The ghostly pregnant woman walked into the department and sat on the chair.
Jiang Linxian saw that her face was very pale and her condition was very poor.
He Xuelian adjusted the delicate gold-rimmed glasses on the bridge of her nose with her hands and asked: "Hello, do you have any psychological problems that you need consultation with?"
"I found out that when I was pregnant, my husband did something sorry for me behind my back."
The ghostly pregnant woman spoke with a bit of anxiety and anger in her tone.
"Can you tell me specifically what I did to you behind your back?"
He Xuelian asked.
The ghostly pregnant woman began to complain: "I find that he is not treating me well at all now. He always looks at me in a weird way."
"When he calls, he always avoids me."
"Also, when he sends messages on his mobile phone, he laughs from time to time."
"Every time I asked him who he was texting, he said it was about work."
"As soon as I asked him to check his mobile phone, he refused to show it to me on the grounds of company trade secrets."
"I feel like he went to find the mistress behind my back."
He Xuelian thought for a moment and asked, "Do you have any conclusive evidence?"
The ghostly pregnant woman shook her head and said, "Although I have no evidence, I think he must have a mistress!"
"Because of these things, I always have trouble sleeping and feel very anxious."
"I had a few quarrels with him, but he always ran away without quarreling with me."
"I feel like I'm going into depression."
He Xuelian nodded and explained: "Actually, you don't have to be so anxious."
"Maybe your husband is really just doing work."
"Also, you are currently pregnant, so you should stay in a good mood."
"You can try to talk to him about your feelings."
The ghostly pregnant woman sighed: "As soon as I see her, I start thinking wildly and it's hard to calm down."
"After just two words with him, I felt panicked in my heart. It was really difficult to calm down."
He Xuelian continued: "I can understand how you feel."
"Actually, it's not necessary."
"Husbands and wives should understand each other and not be suspicious."
"You can try not to think about these things. The more you think about them, the more they will upset you."
He Xuelian talked with the ghost pregnant woman for a long time, trying to enlighten her.
But the ghost pregnant woman has been in trouble.
Jiang Linxian stopped the notes in his hand and added: "Madam, I want to ask you a question. If you confirm that your husband has cheated on you and found a mistress, what are you going to do?"
He Xuelian frowned immediately when she heard Jiang Linxian's words.
As a psychiatrist, you should educate the patient at this moment instead of directly letting her fall into pain.
The ghostly pregnant woman fell into deep thought for a moment when she heard Jiang Linxian's question.
She still has no conclusive evidence that her husband is cheating on her.
If it was confirmed, she didn't know how to deal with it.
Jiang Linxian said seriously: "Suppose, now that your husband cheats on you, are you going to have a quarrel with him and get a divorce?"
"Then I will give you half of the property."
"Did you abort the child in your belly or give birth to it?"
"Or do you just pretend you don't know what to do and just keep living?"
After listening to Jiang Linxian's words, the ghost pregnant woman suddenly fell into despair, and her face became very painful.
He Xuelian looked at the patient's painful expression and immediately enlightened: "What he just said is just a hypothesis. You don't need to take it to heart. The best way for you at the moment is to relax and welcome the birth of the baby in your belly. "
The ghost pregnant woman fell into confusion and shook her head quickly: "I don't know what to do."
She raised her head and looked at Jiang Linxian in front of her, not hearing any of He Xuelian's words: "What do you think I should do? Can you help me?"
"Of course!" Jiang Linxian said.
"I am very experienced in this kind of marital infidelity."
"If your husband already has a mistress and you are thinking about divorce, then you should be prepared for divorce and collect more evidence to ensure that you receive adequate compensation after divorce."
"Besides, you can't break up with him yet."
"As for the child, I think it is a gift given to you by God. As for how to deal with it, you can make your own choice."
"One more thing is to stay in a good mood."
"Now that everything has happened, no matter how painful you are, it has no effect."
"It's not too late to deal with everything after your child is born."
Jiang Linxian started his enchanting words, which stunned the pregnant woman in front of him.
"But I feel like it's hard to stay in a good mood right now."
"Stay away from your husband." Jiang Linxian said, "You can change to an environment without him and wait for the baby to be born with peace of mind."
"It might be a good idea to go back to your own parents' house."
"As long as you don't see him, I believe you won't have random thoughts."
"When the baby comes out and you really have enough evidence, you can start the next series of measures."
"Of course, maybe all this could be a misunderstanding."
The painful eyes of the pregnant ghost regained some brightness: "Doctor, what you said makes sense."
"As long as I don't see him, I can stay in a good mood."
"Now when I see him talking and laughing while I'm obviously holding my phone, but he doesn't pay much attention to me while I'm pregnant, I get upset and have random thoughts."
Jiang Linxian smiled: "It's normal."
"This is a psychological gap, especially when you are pregnant and your emotions are much more sensitive than ordinary people."
"After you give birth to your child, your feelings may disappear."
"So for now it's best for you to stay away from him."
"Thank you, doctor!" The pregnant ghost woman felt suddenly enlightened: "I just don't want to see him now. If he really cheats on me, I will confront him again after I give birth to the child."
"As long as you understand." Jiang Linxian nodded and said.
The ghostly pregnant woman got up and left.
He Xuelian looked at Jiang Linxian with cold eyes: "How can you assume that?"
"Do you know that this assumption of yours may bring her to the edge of collapse, or even directly make her more depressed?"
"I am measured." Jiang Linxian said. With the skills of a psychological counselor, he can control the patient's psychology very well.
"When dealing with mental illness, we don't necessarily need to always emphasize positive and optimistic guidance. After all, every ghost's life is already in dire straits."
"We should help them find hope in dire straits."
“Sometimes it’s better to block things than to block them.”
"In the worst situation, being able to guide them to move on is the best psychological guidance."
Jiang Linxian's words shocked He Xuelian next to her.
It seemed to have given her a new revelation.
She has always emphasized educating patients to be positive and optimistic, but she has never thought about how to help them get out of desperate situations and touch hope.
The cold heart in my heart seemed to be beginning to show signs of melting at this moment.
[He Xuelian is inspired by your concept of medical practice and has a favorable impression of you +20! 】
