not only will the problem not be solved, but they will make themselves embarrassed, and the gain will outweigh the loss."
Yu Changxi nodded solemnly. His sister did not simply feel angry and disappointed because of his fight. Instead, she affirmed his original intention, which gave him more confidence after being affirmed in his uneasy heart.
Yu Changle did not continue to preach. For more things, Yu Changxi still needed to think more on his own to find the answer.
Yu Changle took him to the drugstore to buy some ointment before leaving. After the siblings separated, Yu Changxi felt guilty as he took the pastries that Yu Changle brought him back from Yangcheng.
He once determined to enter a university in Jinbo City just to reunite with his sister and take over the burden that her sister has been carrying on her shoulders as a man.
But after he came, apart from enjoying the care of his sister and brother-in-law, he didn't seem to do much for the family. He couldn't even study hard in school.
Even if his sister is not disappointed in him, what about himself?
And Bo Ling, why couldn't he answer the questions she asked him on the day they separated...
Yu Changxi returned to the dormitory with a heavy heart. The door of the dormitory was ajar. Before he could push it open, he heard Zhang Tugen's shocked and angry questioning from inside:
"Are you telling the truth?! The instructor really said that we would be disqualified from the dormitory and the 204 evaluation?!"
